I'm An Adult Now
The Pursuit Of Happiness Lyrics


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Well, I don't hate my parents
I don't get drunk just to spite them
I've got my own reasons to drink now
I think I'll call my dad up and invite him

I can sleep in till noon anytime I want
Though there's not many days that I do
Gotta get up and take on that world
When your an adult it's no cliche it's the truth

'Cause I'm an adult now
I'm an adult now
I've got the problems of an adult
On my head and on my shoulders
I'm an adult now

I can't even look at young girls anymore
People will think I'm some kind of pervert
Adult sex is either boring or dirty
Young people they can get away with murder

I don't write songs about girls anymore
I have to write songs about women
No more boy meets girl boy loses girl
More like man tries to understand what the hell went wrong

'Cause I'm an adult now
I'm an adult now
I've got the problems of an adult
On my head and on my shoulders
I'm an adult now
I'm an adult now
I'm an adult now

I can't take any more illicit drugs
I can't afford any artificial joy
I'd sure look like a fool dead in a ditch somewhere
With a mind full of chemicals
Like some cheese-eating high school boy

'Cause I'm an adult now
I'm an adult now
I've got the problems of an adult
On my head and on my shoulders
I'm an adult now

Sometimes my head hurts and sometimes my stomach hurts
And I guess it won't be long
For I'm sitting in a room with a bunch
Of people whose necks and backs are aching
Whose sight and hearing's fading
Who just can't seem to get it up
Speaking of hearing, I can't take too much loud music

I mean I like to play it, but I sure don't like the racket
Noise, but I can't hear anything
Just guitars screaming, screaming, screaming
Some guy screaming in a leather jacket
Woah!

I'm an adult now
I'm an adult now
I've got the problems of an adult
On my head and on my shoulders
I'm an adult now

I'm an adult now
I'm an adult now
I've got the problems of an adult
On my head and on my shoulders
I'm an adult now
I'm an adult now




I'm an adult now
I'm an adult now

Overall Meaning

The song "I'm an Adult Now" by The Pursuit Of Happiness was released in 1986 and is considered as one of their most popular songs. The song is a tongue-in-cheek reflection of the singer's transition from adolescence to adulthood. It provides a sarcastic take on age-related societal expectations and how they come with an array of new problems and responsibilities.


The singer starts off by acknowledging that he does not hate his parents, nor does he drink to spite them anymore. He now drinks for his own reasons and actually plans on calling his dad to invite him. The song progresses and the singer describes how being an adult comes with problems and responsibilities that he never imagined he would be dealing with. He has to wake up and face the world, unlike when he was younger and could sleep in until noon. He can no longer look at young girls without being labeled a pervert and sex now seems either boring or dirty. He describes how he must write about women instead of girls and focus on understanding why relationships fail rather than the boy-meets-girl trope.


As the song progresses, the singer divulges that he can no longer take drugs or experience artificial joy. He knows he must face life with a clear mind and clear head. He acknowledges how his body is starting to hurt and how he surrounds himself with people who are also feeling the effects of growing old. The song concludes with the singer remarking on how he still enjoys music but cannot take the loud noise, especially when someone is screaming in a leather jacket.


Overall, the song depicts humor and irony while realistically portraying how the unexpected challenges of adulthood can take a toll on individuals.


Line by Line Meaning

Well, I don't hate my parents
I have no animosity towards my parents


I don't get drunk just to spite them
I don't drink alcohol to anger or displease my parents


I've got my own reasons to drink now
I have personal motivations for drinking alcohol


I think I'll call my dad up and invite him
I'll call my father and invite him to spend time with me


I can sleep in till noon anytime I want
I have the freedom to sleep in late if I choose to do so


Though there's not many days that I do
However, I don't usually take advantage of this flexibility


Gotta get up and take on that world
I need to face the challenges and responsibilities of adulthood


When your an adult it's no cliche it's the truth
Being an adult is not just a stereotype, it's a real and substantial experience


'Cause I'm an adult now
I am now considered an adult


I've got the problems of an adult
I have the difficult issues and concerns that come with adulthood


