Selfless Cold and Composed
The Sacramento State Jazz Singers Lyrics


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I said what you wanted to hear
And what I wanted to say
So I will take it back
Are all the dishes intact?

Let them be broken
It's easy to be
Easy and Free
When it doesn't mean anything

You remain selfless, cold and composed
You've done me no favor
to call and be nice
Telling me I

Can take anything I like
You don't owe me to be so Polite
You've done no wrong
You've done no wrong

Get out of my sight
It's easy to be easy and free
When it doesn't mean anything
You remain

Selfless, cold, and composed
Come on baby. Now throw me
a right to the chin
Don't you stare like

You never cared
I know you did
You just smiled
like a bank teller




telling me bleakly
have a nice life

Overall Meaning

The song "Selfless Cold and Composed" by The Sacramento State Jazz Singers is a melancholic ballad that delves into the complexities of human relationships. The lyrics reflect on the doubts and the emotional distance that grow between two people who can't find a way to connect. The lines "I said what you wanted to hear, and what I wanted to say, so I will take it back" illustrates the frustration of hiding one's true feelings out of fear of being misunderstood or rejected. The verse "You remain selfless, cold, and composed" expresses the disappointment of not being able to reach out to the other person despite their efforts to maintain a courteous facade. The lines "You don't owe me to be so Polite, You've done no wrong, Get out of my sight" show the emotional turmoil the singer is going through and their desire to break free from the situation.


The chorus "It's easy to be easy and free when it doesn't mean anything" highlights the irony of trying to put up a front of being okay when deep down, everything is falling apart. The song's title "Selfless, Cold and Composed" hints at the complex emotional states of both the main characters in the song. They are selfless in their attempt to spare the other person's feelings. However, when it comes to expressing their own emotions, they are cold and distant, trying to maintain composure despite their inner turmoil.


Line by Line Meaning

I said what you wanted to hear
I spoke words that pleased you, but not necessarily true.


And what I wanted to say
I kept my real thoughts concealed.


So I will take it back
I take back the falsehoods I just said.


Are all the dishes intact?
Is everything okay between us?


Let them be broken
It’s fine if things don’t work out.


It's easy to be easy and free
It’s effortless to pretend everything is alright.


When it doesn't mean anything
When we don’t have any real connection.


You remain selfless, cold and composed
You maintain your demeanor of detachment and selflessness.


You've done me no favor
You haven’t shown me any kindness.


to call and be nice
By pretending to be friendly on the phone.


Telling me I
Saying that


Can take anything I like
I am free to interpret things as I wish.


You don't owe me to be so polite
You are not obliged to be this courteous.


You've done no wrong
You haven’t caused me any harm.


Get out of my sight
Please leave my presence.


Come on baby. Now throw me a right to the chin
Please, let me have it.


Don't you stare like you never cared
You cannot pretend that you didn’t care.


I know you did
I am certain you felt concern.


You just smiled like a bank teller
You merely put on a façade of politeness.


telling me bleakly have a nice life
Wishing me a cold farewell.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BEN FOLDS

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Comments from YouTube:

@KerryMarsh

We had two three-hour Sunday rehearsals, and then we recorded this on a third Sunday in a three-hour block.

@ronaldbrumwell8414

If I ever get my dream of owning a jazz club. These guys and girls will be the first live performance.

@porgyt7177

Beautiful

@prattman69

This is sublime. I mean perfect. Like a choir of Angels. I have shed many a happy tear over the years. Thank you. Aloha

@kurtdewittphoto

I was driving around in my car the other day listening to this, and suddenly had a reinvigorated appreciation for it. I always gravitated to "Magic" as my fav on that album, but I think this now takes the cake. I always wondered if Ben was there for these recordings, or if they were done independently..

@rachaelthomason9299

How amazing it was! I love this song, yall did it justice

@KeepItReal213

I years later, I still check back and listen to this. This is so good!

@xsurferinax

me too!

@porgyt7177

And later STILL !

@openreels

And here I thought I was the only one!

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