You & I
The Psychedelic Furs Lyrics


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Yeah I fell in love
Like all good dreamers do
Finally in anger
I gave it all to you
I never shouted it
Like we do in school
And knee-jerk negativity
Just never got me through
And ma she said so carefully
You don't get a vote
This is not a five and ten
This is not a joke she said
It's only you and only I
Bang bang
Bye bye
Now I got a love
To lose myself inside
I don't need to find a face
That I can hide behind
I never shouted it
Like we do in school
Bleed your negativity
Just never got me through
But ma she said so carefully
You don't get a vote
This is not a five and ten
This is not a joke
She said
It's only you and only I
Bang bang
Bye bye




Lose yourself lose yourself
Lose yourself lose yourself

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Psychedelic Furs's song Only You And I are primarily about falling in love and the fierce sense of devotion and intensity that comes with it. The first verse details the singer's experience of falling in love, likening it to the reverie of a good dream. However, the singer also references a sense of anger that accompanies this love, suggesting that it is not all sunshine and roses. Nonetheless, the singer is willing to give all of themselves to this love, a sentiment that is emphasized in the repetition of the phrase "I gave it all to you".


In the second verse, the singer reflects on what it means to truly love someone. They reject negative emotion and "knee-jerk negativity", suggesting that these things do not serve their love. The singer's mother is mentioned as providing guidance on this matter, cautioning them that this love is serious and not to be taken lightly. The chorus repeats the idea that it is only the singer and their beloved in this relationship, and that they do not need any external validation or input in order to feel fulfilled. The final repeated phrase, "lose yourself", seems to suggest that this relationship is a way for the singer to escape from their problems and immerse themselves in love.


Line by Line Meaning

Yeah I fell in love
I experienced falling in love


Like all good dreamers do
In the way most dreamers fall in love


Finally in anger
After a long time, with some frustration


I gave it all to you
I gave my all to you


I never shouted it
I never expressed it loudly


Like we do in school
Like how kids usually do


And knee-jerk negativity
Reacting impulsively with negativity


Just never got me through
It never really helped me


And ma she said so carefully
And my mother said in a cautious manner


You don't get a vote
You don't have a say in this


This is not a five and ten
This is not a trivial matter


This is not a joke she said
This is not something to be taken lightly


It's only you and only I
It's just between you and me


Bang bang
Suddenly


Bye bye
Goodbye


Now I got a love
Now I have a love in my life


To lose myself inside
To immerse myself completely in


I don't need to find a face
I don't need to hide behind a persona


That I can hide behind
That I can conceal myself with


Bleed your negativity
Get rid of your negativity


But ma she said so carefully
But my mother warned me in a cautious manner


You don't get a vote
You don't have a say in this


This is not a five and ten
This is not a trivial matter


This is not a joke
This is not something to be taken lightly


She said
My mother said


It's only you and only I
It's just between you and me


Bang bang
Suddenly


Bye bye
Goodbye


Lose yourself lose yourself
Surrender yourself completely


Lose yourself lose yourself
Surrender yourself completely




Lyrics © EMI Music Publishing
Written by: JOHN ASHTON, RICHARD LOFTHOUSE BUTLER, TIMOTHY BUTLER, VINCENT DAVEY

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My god, this album is phenomenal! Still.

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Psychedelic Furs: A great band, not to be forgotten!

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I bought this album when i was15..before i went into 6th form !use to drive my mam & dad crazy playing it!Wooahh times have changed..but still got it on vinyll! Its aged well..

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thanks to my mom i have the cassette tape. the whole album really is addictive. can’t stop playing!

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Love this song! I have the live version but I like this one more.

Scott Sargent

most underrated song anywhere,
super slick sound and guitar placement.
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