Elders
The Offspring Lyrics


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When we were younger, there always seemed like some
Some perfect mold we were supposed to be
But now we're growing up and I see it's just not that way
Now I feel like someone's lied to me

'Cause I've been true, made good for you
And now I feel used, I'm asking you
How does it feel, how does it feel
How does it feel, how does it feel to be like you?

Tell me now, elders, what were your reasons for
Making it seem like you were so much more?
You wanna feel good because of our accomplishments
Why the fuck don't you just do it yourself man

I've tried, man, I've tried
While you just lied, so now just tell me
How does it feel, how does it feel
How does it feel, how does it feel to be like you?

'Cause I've been true, made good for you
And now I feel used, I'm asking you
How does it feel, how does it feel
How does it feel, how does it feel to be like you?

Look at all the families now who don't talk and don't trust
Because of the way that things have been done




When will you finally learn to leave out the bullshit
And just be straight with us?

Overall Meaning

The Offspring's "Elders" is a reflection on the expectations imposed on young people by adults, and how those expectations shape our sense of identity. The song addresses the frustration of trying to live up to an idealized version of ourselves that we believe is expected of us. It is a realization that this ideal, this "perfect mold," is a construct that has been created and reinforced by the generations that came before us.


The singer of the song, having done everything he was supposed to do, feels used and betrayed by the elders who set these standards. He calls them out for wanting to bask in the glow of the younger generation's achievements, while not doing anything themselves. He demands to know how it feels to be like them, to have played their part in perpetuating this cycle of unrealistic expectations and disappointment.


The chorus repeats the question "how does it feel to be like you?" as a way of challenging the elders to examine their own values and beliefs. The final verse highlights the consequences of this dynamic, as families become estranged and distrustful because of the imposition of these unrealistic standards. The singer implores the elders to learn to be honest with the younger generation and avoid the "bullshit" that perpetuates this cycle of disappointment.


Line by Line Meaning

When we were younger, there always seemed like some
As young people, we believed we were supposed to conform to a perfect mold that existed.


Some perfect mold we were supposed to be
We thought we had to fit into a certain standard to be accepted and successful.


But now we're growing up and I see it's just not that way
As we matured, we realized that this belief was not true and that individuality is essential.


Now I feel like someone's lied to me
We are left feeling disillusioned, realizing that we were misled about what was necessary to achieve success.


'Cause I've been true, made good for you
We have been honest and worked hard for the approval and recognition of the elders.


And now I feel used, I'm asking you
However, it appears that this effort has gone to waste and that we have not received the expected return. We are questioning the worth of trying so hard.


How does it feel, how does it feel
We want to know how it feels to be in the elder's shoes and have someone work hard for us only to be disappointed.


Tell me now, elders, what were your reasons for
We are requesting that the older generation explain their motivations for perpetuating this falsehood.


Making it seem like you were so much more?
We want them to clarify why they presented the idea that conforming is the path to success or superiority.


You wanna feel good because of our accomplishments
It seems like the elders want to take credit for our achievements and feel better about themselves because of them.


Why the fuck don't you just do it yourself man
We are calling out the elders for not taking action to feel better about themselves without using someone else's successes to do so.


I've tried, man, I've tried
We have put in the effort, but the results have not met our expectations.


While you just lied, so now just tell me
We also believe that the older generation was not truthful in their guidance of what it takes to be successful.


Look at all the families now who don't talk and don't trust
We see the negative consequences, such as broken families, of people striving to meet this non-existent standard.


Because of the way that things have been done
The reason for this division and strife is the belief that conformity is the only path to success.


When will you finally learn to leave out the bullshit
We implore the elder generation to stop giving false instructions for success and instead give honest guidance.


And just be straight with us?
We want elder generations to communicate with honesty, and give more important advice for the discord caused by the dogmatic belief in conformity.




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Written by: Dexter Holland

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Nate M

Their best song from their first album in my opinion.

Peter

I like how this album is always fast, from start to finish.
Sometimes it is fun when an album goes all out like that, without any "breathing room", unless maybe you count the intro for "I'll Be Waiting".

Italo Santos

the best song from the very first album.

Джон До

How they can make this in 1989??? This is amazing🤘👍

Michael Hobgood

i like almost all of their songs i like their new stuff perfer their old but all still good

Miguelito Jodedor

How does it feel
How does it feel
How does it feel
To be like you

Gustavo Fabian

That Hardcore-Punk kick and snare rythm with that Hi-Hat sound so fucking hard to sustain trough the song...

Rober tito

great song

Brayden Black

straight up banger

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WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER!

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