I Don't Know
The O'Jays Lyrics


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Ooh, oh, listen

Girl, you have had played on my mind before
Yes, you did
But this time, I can't turn my back on you, no
No, no, no

Your mean evil ways, the games that you play
The things that yo do and say
My love, you reject, you show no respect
I'm tired of you treating me like that, oh

I don't know if I love you anymore
I'm not sure, you're the girl I used to know

Uh, uh, oh baby, baby, baby
Now I know, I know, you remember

Last night you went a little bit too far
Yes, you did
I saw you outside with your friend in that car
You know that ain't right, girl

It feel it don't change not one single thing
It didn't work on woman or man
I'm tired and fed up, no love and no trust
I wonder what happened to us, no

I don't know if I love you anymore
I'm not sure you're the girl I used to know
I don't know if I love you anymore
I'm not sure you're the girl I used to know

Baby, you're acting strange
But that won't change one thing

It feel it don't change not one single thing
If it was a woman or man
I'm tired and fed up, no love, no trust
I wonder what happened to us, oh babe

I don't know if I love you anymore
I'm not sure you're the girl I used to know




I don't know if I love you anymore
I'm not sure you're the girl I used to know

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The O'Jays's song I Don't Know tell the story of a man struggling with his feelings towards a woman. He admits that she has played on his mind before, but this time he can't turn his back on her. The woman's mean and evil ways, the games she plays and the things that she does and says is where their problems lie. The man's love is rejected, and he's tired of being mistreated. He doesn't know if he loves her anymore, as he's not sure she's the girl he used to know. The woman's behavior seems to be causing him a lot of hurt and he's struggling to come to terms with whether to continue the relationship or let her go.


The man accuses her of going too far the previous night when she was spotted with a friend. He sees this as evidence of her questionable behavior, and he's had enough. He doesn't believe that her actions will change a single thing, regardless of whether it was a woman or a man. He's tired and fed up, he feels no love and no trust, and he wonders what has happened between them. The lyrics are a plea to the woman to change her ways, to start treating him with the love and respect he deserves. But despite the pain and uncertainty, the man is not sure if he's ready to call it quits.


Line by Line Meaning

Girl, you have had played on my mind before
You've been on my mind in the past, but this time things are different.


Your mean evil ways, the games that you play
Your manipulative behavior is hurtful and emotionally draining.


The things that yo do and say, my love, you reject, you show no respect
You constantly disrespect me and our love in the way you act and speak.


I don't know if I love you anymore, I'm not sure, you're the girl I used to know
I'm questioning my feelings for you and whether you're the same person I fell in love with.


Last night you went a little bit too far, I saw you outside with your friend in that car
Your behavior last night was unacceptable and makes me question the trust in our relationship.


It feel it don't change not one single thing, it didn't work on woman or man
Your manipulative tactics won't work on anyone, regardless of gender.


I'm tired and fed up, no love, no trust, I wonder what happened to us
I'm exhausted from the lack of love and trust in our relationship and I'm questioning what went wrong.


Baby, you're acting strange, but that won't change one thing
Your strange behavior won't fix the issues we're facing.




Lyrics © DistroKid, BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Songtrust Ave, Peermusic Publishing, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DON WILLIAMS, KELLY CALLAN-WILLIAMS, KRISTI CALLAN

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Tommy Nabors

One of the smoothest ever by the Jays!

AlligatorShuz

I love this song!

Cedric Edwards

Eddie makes up words as he sings awesome.

caddy848

I like this, Ojays please put this song in your show! SMOOTH!!!

Billy Hill

This song hits me hard. I didn't see her in no car, but I saw her the next day and she did him the night before. That was 27 years ago and it still won't go away.

William Le Noir

Real soul music

Kenny Kinard

Mr. Edwards Eddie Levert being the legendary artist that he is has been making up words for years as only he and his brother Walter Williams can do and be in since. They are true artist. O'jays for life.

Angela Devault

This is music. That's my jam.. I don't know..

James Robinson

Im feelin this jam sippin on the best straight vibin a t l 4life

Angela Devault

This is music. That's my jam.. I don't know..

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