The line-up of the group has changed several times during the years they have performed together, but consists of sisters:
* Anne (born November 12, 1950)
* Denise (born April 9, 1952)
* Maureen (born June 14, 1954)
* Linda (born February 23, 1959)
* Bernadette (born Bernadette Therese Nolan, October 17, 1960)
* Coleen (born March 12, 1965).
Don't Love Me Too Hard
The Nolans Lyrics
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Don't push me too far,
Don't try and make me,
If you want to take me,
Then Don't play on my heart
Don't love me too hard,
You're moving to fast,
But don't think it's easy,
So let's make the right start
I know your move,
When you come up close to me,
But I Ain't in that groove,
I need warming up Oh can't you see
Tonight go slow,
We might make out,
Who knows but Honey
Don't push me too hard
Don't push me too far,
Don't try and make me,
If you want to take me,
Then Don't play on my heart
Don't think I'm cold,
And your love ain't tempting me,
Have you no control,
What's your hurry Boy, it's time we need,
Tonight go slow,
We might make out,
Who knows but Honey
Don't push me too hard
Don't push me too far,
Don't try and make me,
If you want to take me,
Then Don't play on my heart
The Nolans's song "Don't Love Me Too Hard" is a cautionary tale about the dangers of moving too quickly in a relationship. The song's verses are filled with warnings to a potential lover not to push the singer too hard or try to rush things. The chorus repeats this message, imploring the suitor to take things slow and not to "play on my heart." The lines "I know your move, when you come up close to me, / But I ain't in that groove, I need warming up oh can't you see" suggest a certain wariness on the part of the singer, a reluctance to fully commit until they feel more comfortable.
The song also touches on themes of control and power dynamics in relationships. The lines "Don't think I'm cold, and your love ain't tempting me, / Have you no control, what's your hurry boy, it's time we need" suggest that the singer is aware that the suitor is trying to manipulate or pressure them. The phrase "what's your hurry boy" in particular reinforces this idea, as it implies that the suitor is trying to move things along more quickly than the singer is comfortable with.
Overall, "Don't Love Me Too Hard" is a song about setting boundaries and respecting one's partner. It encourages listeners to take things slow and not to let their desire for intimacy override their consideration for their partner's feelings.
Line by Line Meaning
Don't push me too hard
I cannot handle too much pressure or force in this relationship. Please take it slow and steady.
Don't push me too far,
I have my own pace and limits, so please do not go beyond them or exceed my comfort level.
Don't try and make me,
Please do not manipulate or force me to do something I do not want to pursue. I want to make my own decisions.
If you want to take me,
If you want a chance to be with me, you have to respect my boundaries and show me that you are worthy of my trust and affection.
Then Don't play on my heart
Please do not toy or play with my emotions. Be honest and sincere with your intentions towards me.
Don't love me too hard,
My heart is fragile, and I cannot handle an intense or overwhelming relationship. Please take it easy and slow.
You're moving too fast,
I sense that you are in a hurry to establish a connection with me, but I need more time and space to get to know you better.
I know that you want to please me,
I appreciate your efforts to make me feel special and valued, but I need more than just superficial gestures and empty promises.
But don't think it's easy,
Building a meaningful and lasting relationship requires time and effort. It will not be a walk in the park.
So let's make the right start
Let us start this relationship on the right foot by being honest, respectful, and patient with each other.
I know your move,
I can see through your actions and words, and I know when you try to impress or manipulate me. It does not work on me.
When you come up close to me,
Whenever you try to get too close or intimate with me, I feel uncomfortable and hesitant. Please respect my personal space and boundaries.
But I Ain't in that groove,
I am not ready or willing to engage in a physical or emotional relationship with you, at least not yet. There is more to me than just attraction or chemistry.
I need warming up Oh can't you see
I need to feel comfortable, safe, and respected before I can open up and trust you. It takes time and patience, so please do not rush or pressure me.
Tonight go slow,
Let us take it slow and enjoy each other's company without any expectations or demands. We can see where it leads us later.
We might make out,
We might get closer and more intimate, but it does not mean we have to rush into a relationship or commitment. Let us take it one step at a time and explore our feelings.
Who knows but Honey
We do not know what the future holds for us, but we can enjoy the present and be grateful for the opportunity to connect and share our lives with each other.
Don't think I'm cold,
Do not misunderstand my hesitation or caution as rejection or indifference. I am still interested in you, but I want to take things slow and steady.
And your love ain't tempting me,
I am attracted to you, but I am not willing to compromise my values, beliefs, or boundaries for the sake of a romantic relationship. Your love has to align with my own goals and aspirations.
Have you no control,
Please do not let your desire for me cloud your judgment or integrity. You are the master of your own actions and decisions.
What's your hurry Boy, it's time we need,
Life is short, but it does not mean we have to speed things up or hurry into a relationship. We need to invest time, effort, and patience in each other to build a strong and healthy bond.
Lyrics Β© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BEN FINDON, MIKE MYERS, ROBERT JOHN PUZEY
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@andrewbates21
The amount of live vocals they did and were flawless is testament to their talent. Theyβre also dancing and not tripping over mic cords, no mean feat Iβm sure
@garethwood6659
I think we forget that these girls could actually sing really well
@chygwelanmeneth
Simply brilliant - beautifully presented, articulate and an interesting arrangement of singing parts. Is it really 40 years ago - where has the time gone? ππππ
@Kimcliff
Very very lovely ! Great music video ! Wonderful Hd ! Wowwow β€
@khrysscassandraalaan8612
Omg Nolands this so nostalgic β€β¨
@sarahedwards8201
β€ still remember the words to all the nolans sisters songs,as if it was yesterday. How weird..we can remember words to a song from years ago and cant remember what happened last week.πππ. Maybe its because music is the best ,and only escape from reality.
@bewlaybrother4460
Remember them as the Singing Nolan's...in the early days when they did working men's clubs.
@cerealoffender4000
Me too we used to sing into a hairbrush, knew every word and dance move. Still great songs even 40 years later β€
@junemurphy1531
Fantastic love the Nolan's great xxx
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