Your Auntie Grizelda
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She knows her mind all right, your auntie Grizelda,
She says she knows my kind, she might, maybe so
Oh, yeah, she's raised you right, your auntie Grizelda,
You only know the things she wants you to know

I know she's having a fit,
She doesn't like me a bit,
No bird of grace ever lit on auntie Grizelda

You can't begrudge her style, your auntie Grizelda,
She couldn't budge a smile and do it for free
So righteous making fudge, your auntie Grizelda,
So proper judging others over her tea

You look just like her you do,
I know by looking at you,
That you've been listening to your auntie Grizelda

Oh, no, don't look at me like auntie Grizelda
It takes much more to be someone of your own
You've got to make it free from auntie Grizelda
Or just like her you'll have to make it alone

I know she's having a fit,
She doesn't like me a bit,
No bird of grace ever lit on auntie Grizelda





Auntie Grizelda, auntie Grizelda
Auntie Grizelda, auntie Grizelda

Overall Meaning

The song "Your Auntie Grizelda" by The Monkees is about a young person who has been raised by their strict and controlling aunt, Auntie Grizelda. The singer of the song is trying to warn the young person that they need to break free from their aunt's influence and be their own person. Auntie Grizelda is portrayed as someone who believes she knows best and judges others based on her own narrow worldview. The singer urges the person to not be like Auntie Grizelda and to make their own path in life.


The lyrics describe Auntie Grizelda as someone who has raised the young person in a certain way and only wants them to know certain things. The singer sees through Auntie Grizelda's facade and feels that she is too rigid and controlling. The line "no bird of grace ever lit on Auntie Grizelda" implies that she is closed off to new experiences and ideas.


Through the lyrics, the singer is encouraging the young person to break free from Auntie Grizelda's influence and not become just like her. The repetition of Auntie Grizelda's name emphasizes her importance and the weight of her influence on the young person's life.


Line by Line Meaning

She knows her mind all right, your auntie Grizelda,
Your Auntie Grizelda is very stubborn and is set in her ways and beliefs


She says she knows my kind, she might, maybe so
She thinks she knows everything about everyone, but she could be wrong


Oh, yeah, she's raised you right, your auntie Grizelda,
Your Auntie Grizelda has influenced and controlled what you have learned and been taught growing up


You only know the things she wants you to know
Your Auntie Grizelda has restricted your access to information and only allowed you to learn certain things


I know she's having a fit,
Your Auntie Grizelda is currently very angry


She doesn't like me a bit,
Your Auntie Grizelda does not approve or appreciate me


No bird of grace ever lit on auntie Grizelda
Your Auntie Grizelda is not a kind or gentle person, and has never received any form of forgiveness or grace


You can't begrudge her style, your auntie Grizelda,
You cannot deny your Auntie Grizelda's personality and behavior


She couldn't budge a smile and do it for free
Your Auntie Grizelda is not willing to be kind or friendly unless she is benefiting in some way


So righteous making fudge, your auntie Grizelda,
Your Auntie Grizelda thinks she is better than others and takes pride in her baking skills


So proper judging others over her tea
Your Auntie Grizelda enjoys criticizing and condemning others while having tea


You look just like her you do,
You resemble your Auntie Grizelda in your behavior and attitudes


I know by looking at you,
I can tell that you have been influenced by your Auntie Grizelda


That you've been listening to your auntie Grizelda
You have been following and obeying your Auntie Grizelda's words and actions


Oh, no, don't look at me like auntie Grizelda
Do not treat me with the same disapproval and criticism as your Auntie Grizelda


It takes much more to be someone of your own
It takes courage and independence to develop your own personality and identity


You've got to make it free from auntie Grizelda
You need to break free from your Auntie Grizelda's control and influence


Or just like her you'll have to make it alone
If you do not develop your own identity, you will end up like your Auntie Grizelda and live a solitary life


Auntie Grizelda, auntie Grizelda
Repeating the name of the song and character as a refrain


Auntie Grizelda, auntie Grizelda
Repeating the name of the song and character as a refrain




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Written by: DIANE HILDERBRAND, JACK KELLER

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