While I Cry
The Monkees Lyrics


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They told me what you'd do
If I ever stayed with you.
They told me that you'd laugh
While I cried.

They told me what you'd say
That you'd turn and walk away
And find another place to play,
While I cried.

Now I think back on those times
I didn't read between the lines.
How all the things that you said
Never seemed to match the things you did.

Thoughts keep turning round in my mind
Now I see reason and rhyme.
Time spent with you has brought me something
And I've lost nothing If you are that kind.

They told me what you'd do
If I ever stayed with you




And sure enough,
It all came true.

Overall Meaning

The Monkees's song While I Cry is a ballad dealing with the theme of unreciprocated love. The lyrics address a painful reality of being in a relationship where one partner doesn't value the other. The song's opening verse sets the stage for the rest of the song as it narrates a warning from others about the consequences of staying with the singer's lover. The lyrics "They told me what you'd do/ If I ever stayed with you/ They told me that you'd laugh/ While I cried" paint a bleak image of a relationship struggling to survive.


The following verse continues in the same vein as the first verse, with the song's narrator reflecting on the words of others they ignored, "That you'd turn and walk away/ And find another place to play,/ While I cried." The lyrics "Now I think back on those times/ I didn't read between the lines" demonstrate a lack of judgment and intuition which characterized the singer's personality in the past. The last verse shows the singer's adaptation to the situation and the realization that they have not lost anything by ending this toxic relationship.


The chorus expresses the fatalistic idea that the warnings given have come true. Throughout the song, an air of sadness and melancholy hangs heavy as the singer reflects on lost opportunities and wasted years.


Line by Line Meaning

They told me what you'd do
Someone warned me about your actions


If I ever stayed with you.
Warning me about the consequences of being with you


They told me that you'd laugh
I was warned that you'd enjoy my pain


While I cried.
You'd find pleasure in my tears


They told me what you'd say
I was warned about the hurtful things you'd say


That you'd turn and walk away
You'd abandon me when things got tough


And find another place to play,
You'd find someone else to hurt


While I cried.
And take joy in my pain


Now I think back on those times
Reflecting on our past interactions


I didn't read between the lines.
I was naive and didn't see the truth


How all the things that you said
Your words never matched your actions


Never seemed to match the things you did.
Your actions were always hurtful and contrary to your words


Thoughts keep turning round in my mind
I can't stop thinking about it


Now I see reason and rhyme.
I finally understand the truth


Time spent with you has brought me something
Being with you taught me a lesson


And I've lost nothing If you are that kind.
It's better to have lost you and nothing else


They told me what you'd do
The warning was true


If I ever stayed with you
My decision to be with you had painful consequences


And sure enough,
As expected


It all came true.
Your hurtful actions and words matched the warning




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: MICHAEL NESMITH

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