Mommy and Daddy
The Monkees Lyrics


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Ask your mommy and daddy, "What happened to the Indian?
How come they're all living in places
With too much snow or too much sand?"
Tell your mommy, "I got a funny feeling deep inside of me"
Ask your daddy, "Is it really as bad as people make it seem?"

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Ask your mommy why everybody swallows all those little pills
Ask your daddy why that soldier doesn't care who he kills
After they've put you to sleep and tucked you safely down in your bed
Whisper, "Mommy and Daddy would you rather that
I learned it from my friends, instead?
Do you think I'm to young to know, to see, to feel, or hear
My questions need an answer or a vacuum will appear"

Don't be surprised if they turn and walk away
And tell your mommy and daddy that you love them anyway
That you love them anyway
Give them a kiss




Love will set you free
Kings of EMI

Overall Meaning

The Monkees's song Mommy And Daddy is a commentary on the issues and social turmoil of the late 1960s. The lyrics encourage children to question their parents about the state of the world and the problems faced by marginalized communities such as Native Americans. The first verse urges children to ask their parents why Native Americans are living in places with extreme weather, suggesting that they are forced to live in undesirable lands due to colonization and displacement. The second verse references pharmaceuticals and the Vietnam War, questioning why people take pills and why soldiers don't care about the lives they take.


The chorus warns that parents may not be willing to answer their children's questions and may even walk away, but it's important to express love for them regardless. The final line, "Love will set you free," is a reminder that even in times of social upheaval, love and compassion are powerful tools for creating positive change.


Line by Line Meaning

Ask your mommy and daddy, "What happened to the Indian?
Inquire of your parents regarding the history and current state of indigenous peoples in America


How come they're all living in places With too much snow or too much sand?"
Wonder why Native Americans are often forced to reside in less desirable locations with extreme climates


Tell your mommy, "I got a funny feeling deep inside of me"
Confide in your mother that you have a sense of unease


Ask your daddy, "Is it really as bad as people make it seem?"
Inquire of your father whether the situation is truly as dire as it is portrayed


Ask your mommy why everybody swallows all those little pills
Question your mother about the rampant use of medication in society


Ask your daddy why that soldier doesn't care who he kills
Inquire of your father why some soldiers seem to have little regard for the lives of others


After they've put you to sleep and tucked you safely down in your bed
Once your parents have bid you goodnight and ensured your comfort and safety


Whisper, "Mommy and Daddy would you rather that I learned it from my friends, instead?
Quietly express to your parents that you would prefer to learn about these topics from them rather than from peers with potentially incomplete or biased information


Do you think I'm too young to know, to see, to feel, or hear My questions need an answer or a vacuum will appear"
Pose the question to your parents whether you are too young to understand and explore these issues, stressing that unanswered questions could give rise to confusion and misinformation


Don't be surprised if they turn and walk away
Do not be taken aback if your parents are unable or unwilling to engage in this conversation


And tell your mommy and daddy that you love them anyway
Reassure your parents of your love for them even if they cannot or will not provide satisfactory answers to your inquiries


That you love them anyway Give them a kiss Love will set you free
Further emphasize your love for your parents and the notion that love is ultimately the most powerful force in the world


Kings of EMI
This line is not applicable to the song's meaning and may be interpreted as a reference to the record label or an inside joke among the band members




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Written by: MICKY DOLENZ

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