You'll Never Know What You're Missing
The Real Thing Lyrics


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I remember when we met
And you begged me not to get close to you
And you begged me not to get too involved
With you and yet I couldn't help myself
'Cause you had yourself a bad affair
With a boy who didn't care
And he hurt you love
Now you're afraid of love
Now you'll never know what you're missing
And I find myself just wishing that you only could
So I tried constantly to bring you close to me
How I tried?
But the more I get involved
Just had to become resolved
To living without you, girl
And though you really tried for me
It really wasn't hard to see
Somewhere deep within
That you belonged to him
Now you'll never know what you're missing
And I find myself just wishing that you'd let me win
I tried, I tried my hardest to get close to you
How I tried to satisfy?
But now you're gone
Hey now you're gone
Oh, now you're gone
Now you're gone
And I find myself just wishing that you only could




Now you'll never know what you're missing
And I find myself just wishing that you only could.

Overall Meaning

The Real Thing's song 'You'll Never Know What You're Missing' tells a story of a man who fell in love with a woman who was afraid of love because of a past relationship that left her heartbroken. The woman, in the beginning, begged the man not to get too involved with her, but he couldn't help himself because he had feelings for her. The reason behind her fear of love was that she had a relationship with a boy who didn't care for her and hurt her. The man tried his best to bring her closer to him, but the more he got involved, the more he had to become resolved to living without her. The woman tried too, but he could see that she still belonged to the other boy. The song ends on a sad note, with the man lamenting that the woman would never know what she's missing, and he wishes that she could just let him win.


Line by Line Meaning

I remember when we met
The singer recalls the time they first met.


And you begged me not to get close to you
The other person warned the singer not to become emotionally invested in them.


And you begged me not to get too involved
The other person cautioned the singer not to become too committed to them.


With you and yet I couldn't help myself
Despite the warning, the artist couldn't resist their feelings for the other person.


'Cause you had yourself a bad affair
The other person had a previous romantic relationship that ended badly.


With a boy who didn't care
The other person's ex was indifferent and didn't care about their feelings.


And he hurt you love
The other person's ex caused them emotional pain and heartache.


Now you're afraid of love
As a result of their past relationship, the other person is now fearful of opening up to love again.


Now you'll never know what you're missing
The other person will never experience the beauty and joy of love because of their fear and reluctance to pursue it.


And I find myself just wishing that you only could
Despite the other person's fears, the artist still wishes they could open up and experience love.


So I tried constantly to bring you close to me
The singer made a concerted effort to get closer to the other person.


How I tried?
The artist expresses frustration and disappointment at their unsuccessful attempts to get closer to the other person.


But the more I get involved
The more the singer invests emotionally, the more distant the other person becomes.


Just had to become resolved
Eventually, the singer accepted that they could not force the other person to reciprocate their feelings.


To living without you, girl
The singer came to terms with the fact that they would have to move on without the other person in their life.


And though you really tried for me
The other person made some effort to pursue a relationship with the artist.


It really wasn't hard to see
However, the artist could tell that the other person's heart wasn't fully in it.


Somewhere deep within
The singer sensed that the other person was still hung up on their ex.


That you belonged to him
The singer concludes that the other person's heart still belongs to their ex and that they cannot fully commit to a relationship with the singer.


But now you're gone
The other person has left the artist's life.


Hey now you're gone
The artist repeats the fact that the other person has left, possibly expressing sadness or regret.


Oh, now you're gone
The artist laments the fact that they are now alone without the other person in their life.


Now you'll never know what you're missing
The other person has missed out on the opportunity to experience love with the singer due to their own fears and lack of commitment.


And I find myself just wishing that you'd let me win
The artist still wishes that the other person would have given them a chance to pursue a relationship and experience love together.


I tried, I tried my hardest to get close to you
The singer made a valiant effort to get closer to the other person and develop a connection with them.


How I tried to satisfy?
The singer wonders what else they could have done to make the other person happy and committed to a relationship.


And I find myself just wishing that you only could.
Despite the fact that the other person is now gone, the singer still wishes that they could have experienced love together.




Writer(s): CHRISTOPHER AMOO, EDWARD AMOO

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Comments from YouTube:

Iheanyi Ononiwu

2020 and this song takes me back to the best years of my life. The Real Thing were the real thing.

Sarah Mullen

Me too 😍

Taymah H

what can i say im in love with this band they bring back memories of me when i was in high school love it.........................

Emmy ogbo

Great band

Mick B

One of those songs that just makes you stop what your doin and it just melts you, perfect song for the summer of 76 🤎🤎

Kaz Leslie

Loved this band ,so sad things went so wrong with Ray .Hope you are at peace now my friend xx

Aggie1950

Ray Lake was my crush, always loved him, always will. I hope he found his peace too 🌹

Kaz Leslie

​@Aggie1950Mine too ❤

calvin price

this song is so beautiful . can someone put the whole song on?

Lee Crewe

LOVE THIS TRACK BACK THEN AND STILL DO TODAY 30 + YEARS LATER REMINDS OF A GIRL I KNEW AT THE TIME...SHE KNOWS WHO SHE IS..

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