Don't stand so close to me
The Police (Bass) Lyrics


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Young teacher, the subject
Of schoolgirl fantasy
She wants him so badly
Knows what she wants to be

Inside her there's longing
This girl's an open page
Book marking, she's so close now
This girl is half his age

Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me

Her friends are so jealous
You know how bad girls get
Sometimes it's not so easy
To be the teacher's pet

Temptation, frustration
So bad it makes him cry
Wet bus stop, she's waiting
His car is warm and dry

Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me

Loose talk in the classroom
To hurt they try and try
Strong words in the staffroom
The accusations fly

It's no use, he sees her
He starts to shake and cough
Just like the old man in
That book by Nabakov

Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me

Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me
Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me




Don't stand, don't stand so
Don't stand so close to me

Overall Meaning

The Police's "Don't Stand So Close to Me" is a song about a young female student who has a crush on her older male teacher. The lyrics describe the girl's longing and frustration, as well as the teacher's temptation and guilt. The chorus, "Don't stand so close to me," speaks to the inappropriate nature of their relationship and their need to maintain a distance.


The song also touches on themes of jealousy, gossip, and accusations. The girl's friends are envious of her attention from the teacher, and other students and staff members speculate about their interactions. The lyrics allude to Vladimir Nabokov's novel "Lolita," which tells the story of a middle-aged man's obsession with a young girl.


Overall, "Don't Stand So Close to Me" is a cautionary tale about the dangers of crossing boundaries and the consequences of inappropriate relationships, particularly those between those in positions of power and their students.


Line by Line Meaning

Young teacher, the subject
The song tells the story of a young teacher who becomes the subject of a schoolgirl's fantasy.


Of schoolgirl fantasy
The teacher becomes an object of desire in the teenage girl's imagination.


She wants him so badly
The girl is deeply attracted to the teacher and desires to have him.


Knows what she wants to be
The girl has an idea of what she wants in life and believes the teacher will fulfill it.


Inside her there's longing
The girl feels intense desire for the teacher.


This girl's an open page
The girl is young and innocent, and the teacher can easily exploit her.


Book marking, she's so close now
The girl is approaching the point where her desires for the teacher will manifest.


This girl is half his age
The teacher is much older than the girl and the situation is inappropriate.


Don't stand, don't stand so
The lyrics of the chorus warn the teacher to maintain a safe distance from the girl.


Don't stand so close to me
The teacher must avoid physical proximity with the girl so as to not arouse her feelings any further.


Her friends are so jealous
The girl's friends envy her because she has the teacher's attention.


You know how bad girls get
The song implies that adolescent girls can be impulsive and possessive when it comes to crushes.


Sometimes it's not so easy
The teacher is in a difficult position because he is responsible for the girl's well-being and education.


To be the teacher's pet
The girl is trying to attract the teacher's attention and affection, but this can also create a power dynamic that is unhealthy.


Temptation, frustration
The teacher struggles with his attraction to the girl and the risk it poses to his career and reputation.


So bad it makes him cry
The situation is emotionally distressing for the teacher.


Wet bus stop, she's waiting
The girl is vulnerable and waiting for the teacher to pick her up, a detail that adds tension to the story.


His car is warm and dry
The teacher has a car, a sign of his relative power compared to the girl who is waiting for him on a wet bus stop.


Loose talk in the classroom
The teacher's relationship with the girl is a subject of gossip among the students.


To hurt they try and try
Other students try to hurt the girl by spreading rumors or interfering with her relationship with the teacher.


Strong words in the staffroom
The situation has reached the attention of the school staff, who are probably discussing it among themselves.


The accusations fly
The teacher may be facing accusations of inappropriate behavior, which heightens the tension and potential consequences of the situation.


It's no use, he sees her
Despite his attempts to distance himself, the teacher can't help but notice and respond to the girl's attention.


He starts to shake and cough
The teacher is experiencing physical symptoms of stress and anxiety.


Just like the old man in
The song references the novel 'Lolita' by Vladimir Nabokov, which describes a similar situation of a young girl's obsession with an older man.


That book by Nabakov
The song explicitly links the story it tells to the themes of Nabokov's novel.




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Written by: GORDON SUMNER

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@fingerscrossed2453

@@philipwilliams5808
Message in a bottle: being shipwrecked
Don't stand so close to me: Lolita
Do Do Do Do: language structure, & how words are treated with importance & flippancy.
Spirits in the material world: state corruption
Every breath you take: stalking
I can't stand losing you: Suicide
So lonely: loneliness
Every little thing she does is magic: shyness in love
Walking on the moon: walking home being drunk & in love

They covered a range of topics. They used a range of instruments & changes within each of these songs.
Bands today use as few instruments as possible, and sing of either being wasted, rejecting love or having a mental health problem 😒 nobody even listens to the radio anymore because of how tiresome these tracks are



All comments from YouTube:

@timesnewlogan2032

I'm shocked that there hasn't been a comedy skit or a gag where someone finds out about a teacher-student relationship, and shouts "CALL THE POLICE!", prompting The Police to show up and sing this song.

@FendiGarcon1

Enjoy the freaking song bud

@timesnewlogan2032

@@FendiGarcon1 I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t!

@NexSkala

Enjoy life man it's a freaking joke.

@maddyh8su

in glee that kinda does happen! lol

@franky528

Not only that! Sting was a teacher before he was in the band

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@JoroJojoro

I love how to the Police music videos where nothing more than them moving around randomly and semi-playing their instruments

@yam83

JoroJojoro The better to let those lyrics sink in.

@TheRealSkycraft28

I agree

@winogirlll

And let Sting sink in. Woof!

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