Losing You
The New Amsterdams Lyrics


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Stories been boarded up again
Old sins forgotten for new sins

Your habits get old
Your habits get old
I wanted to say
How I wanted to say
Miss the Valentine House sometimes
Good times compounded on good times

What's come over you since?
What's come over you since?
I wanted to say
How I wanted to say

Losing you, I would know
I feel partially responsible, I'm confused
And all I can do
Is quietly grin and resent you

Phone calls made with such urgency
Speaking half-truths

She doesn't know
What she doesn't know
Wanted to say
How I wanted to say

Losing you, I would know
I feel partially responsible, I'm confused




All I can do
Is quietly grin and resent you

Overall Meaning

The New Amsterdams' "Losing You" seems to be a song about a relationship that has gone sour. The first two lines suggest that the relationship may have had some issues in the past, but they have been forgotten as new problems arise. The chorus of "Losing you, I would know / I feel partially responsible, I'm confused / And all I can do / Is quietly grin and resent you" portrays the writer's confusion and guilt about the state of the relationship.


The second verse mentions missing something called the Valentine House, which could be a reference to a place where the couple used to go or a shared memory. The line "good times compounded on good times" suggests that the relationship used to be strong, but something has changed. The line "what's come over you since?" further emphasizes this change and the writer's struggle to understand their partner's behavior.


The final verse mentions phone calls made with urgency and half-truths, which implies that the communication between the couple has become strained. The final line "She doesn't know / What she doesn't know" suggests that there may be secrets or things left unsaid that are contributing to the breakdown of the relationship.


Overall, "Losing You" portrays a sense of confusion and guilt about a relationship that has changed for the worse.


Line by Line Meaning

Stories been boarded up again
The past has been ignored again, new mistakes are being made and old ones forgotten


Old sins forgotten for new sins
The same mistakes are being made repeatedly and new ones are being added to the list, with no lesson learned from past ones


Your habits get old
Your behavior is becoming tiresome and stale


Your habits get old
Your behavior is becoming tiresome and stale


I wanted to say
I have something to express


How I wanted to say
I wish I could express myself in the way I truly want to


Miss the Valentine House sometimes
I sometimes long for the good times of the past


Good times compounded on good times
Memories of good experiences keep piling up, creating a sense of nostalgia


What's come over you since?
What has changed about you lately?


What's come over you since?
What has changed about you lately?


I wanted to say
I have something to express


How I wanted to say
I wish I could express myself in the way I truly want to


Losing you, I would know
If I lost you, I would feel the effects and understand the consequences


I feel partially responsible, I'm confused
I feel partly to blame but I am unsure of the details and circumstances


And all I can do
I have no other options or actions available to me


Is quietly grin and resent you
I can only pretend to be happy and hold resentment towards you in silence


Phone calls made with such urgency
Communications made with haste and desperation


Speaking half-truths
Not being completely honest in what is being said


She doesn't know
She is unaware of something


What she doesn't know
There are things that she is not aware of


Wanted to say
I have something to express


How I wanted to say
I wish I could express myself in the way I truly want to


Losing you, I would know
If I lost you, I would feel the effects and understand the consequences


I feel partially responsible, I'm confused
I feel partly to blame but I am unsure of the details and circumstances


All I can do
I have no other options or actions available to me


Is quietly grin and resent you
I can only pretend to be happy and hold resentment towards you in silence




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Written by: MATTHEW PRYOR

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