How many times
The Proclaimers Lyrics


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Well it takes a long time
To find the right woman
The best one there is
Not the best you can do
It takes a long time
To find the right woman
Some men never do
I spent half my life
Lying to girls
Who were looking for love
Where it didn't exist
The rest of the time
I was worrying myself
About what it was that I'd missed

[CHORUS]
How many times
I don't know, I don't know
How many times
I don't know but when it happened my heart started to go...
Ooh-aah, ooh-aah
Ooh-aah, ooh-aah

I didn't trust you
From the moment I saw you
I didn't trust you
And I know it was right
But my head and my heart
Have been fighting a battle
And my heart started winning last night

[CHORUS]

Well I'm bored by pain and I'm tired of sorrow
Give me the word and I'll leave here tomorrow
I don't giva a damn about anything else
The rest of the world can go and hang themselves





ooh-aah....(etc.)

Overall Meaning

The Proclaimers’s How Many Times is a profound song that explores the complexities of love, the pain of heartbreak and the rewards of finding the right partner. In the first verse, the singer reflects on his search for the right woman, emphasizing that it takes a long time to find the perfect match. He expresses regret that he had to lie to women and the burden of worrying about what he missed. In the chorus, he questions how many times he has missed the opportunity to find true love, accompanied by a haunting melody that reflects the sadness of his experience.


In the second verse, the singer admits that he did not trust the person he is singing about when they first met but that his heart has started to win the fight. The lyrics suggest that, despite the pain of past heartbreaks, the singer is finally starting to let go of his fears and learn to trust again. In the final chorus, he declares that he is tired of pain and sorrow and will leave everything behind for a chance at a new beginning.


Overall, the song is a powerful reminder that love is a complex and challenging journey that, for many, takes a long time to find. However, when we are finally able to let go of our fears and trust in ourselves and others, we can find happiness and a deep sense of fulfillment in the arms of the right person.


Line by Line Meaning

Well it takes a long time
Finding the right woman is a long and arduous journey


To find the right woman
To find the perfect match for oneself


The best one there is
Not just settling for someone, but finding the best person one can


Not the best you can do
Don't settle for anything less than your ideal match


It takes a long time
Finding true love is a process that takes time


To find the right woman
To find someone worth loving and committing to for the rest of one's life


Some men never do
Some people never find true love in their lifetime


I spent half my life
Acknowledging that the songwriter spent a significant portion of his life seeking love


Lying to girls
Not being truthful about his intentions and feelings towards women he was with


Who were looking for love
Being dishonest with women who were genuinely looking for love and a committed relationship


Where it didn't exist
The songwriter was not ready or capable of being in a committed relationship


The rest of the time
The other half of his life


I was worrying myself
Obsessing over the idea of finding love and the possibility of not finding it


About what it was that I'd missed
Wondering about missed opportunities or mistakes he had made in the past that prevented him from finding love earlier


How many times
Questioning how many failed relationships or missed opportunities it takes to find true love


I don't know, I don't know
Admitting that he doesn't know how long it will take to find true love


But when it happened my heart started to go...
The moment he found true love, he felt an intense emotional response


Ooh-aah, ooh-aah
Vocalization of the emotional response he felt


I didn't trust you
The songwriter did not trust the person he is addressing


From the moment I saw you
The distrust started from their initial meeting


And I know it was right
The distrust he felt was justified, as the person proved untrustworthy


But my head and my heart
The internal struggle between reason and emotions


Have been fighting a battle
The songwriter has been struggling to reconcile his distrust with his emotions


And my heart started winning last night
His emotions finally took over, despite his better judgement


Well I'm bored by pain and I'm tired of sorrow
The songwriter is tired of heartbreak and negative emotions from failed relationships


Give me the word and I'll leave here tomorrow
He is ready to move on and start anew if he finds the right person


I don't giva a damn about anything else
All he cares about is finding true love and happiness


The rest of the world can go and hang themselves
Nothing else matters to him except finding love and he is willing to let everything else go




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