The Girl I Left Behind Me
The Monkees Lyrics


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Its old enough to try and tie you down
So, I just couldn't wait and hang around
You always said must be free
But you couldn't see you were loosing me
And messing up the one good thing we had

[Chorus]
And now I'm going out the way that I came in
The game is over now, I couldn't win
My heart is all I have to pack
And this time girl I won't be back
And years from now I'll turn around and see
The girl I left behind me

I told myself that things would be OK
You would come around to my way any day
As time went on you just stayed the same
No, you couldn't change or be rearranged
I'm picking up the pieces of my life

[Chorus]

As time went on you just stayed the same
No, you couldn't change or be rearranged
I'm picking up the pieces of my life





[Chorus]
Behind me

Overall Meaning

The Monkees's song The Girl I Left Behind Me is about a failed relationship where the singer had to leave the girl he loved because she refused to change her attitude even though she claimed to love him. The lyrics suggest that the girl was too old-fashioned and had little room for flexibility, which prompted the singer to leave the relationship. He felt that he needed to be free, but in the end, the girl's inflexibility led him to leave her behind.


The singer tries to communicate his love and devotion to her, but she did not understand. He felt that he was losing the girl he loved because she could not see that her old ways were causing damage to their relationship. Nevertheless, he realizes that things could not change, and he must move on with his life. The chorus of the song reflects this resolution to move on, with the singer taking his heart with him and not looking back.


Overall, the song portrays the bitterness that often accompanies heartbreak. The singer wanted to stay and work things out with the girl he left behind, but he felt that he had no choice but to move on. The song ends with the singer turning around to see the girl he left behind, suggesting that he has moved on but may never forget the past.


Line by Line Meaning

Its old enough to try and tie you down
You have been in this relationship for a long time and it’s starting to feel like a burden.


So, I just couldn't wait and hang around
I couldn't just wait for things to sort themselves out, I had to take action.


You always said must be free
You always talked about needing freedom.


But you couldn't see you were losing me
But you didn't realize that by constantly putting your need for freedom above our relationship, you were pushing me away.


And messing up the one good thing we had
Your desire for freedom was ruining the one good thing we had going for each other.


[Chorus]
I'm leaving and never coming back.


I told myself that things would be OK
I kept telling myself that our relationship would work itself out eventually.


You would come around to my way any day
I thought that you would eventually see things my way.


As time went on you just stayed the same
But as time went on, you didn't change your ways.


No, you couldn't change or be rearranged
You were unwilling to change or compromise.


I'm picking up the pieces of my life
I'm moving on and trying to put my life back together.


[Chorus]
I'm leaving and never coming back.


Behind me
I'm moving on and leaving you behind me.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CAROLE SAGER, CAROLE BAYER SAGER, NEIL SEDAKA

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