The Bed's Too Big Without You
The Police Lyrics


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Bed's too big without you
The cold wind blows right through that open door
I can't sleep with your memory
Dreaming dreams of what used to be

When she left I was cold inside
That look on my face was just pride
No regrets, no love, no tears
Living on my own was the least of my fears

Bed's too big without you
The bed's too big without you
The bed's too big
Without you, ow

Since that day when you'd gone
Just had to carry on
I get through day, but late at night
Made love to my pillow, but it didn't feel right

Every day, just the same
Old rules for the same old game
All I gained was heartache
All I made was one mistake

Now the bed's too big without you
The bed's too big without you
The bed's too big
Without you, ow

Bed's too big without you
The bed's too big without you
The bed's too big
Without you
Without you, pew





The bed's too big without you
Cold wind blows right through that open door

Overall Meaning

The Police's song The Bed's Too Big Without You is a reflection of the emptiness and loneliness felt by someone after their partner has left them. The first verse describes the physical manifestation of the absence of their lover, with the bed feeling too big and the cold wind blowing through the open door symbolizing the feelings of isolation and loss. The second verse reveals the emotional aftermath of the breakup, with the singer struggling to come to terms with their feelings and resorting to making love to their pillow.


The chorus reinforces the idea that the bed is too big without their partner, emphasizing the emptiness and loss the singer feels. The final verse encapsulates the futility and sorrow of the situation, with the singer realizing that they have gained nothing and made a mistake in ending the relationship, and that the bed will forever feel too big without their partner.


The song has a melancholic and bittersweet tone, reflecting on the feeling of longing and regret for love lost. It serves as a reminder that sometimes the greatest fear isn’t being alone, but being without the one we love.


Line by Line Meaning

Bed's too big without you
I feel lonely and empty without you here in my bed


The cold wind blows right through that open door
The room is cold and drafty without you closing the door before you went to bed


I can't sleep with your memory
Thoughts of you keep me awake all night


Dreaming dreams of what used to be
In my sleep, I relive the moments we shared before you left


When she left I was cold inside
I felt empty and numb when you walked out of my life


That look on my face was just pride
My demeanor masked the hurt and pain I felt from losing you


No regrets, no love, no tears
I'm trying to convince myself I don't care by denying my emotions


Living on my own was the least of my fears
Being alone doesn't scare me as much as living without you by my side


Since that day when you'd gone
My life has never been the same since you left


Just had to carry on
Despite the pain, I have no choice but to keep moving forward


I get through day, but late at night
I can manage to keep myself occupied during the day, but the nights are the hardest


Made love to my pillow, but it didn't feel right
I tried to fill the void by pretending my pillow was you, but it's not the same


Every day, just the same
My life has become repetitive since you left


Old rules for the same old game
I'm still playing the same game, but without you it's lost its meaning


All I gained was heartache
Losing you has caused me so much emotional pain


All I made was one mistake
Losing you was the biggest mistake I ever made


Now the bed's too big without you
Without you, my bed feels too large and empty


Without you, ow
I feel lost and incomplete without you


The bed's too big
The physical size of the bed highlights how much space you used to fill


Without you, pew
I miss you so much that even the thought of you leaving me hurts




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Gordon Sumner

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@kukol

Bed's too big without you
Cold wind blows right through that open door
I can't sleep with your memory
Dreaming dreams of what used to be
When she left I was cold inside
That look on my face was just pride
No regrets, no love, no tears
Living on my own was the least of my fears
The bed's too big without you
The bed's too big without you
The bed's too big
Without you

Since that day when you'd gone
Just had to carry on
I get through day, but late at night
Made love to my pillow but it didn't feel right
Every day just the same
Old rules for the same old game
All I gained was heartache
All I made was one mistake
Now the bed's too big without you
The bed's too big without you
The bed's too big
Without you

Bed's too big without you
The bed's too big without you
The bed's too big
Without you
Without you
Bed's too big without you
Cold wind blows right through that open door



@glennkarant6760

Its already in me 'ead when I first wake up to the world in the morning, the very last sound I hear before me shut eye at night and all (sub?)conscious seconds in between - MUSIC is my personal savior and never leaves me...I adore all genres - from rock (especially in almost all it's forms) to reggae to classical to R&B to jazz to soul, etc., etc., etc...here's a list of MY personal TOP 69 favorite artists/bands...:)

1) The Rolling Stones
2) Mott The Hoople/Ian Hunter
3) The Ramones
4) The NY Dolls/Johnny Thunders/Buster Poindexter
5) The Allman Brothers
6) Aerosmith
7) Led Zeppelin
8) Santana
9) REM
10) The Who
11) The Psychedelic Furs
12) David Bowie
13) Rod Stewart/The Faces
14) The Talking Heads
15) Robin Trower
16) New Order
17) U2
18) Bob Marley
19) Jeff Beck
20) Roxy Music/Bryan Ferry
21) The Clash
22) Mountain
23) Derek & The Dominoes/Eric Clapton
24) The Police/Sting
25) Guns & Roses
26) Bad Company
27) KISS
28) Jimi Hendrix
29) Nirvana
30) Queen
31) Starz
31) Van Halen
32) The Cure
33) The Young Rascals
34) Deep Purple
35) Lou Reed
36) Billy Idol
37) Peter Frampton
38) The Cars
39) Tears For Fears
40) Tom Petty
41) The Sex Pistols
42) Tommy James & The Shondells
43) The Supremes/Diana Ross
44) Marvin Gaye
45) James Brown
46) Barry White
47) Joe Jackson
48) Neil Young
49) The Pet Shop Boys
50) Tommy Bolin
51) Stevie Wonder
52) Bob Dylan
53) The Stone Temple Pilots
54) The Temptations
55) Blondie
56) Chic
57) Al Green
58) Elton John
69) Squeeze
60) Sade
61) Fleetwood Mac
62) The Grass Roots
63) Donna Summer
64) Journey
65) AC/DC
66) Rainbow
67) Lynyrd Skynyrd
68) Bob Dylan
69) The Beatles



All comments from YouTube:

@Frankincensedjb123

Definitely their best album. The instrumentation, melodies, breaks, everything. Top notch.

@eddyvideostar

Dear Frank Incensed: The early POLICE music was their best. Although Sting tried to get more musical, sophisticated, and jazzy, it didn't work, was not the same, and robbed from the spirit of the band -- to be paid back by commercial music companies.

@IsaacSilverman-gh3oh

Agree…even a bit edgy.

@enricovankeeken1624

@@eddyvideostar "But Synchronicity in mAny ways is like the perfect bridge to thE dREAM Of thE blUE tURtlES"

@johnydee5843

I find it hard to seperate the first two albums cept for walking on moon and this more reggae feel... anyone listening for 1st time to both wd think it's one Double Masterpiece...Played both to death in our cars in 80s till they sounded like mush haha then cd players came in mehhhhhh

@alistairclewes9052

I agree. This is a brilliant album!

@glenfordgreen3277

Yo I love the intro to this where it gets louder and louder, with the rhythmic chord changes, fast reggea beat, this is an amazing timeless creative musical work of art. We salute you The Police.

@amiii5950

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@bouzianegherzouli7164

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@julio_scissors

WALKIN' ON ENDOR

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