Friend And A Lover
The Partridge Family Lyrics


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Na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na na na

Caught in a dead end, you took the wrong bend
To you I'm a friend, but I wanna be your lover
Caught in a hurricane, out in the cold rain
Couldn't make it much plainer
But you still can't discover that I wanna be your lover

Na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na na na
Na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na na na

Night and day, day and night, night and day and night
Oh I need you by my side
Inside, outside, upside down
Everything is turned around without you

Up on a tight rope, below is no hope
'Cause I'm only a friend and I wanna be your lover
Caught in a landslide, feel like it's low tide
Well I swallowed my pride
But you still can't discover that I wanna be your lover

Na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na na na




Na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na na na
Na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na, na na na na na na na

Overall Meaning

The Partridge Family's "Friend And A Lover" is a bittersweet song about unrequited love, where the singer is caught in a difficult situation of being just a friend, while secretly longing to be the lover of the person they admire. The lyrics are well-crafted, with metaphors like "caught in a hurricane" and "up on a tight rope," which reflect the emotional turmoil and uncertainty of the singer's predicament. The melody is catchy with a rhythmic beat and sing-along chorus that adds to the song's appeal.


The bridge of the song is particularly poignant where the singer expresses the depth of their feelings, "Oh I need you by my side/ Inside, outside, upside down/ Everything is turned around without you." This shows how the person they love has taken over their life and that everything revolves around them. The song's message is relatable as most people have experienced unrequited love at some point in their lives, making it a universal theme.


Line by Line Meaning

Caught in a dead end, you took the wrong bend
You're in a difficult situation because of a bad decision you made


To you I'm a friend, but I wanna be your lover
You see me as a friend, but I want something more


Caught in a hurricane, out in the cold rain
You're struggling through a tough situation all alone


Couldn't make it much plainer
I couldn't be more straightforward about my feelings


But you still can't discover that I wanna be your lover
You're still oblivious to my desire to be more than just friends


Night and day, day and night, night and day and night
I think about you constantly, around the clock


Oh I need you by my side
I feel incomplete without you


Inside, outside, upside down
Everything feels upside down without you in my life


Everything is turned around without you
Without you, my whole world seems different


Up on a tight rope, below is no hope
I'm walking a fine line, with no safety net


'Cause I'm only a friend and I wanna be your lover
My status as your friend is holding me back from expressing my true feelings


Caught in a landslide, feel like it's low tide
I'm stuck in a difficult situation that keeps getting worse


Well I swallowed my pride
I overcame my fear and told you how I feel


But you still can't discover that I wanna be your lover
You're still oblivious to my desire to be more than just friends




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Comments from YouTube:

@user-ff1hu2sp5l

❤ perfect

@kimcook844

Su h a wonderful voice, so underrated. Thanks for helping ud through our teen years with great love songs!!

@jasongordon13

Keith rocking the guitar on this one!!! Great cut!!

@brianwirch9216

@josephkissel6062

Just discovered this song tonight! Love it! While this obviously references "Na Na Hey Hey Kiss Him Goodbye," I think Paul Simons's "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover" is awfully reminiscent of parts of this Partridge Family song that predates Simon's "Lover" song ...

@MarkCinque-uq9kh

Happy Supper Bowl🏈,0:00

@eddygsmusicworld1708

Jimmy Page on guitar

@josephkissel6062

Actually, probably legendary session guitarist Tommy Tedesco of "The Wrecking Crew," which was responsible for playing all of the P.F. music as well as about literally 500 Top 40 hits during the 60s and 70s ...

@eddygsmusicworld1708

@@josephkissel6062 I heard of the wrecking crew,great musicians. Thanks.

@magnes498

Really? Ir is great or to much!

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