Honest
The Neighbourhood Lyrics


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Patience, test my patience.
If I made it too hard for you maybe you should've changed it.

Say it, you should say it,
'Cause I'd say I was wrong just to make it fill all the spaces.

Waiting, always waiting.
If I gave you control would you say that (We could've saved it?)

I hope you find a way to be yourself someday,
In weakness or in strength,
Change can be amazing.
So I pray for the best, I pray for the best for you.

I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me, with me
I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me, with me

Chasing, always chasing dreams.
Why'd you stick around, why'd you stay with me?
Why'd you fake it?

Hesitation is killing me too.
But I couldn't save it, I couldn't save it.

I hope you find a way to be yourself someday,
In weakness or in strength,
Change can be amazing.
So I pray for the best, I pray for the best for you.

I hope you find a way to be yourself someday,
In weakness or in strength,
Change can be amazing.
So I pray for the best, I pray for the best for you.

I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me, with me
I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me, with me
I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me, with me




I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest
I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest

Overall Meaning

In "Honest," The Neighbourhood explores the complexities of a deteriorating relationship. The song's lyrics center around the idea of honesty and the frustration that comes from feeling like someone is not being true with you. The line "If I made it too hard for you maybe you should've changed it" suggests that the singer feels like they may have contributed to the dishonesty in some way. They also admit to their own faults ("I'd say I was wrong just to make it fill all the spaces") and express a desire for their partner to be honest with them.


The chorus repeats the desire for honesty and transparency: "I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me, with me." The singer recognizes that the relationship is not salvageable ("But I couldn't save it, I couldn't save it") and expresses a hope that their partner will find a way to be themselves and embrace change. The song ends on a wistful note, with the repetition of the line "I wish you could be honest" emphasizing the importance of honesty in any relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Patience, test my patience.
I am willing to wait, but it's not easy.


If I made it too hard for you maybe you should've changed it.
If I asked for too much, you should have said so.


Say it, you should say it,
You should speak up.


'Cause I'd say I was wrong just to make it fill all the spaces.
I would apologize just to avoid conflict.


Waiting, always waiting.
I am always waiting for you.


If I gave you control would you say that (We could've saved it?)
If you had more say, could we have made it work?


I hope you find a way to be yourself someday,
I hope you can be true to yourself.


In weakness or in strength,
No matter what, whether you feel strong or weak.


Change can be amazing.
Change can be a wonderful thing.


So I pray for the best, I pray for the best for you.
I hope things work out for you.


I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me, with me
I want you to be open and truthful with me.


Chasing, always chasing dreams.
We are always chasing our dreams, but what are we really after?


Why'd you stick around, why'd you stay with me?
Why did you stay with me if you didn't really want to?


Why'd you fake it?
Why did you pretend to be something you're not?


Hesitation is killing me too.
I am also struggling with indecisiveness.


But I couldn't save it, I couldn't save it.
I couldn't make things work, no matter how hard I tried.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Anthem Entertainment
Written by: JEREMY FREEDMAN, JESSE RUTHERFORD, MIKE MARGOTT, ZACHARY ABELS

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@nikolaa..

my top 5:
1. scary love
2. alleyways
3. honest
4. let it go
5. you get me so high

I wrote this ^ like 4 months ago so here’s my top 5 now:
1) a little death
2) blue 😩
3) wires
4) reflections
5) you get me so high or honest

omg i wrote the first one over a year ago ??? time flies tbf soo here’s my top 5 now (feb 2022 😰)
1) softcore (not bc of tiktok 😕)
2) flowers // compass (i can’t decide lol)
3) dust
4) $ting
5) no grey

2023 now so here’s another update i’ll be back in a year 😇
1) sadderdaze
2) wires
3) sting
4) wiped out!
5) how



@mariaolaru7976

Patience, test my patience.
If I made it too hard for you maybe you should've changed it.

Say it, you should say it,
'Cause I'd say I was wrong just to make it fill all the spaces.

Waiting, always waiting.
If I gave you control would you say that we could've saved it?

I hope you find a way to be yourself someday,
In weakness or in strength,
Change can be amazing.
So I pray for the best, I pray for the best for you.

I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me. 
I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me.

Chasing, always chasing dreams.
Why’d you stick around, why’d you stay with me?
Why’d you fake it?

Hesitation is killing me too.
But I couldn’t save it, I couldn’t save it.

I hope you find a way to be yourself someday,
In weakness or in strength,
Change can be amazing.
So I pray for the best, I pray for the best for you.
So I pray for the best, I pray for the best for you.

I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me.
I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me. 
I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me. 
I wish you could be honest, I wish you could be honest with me.



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@TheXXXOliwciaXXX

God, I'm totally obsessed with this band..

@alejandraorellana4574

Me too!!! and I just know them today!!!

@victoria_ray983

I used to not like them when sweater weather came out and then after a little while I walked into the neighbourhood......get it😂but they are soooooooo AMAZING❤️❤️

@TheXXXOliwciaXXX

TORI_@LOL
hahah♥ Actually, I love them since sweather weather came out! :D Yeah, they are! <3

@willie_mov

I was actually sitting at work with VHS on TV. I hate pop, but sweater weather came on and I was like "damn... This is not bad at all." So I looked it up later and checked out a few more songs, not expecting much, but it just got better and better with each song. Not one let me down. At first I couldn't decide whether I wanted to listen to the same song I just listened to or find more. Lol and now here I am eagerly waiting for Wiped out!. P.S. I love metal, so this is peculiar for me lol

@breanamelendez8356

+Oliwia... me too omg

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@TheSparties

I love this song, it's a shame NBHD isn't more popular.

@SwishaSilva

I think they're popular and well known. Personally I'm happy they're not mainstream, I'd get sick of these songs if the radio over played them.

@trin1277

Anthony P. Doesn't anyone know they split up?

@josezamora1639

lifeaspianist What!?!?

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