Pet Grief
The Radio Dept. Lyrics


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And then he's gone
Never put up a fight
You think you know someone, right?
Maybe you never did, and how that scares you
I'll shut my mouth for you
Just like your friend would do

And this pet grief
It's just too bad
I've never seen you this sad
And if you need someone who doesn't talk back
I'll shut my mouth for you
Anything you want me to

What can I say?
What can I do?
Don't mean to analyze you
It is a double bind
I can't win this one




I'll shut my mouth for you
Anything you want me to

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Radio Dept.'s song Pet Grief suggest the pain of losing someone unexpectedly, without warning. The singer starts by expressing his disbelief that this person has left without a fight, indicating that they may have suffered from some sort of illness that was not evident to those around them. This realization is frightening to the singer, who believed he knew this person well. The lack of control in this situation is palpable, as the singer expresses a willingness to "shut his mouth" and help in any way that he can.


The chorus of "pet grief" refers to the small, everyday occurrences that create a sense of sadness or loss, but that go unnoticed by those around us. These types of grief are often internal and private, as opposed to the more public mourning associated with a traditional loss. It is clear that the singer is trying to be supportive, but feels helpless in the face of his friend's pain. He understands that there is no easy solution and tries to offer comfort without analysis.


Overall, Pet Grief is a reflection on the difficulty of navigating complex emotional landscapes and the struggle to support loved ones when we are powerless to change their circumstances.


Line by Line Meaning

And then he's gone
The person that the singer is referring to has left, without any notice or without saying goodbye.


Never put up a fight
The person who has left did so without any argument, disagreement or fuss.


You think you know someone, right?
The singer is addressing the idea that people can never fully know someone and the potential fear that comes with this realization.


Maybe you never did, and how that scares you
The singer is expressing how unsettling it can be to realize that you never really knew someone who has suddenly left you without explanation.


I'll shut my mouth for you
The singer is offering to be there for the listener and to support them emotionally by staying silent if that's what they need.


Just like your friend would do
The singer is emphasizing that they want to be there for the listener in the way a close friend would be, by being a source of comfort and support.


And this pet grief
The phrase 'pet grief' is used to describe a sadness that may seem insignificant or not worth mentioning to others, but the singer acknowledges the importance of this feeling to the person experiencing it.


It's just too bad
The singer empathizes with the listener and acknowledges that their sadness is unfortunate.


I've never seen you this sad
The singer acknowledges that the listener is experiencing some level of emotional pain and perceives it to be greater than what they have observed before.


And if you need someone who doesn't talk back
The singer is highlighting that the listener may want someone to listen to them without interrupting or providing advice, and is offering to be that person.


Anything you want me to
The singer is willing to do anything they can to help the listener feel better and supported.


What can I say?
The singer accepts that words may not be adequate in this situation and expresses their desire to still be a source of comfort to the listener.


What can I do?
The singer recognizes that they may not have the power to fix everything, but wants to do what they can to offer support.


Don't mean to analyze you
The singer wants to avoid hurting the listener or saying anything that may come across as judgmental or critical.


It is a double bind
The singer acknowledges that this situation can be complex and difficult for the listener to navigate.


I can't win this one
The singer recognizes that they may not be the solution or the way to fix what the listener is experiencing, but wants to provide support in whatever way they can.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: JOHAN DUNCANSON, MARTIN LARSSON

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Roberto Reyes

It's Personal - 0:00
Pet Grief - 3:38
A Window - 6:48
I Wanted You to Feel the Same - 10:15
South Side - 12:46
The Worst Taste in Music - 14:02
Every Time - 17:23
What Will Give? - 21:07
Gibraltar - 25:38
Sleeping In - 27:13
Tell - 30:44
Always a Relief - 33:53



All comments from YouTube:

Roberto Reyes

It's Personal - 0:00
Pet Grief - 3:38
A Window - 6:48
I Wanted You to Feel the Same - 10:15
South Side - 12:46
The Worst Taste in Music - 14:02
Every Time - 17:23
What Will Give? - 21:07
Gibraltar - 25:38
Sleeping In - 27:13
Tell - 30:44
Always a Relief - 33:53

Elina g

this is my favorite radio dept album. I want to meet someone who likes the music I like. I always feel alien.

Fabio Altomano

i like the music you like.

N C

The internet loves this band

Erik Latshaw

The song "Pet Grief" will probably always be my favorite song of theirs

Matt Breakz

I feel that 💯

Hafsah

There are many of us like you but we only meet online 😅

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SummerOfGeorge

I like how most songs on this album don't build up to a big dramatic climax or something like that. They are just floating and sometimes it seems like they don't even try to get your attention(not in a negative way), just like a sunny, melancholic spring day. Beautiful and sad album :(

Isabella Cantillo

SummerOfGeorge agreed! ♡

Lonk NY

Probably the best dreampop album ever written. Pure bliss.

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