How Does It Feel?
The Ronettes Lyrics


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How does it feel when you're left sitting out in the cold?

How does it feel when you don't have nobody to hold?

I wanna know, does it really, really hurt you so?

Are you crying? Are you dying?


Do you want her like I wanted you before?

How does it feel to just stare at the ceiling all night?

How do you feel knowing someone is holding her tight?

Please tell me true, are you really really feeling blue?



Do you miss her, wanna kiss her?

Do you need her like I needed you before?

When you walked out on me, I felt like you're feeling now

But I'd take you back again 'cause I still love you, anyhow



I wanna know, does it really really hurt you so?

Are you crying? Are you dying?





Do you want her like I wanted you before?

Overall Meaning

The Ronettes's song How Does It Feel? is a heart-rending ballad that explores themes of heartbreak, betrayal, loneliness, and longing. The song's first verse paints a picture of someone left out in the cold with nobody to hold, creating a palpable sense of isolation and an absence of love. The second verse elicits empathy and asks if the hurt really hurts so badly that it makes you cry and feel like you're dying. The chorus contains the song's titular question: How does it feel? It's a question that is repeatedly asked throughout the song, emphasizing the all-consuming curiosity of the singer.


The third verse takes on a more accusatory tone, asking if the person wants the new love interest as much as the singer once wanted them. The last verse is filled with the singer's own longing and desire, expressing the pain of being left behind while still loving the person who has moved on. How Does It Feel? shows the emotional depth of the Ronettes and is a reflection of the 60s' tumultuous love affairs.



Line by Line Meaning

How does it feel when you're left sitting out in the cold?
Tell me, does it hurt to feel left out and alone?


How does it feel when you don't have nobody to hold?
How does it feel when there's no one who wants to embrace you?


I wanna know, does it really, really hurt you so?
Please be honest, does it cause you extreme pain?


Are you crying? Are you dying?
Is the situation making you weep or feel like you're dying inside?


Do you want her like I wanted you before?
Do you desire her in the way I craved you once?


How does it feel to just stare at the ceiling all night?
What's it like to be unable to sleep and spend all night gazing at the ceiling?


How do you feel knowing someone is holding her tight?
How do you feel when you think of someone else holding her snugly?


Please tell me true, are you really really feeling blue?
Please verify, are you genuinely feeling down?


Do you miss her, wanna kiss her?
Do you yearn for her, want to hold her tightly and kiss her?


Do you need her like I needed you before?
Do you feel like you utterly require her, like I felt for you?


When you walked out on me, I felt like you're feeling now
I've been where you are now, empty, alone, and in agony, when you left me.


But I'd take you back again 'cause I still love you, anyhow
Nonetheless, I would rejuvenate our love because my affection for you is never-ending.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: PHIL SPECTOR, VINCENT JR PONCIA, PETER ANDREOLI

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