Love
The Rat Pack Lyrics


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Love and marriage, love and marriage
Go together like a horse and carriage
This I tell you brother
You can't have one without the other

Love and marriage, love and marriage
It's an institute you can't disparage
Ask the local gentry
And they will say it's elementary

Try, try, try to separate them
It's an illusion
Try, try, try, and you will only come
To this conclusion

Love and marriage, love and marriage
Go together like a horse and carriage
Dad was told by mother
You can't have one, you can't have none
You can't have one without the other

Try, try, try to separate them
It's an illusion
Try, try, try, and you will only come
To this conclusion

Love and marriage, love and marriage
Go together like a horse and carriage
Dad was told by mother




You can't have one (you can't have none)
You can't have one without the other

Overall Meaning

The Rat Pack's song "Love and Marriage" is an upbeat and catchy tune that discusses the inseparable relationship between love and marriage. The opening lyrics explain that love and marriage "go together like a horse and carriage" and that they are an "institute you can't disparage." This suggests that love and marriage are intertwined and necessary for one another. The singer asserts that they can't be separated, and anyone who tries will come to the same conclusion: they need each other. The chorus is repeated multiple times throughout the song, emphasizing the importance of this relationship.


The second verse highlights that this understanding of love and marriage is universal, with "the local gentry" agreeing that "it's elementary" that the two are inseparable. The final verse reveals that the singer's dad learned this lesson from his mother, who told him that "you can't have one without the other." The repetition of this line reinforces the concept that love and marriage are a package deal.


Overall, the song is a fun and energetic tribute to the importance of love and marriage. It acknowledges the challenges that come with these relationships but ultimately offers a positive and optimistic message.


Line by Line Meaning

Love and marriage, love and marriage
Love and marriage are intertwined and must be considered together.


Go together like a horse and carriage
They belong together and are incomplete without each other, like horses and carriages.


This I tell you brother
I assure you, this is true and important information.


You can't have one without the other
Love and marriage are so interconnected that they cannot exist independent of one another.


It's an institute you can't disparage
Love and marriage are important social structures that should not be criticized or belittled.


Ask the local gentry
Seek the opinion of respected members of society.


And they will say it's elementary
They will agree that it is a simple and self-evident truth.


Try, try, try to separate them
Attempt to keep love and marriage apart.


It's an illusion
This is a false perception or concept.


Try, try, try, and you will only come
If you continue trying to separate love and marriage.


To this conclusion
You will eventually realize that they cannot be separated.


Dad was told by mother
My father learned from my mother.


You can't have one, you can't have none
Without one, you cannot have the other.


Love and marriage, love and marriage
Love and marriage remain intertwined and inseparable.


Go together like a horse and carriage
They are like two inseparable and necessary components of a whole.


Dad was told by mother
My father learned from my mother.


You can't have one (you can't have none)
You either have both love and marriage or you have neither.


You can't have one without the other
One cannot exist without the other. Love and marriage are truly intertwined.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: James Van Heusen, Sammy Cahn

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