On my head and on my shoulders
These problems weigh heavily on me


I can't even look at young girls anymore
I have a natural aversion to looking at teenage girls to avoid any potential misinterpretation of my actions


People will think I'm some kind of pervert
Others may wrongly assume that I have inappropriate intentions


Adult sex is either boring or dirty
Sex as an adult is often viewed as either mundane or shameful


Young people they can get away with murder
Younger individuals are often excused for their transgressions


I don't write songs about girls anymore
I have outgrown writing songs about adolescent infatuation


I have to write songs about women
I now focus my creative energy on exploring complex relationships with mature romantic partners


No more boy meets girl boy loses girl
My songwriting has moved on from telling simplistic love stories


More like man tries to understand what the hell went wrong
My songs now explore the intricacies of adult relationships and their inevitable complications


I can't take any more illicit drugs
I need to avoid using illegal drugs


I can't afford any artificial joy
I cannot indulge in escapist behaviors that provide temporary pleasure at great personal cost


I'd sure look like a fool dead in a ditch somewhere
Any risk to my health or life from reckless activities is now unacceptably foolish


With a mind full of chemicals
I cannot afford the toxic effects of drug abuse on my mental health


Like some cheese-eating high school boy
I have grown up and left behind childish behaviors


Sometimes my head hurts and sometimes my stomach hurts
I now experience physical ailments that come with aging


And I guess it won't be long
I expect more health problems in the future


For I'm sitting in a room with a bunch
I may spend time in situations where others are experiencing similar aging-related issues


Of people whose necks and backs are aching
These individuals may experience physical pain and discomfort


Whose sight and hearing's fading
They may also face difficulties with their senses


Who just can't seem to get it up
Some may struggle with sexual performance due to aging-related factors


Speaking of hearing, I can't take too much loud music
My sensitivity to loud noise has increased with age


I mean I like to play it, but I sure don't like the racket
I still appreciate music, but prefer it at a reasonable volume


Noise, but I can't hear anything
Excessive noise can damage my hearing


Just guitars screaming, screaming, screaming
I don't enjoy music with overly aggressive, loud instrumentation


Some guy screaming in a leather jacket
I don't relate to the youthful rebellion embodied in certain rock music subcultures




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Written by: MOE BERG

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@DJProfessorDan

The Pursuit Of Happiness, a Canadian power-pop band who named themselves after a line in the Declaration of Independence, having a hit with what can best be described as a hair-metal stand-up comedy routine.

Lead-singer/potential stand-up comedian Moe Berg – a name that I feel suits a stand-up comedian far better than it suits a rock star - complains about all the downsides of being an adult:

He can’t write songs about “girls” anymore. He has to write songs about “women.” No more boy-meets-girl, boy-loses-girl. More like MAN TRIES TO UNDERSTAND WHAT THE HELL WENT WRONG!!

Some of Moe’s observations on adult life don’t necessarily square with the lived experience of adult life: “I can sleep in til noon anytime that I want”? What adult does that? Oh, right, rock stars. Some of us live in the real world, Moe.

All the while the guitars are screaming, screaming, screaming, and some guy screaming in a leather jacket! OW!!!!

“I’m An Adult Now” is an 8.



All comments from YouTube:

@gregpanek523

I'm going on 70 and this is still my theme song.

@skipdadelish3030

Qq

@lucbarabe1830

Im 35 and suprised this isnt band lol. Love it.

@wernergoring9671

I'm 50 and this song still speaks to me as much as it did when I was twenty. =)

@yeldarbarrow3172

@Werner Goring 56 same here

@jezzylawson936

Your dad is probs dead tho

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@MrOttopants

I saw these guys one time. They opened for someone, and the singer said, "I'm glad we can entertain you while you find your seats."

@TheVivian2727

Yup... that was me at 25, born in 1959. I'm 62 now. Still rings true.

@dallastropical

total video vixen good for you

@Vospader21

I’m 28 now, this song started to resonate with me about 2 years ago.

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