Watching You Well
The National Lyrics


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You stand now, on yourself
A little moon is coming in the room
You stand there still
Like you were in the arms of
Everyone you ever wanted

I was watching you well
I won't stop you, I won't speak
The water on your cheek is the only thing smooth and
I'm ashamed that I'm ashamed of you
Standing in my room, lest more water overtake you

And I was watching you, watching you well

Why won't you leave me quicker?
Why won't you leave me?

I'm ashamed that I'm ashamed of you
For standing in my room, lest more water overtake you

I won't stop you
And I won't speak





Why won't you leave me quicker?
Why won't you leave me?

Overall Meaning

The National's song Watching You Well is a melancholic and introspective reflection on the complexities of human relationships, and the struggle between intimacy and distance. The opening lines set the scene with a little moon coming into the room, creating a sense of an intimate and private moment. The singer is observing the other person quietly, provoking a sense of detachment, while the other person is lost in their own emotional world, imagining they are in the arms of everyone they ever wanted.


The singer expresses a sense of shame for feeling that way, highlighting a conflicted sense of connection and disconnection. They watch, but don't act, and the water on the other person's cheek is the only thing that's smooth, perhaps referring to the way tears smooth out the rough edges of emotions. The line "why won't you leave me?" could be interpreted as both a plea and a desire to maintain a safe distance, as if the singer is uncertain of what they truly want.


The line "I won't speak, and I won't stop you" leaves room for the ambiguity, as the singer doesn't interfere, but also doesn't make any effort to engage. The song ends with the singer's ambiguous plea for the other person to leave quicker, perhaps a sign of their internal conflict between wanting and not wanting intimacy.


Overall, Watching You Well is a poignant and introspective song that explores the complexities of human emotion and the struggle to balance intimacy and distance in relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

You stand now, on yourself
You are standing alone, relying only on yourself.


A little moon is coming in the room
The room is dimly lit by a small moonlight.


You stand there still
You are standing motionless.


Like you were in the arms of everyone you ever wanted
You are standing as if you have already achieved everything that you have ever wanted.


I was watching you well
I was observing you closely and carefully.


I won't stop you, I won't speak
I won't interfere with your actions or say anything.


The water on your cheek is the only thing smooth
The only thing that is not disturbed on your face is the water droplet on your cheek.


And I'm ashamed that I'm ashamed of you
I feel embarrassed about myself for feeling embarrassed of you.


Standing in my room, lest more water overtake you
You are standing in my room, trying to avoid being submerged in your emotions.


And I was watching you, watching you well
I was paying close attention to you as you tried to control your emotions.


Why won't you leave me quicker?
Why won't you just go and leave me alone?


Why won't you leave me?
I wish you would leave me alone.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Bryan Devendorf, Matthew Berninger

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