I Can’t Get By Without You
The Real Thing Lyrics


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No way - no way - no way -

When I leave your door
when we say good-night

It hurts me more and more
'cause girl
it just ain't right

To end the day like this with no more than a kiss

And spend the night just dreaming of the things
we're gonna miss.

If I have my way
girl

we'd be together more and more each day

We'd go on forever
lovers hand in hand
can't you understand

Girl
you've got to be my woman
I've got to be your man !

'Cause I can't get by without you
I need you more each day

The way I feel about you leaves nothing more to say

'Cause I love you
girl
I need you

And I can't get by without you - no way !

It's a sad affair

wasting precious time that you and I could share

Girl
it's such a crime to hear you call my name

it's a crying shame

When we're not together then there's only time to blame.

There will come a day
girl
I do believe
It's not too far away when I can say good-night

And still be by your side to dry the tears you cried

And Ill have all the love I need to keep me satisfied.

'Cause I canY get by without you

I need you more each day
. . .
I can't get by without you
I need you more each day
. . .

Can't get by without you - canY get by without you -
Can't get by without you -

I can't get by without you
I need you more each day
. . .




I can't get by without you
I need you more each day

Overall Meaning

The Real Thing's song "Can't Get By Without You" is a love song that expresses the singer's longing to be with their love interest. The chorus repeats "I can't get by without you" and emphasizes the intense need to be with the person, as the singer cannot picture their life without them. The first verse describes how leaving the love interest's presence is painful and how a simple kiss before bed is not enough to sustain their desire for each other. The verse also eludes to the idea that they dream of a more fulfilling and complete relationship.


The second verse describes the frustration of not being able to spend time with the love interest due to wasting precious time. The last part of the verse confesses the desire to be able to comfort the love interest when they are sad or upset. The bridge provides optimism as the singer declares that they believe the day will come when they can be with the love interest, and they will have all the love they need to be satisfied.


Overall, the song is a plea to the love interest to reciprocate and fulfill the singer's longing for a loving and committed relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

No way - no way - no way -
Expressing disbelief and denial of the possibility of living without the person addressed.


When I leave your door
Referring to the sadness the singer feels when they part ways with their loved one.


when we say good-night
Referring to the end of a day spent together and the separation that comes with it.


It hurts me more and more
The artist's emotional pain deepens each time they part ways from their loved one.


'cause girl
Addressing the object of the song's affection, who the artist calls 'girl'.


it just ain't right
The singer feels that the current situation of being apart from their loved one is unfair and unsatisfactory.


To end the day like this with no more than a kiss
The singer is disappointed that their time spent with their loved one is cut short and ends in only a brief display of affection.


And spend the night just dreaming of the things we're gonna miss.
The artist spends the night thinking about all of the moments with their loved one that they will miss while away from each other.


If I have my way
Expressing a desire to be with the object of the song's affection in a more permanent way.


girl
Addressing the object of the song's affection, who the artist calls 'girl'.


we'd be together more and more each day
The singer envisions a future with the object of their affection where they spend increasing amounts of time together.


We'd go on forever
The artist sees their relationship with the object of their affection lasting indefinitely.


lovers hand in hand
Describing the singer and the object of their affection walking together while holding hands, as a symbol of intimacy and love.


can't you understand
Asking the object of the song's affection to comprehend the intensity of the singer's love and desire for them.


Girl, you've got to be my woman
Expressing a desire for the object of the song's affection to become the singer's romantic partner.


I've got to be your man !
The artist sees themselves as the romantic partner of the object of their affection.


'Cause I can't get by without you
Reaffirming the central message of the song, which is that the artist cannot live without the object of their affection.


I need you more each day
Emphasizing the singer's growing need for the object of their affection as time passes.


The way I feel about you leaves nothing more to say
The singer's emotions are so strong that there is nothing else to express regarding their love for the object of their affection.


'Cause I love you
Restating the artist's love for the object of their affection.


girl
Addressing the object of the song's affection, who the artist calls 'girl'.


I need you
Expressing the artist's need for the object of their affection.


And I can't get by without you - no way !
Reaffirming the central message of the song, which is that the singer cannot live without the object of their affection.


It's a sad affair
Describing the current state of the artist's relationship with the object of their affection as unhappy and unfortunate.


wasting precious time that you and I could share
The singer bemoans the fact that they are currently losing time that could be spent together with the object of their affection.


Girl, it's such a crime to hear you call my name
Referencing the singer's desire to be with the object of their affection when she calls out their name.


it's a crying shame
Describing the situation as deplorable and pitiable.


When we're not together then there's only time to blame.
The artist attributes their current lack of time spent together to being the only culprit in their separation.


There will come a day
Anticipating a future moment when their relationship with the object of their affection will improve.


girl
Addressing the object of the song's affection, who the singer calls 'girl'.


I do believe
Expressing a belief in the possibility of their future together with the object of their affection.


It's not too far away when I can say good-night
The artist envisions a future where they can say goodnight to the object of their affection but still be together.


And still be by your side to dry the tears you cried
The artist describes a desire to comfort and be with the object of their affection when they cry.


And Ill have all the love I need to keep me satisfied.
The artist will find satisfaction in the love of the object of their affection.


'Cause I canY get by without you
Reaffirming the central message of the song, which is that the singer cannot live without the object of their affection.


I need you more each day...
Reiterating the growing need for the object of their affection as time passes.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: KEN GOLD, MICHAEL DENNE

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@kevinmilbank4319

My girlfriend and I used to dance to this song in 76, after listening to the words over and over we just knew what we wanted, we married in 76 and are still married 46 years later and we still love to dance to this song.

@willysworld1989

congrats! it shows you really cannot get by without her. :) All the best and stay safe!

@sergiocunha4248

Beautiful music. It says it all about being in love. Congratulations!!!

@porkbeans9907

Beautiful

@cerealkiller4248

Sadly stories like this are few and far between in later generations, they think they have it all, they really don’t

@mrfantastic4589

Made me cry reading that.
Mad bro 🥲

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@aprilsmith5107

The 70's without any doubt mind was THE best era for music. Nothing had touched it since ❤

@MaryDoyle-xl2ri

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@lilianaregis4916

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@aprilsmith5107

Absolutely. I don't think there has ever been such a great era for music since the 70's

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