Dressed In Black
The Shangri-Las Lyrics


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Dressed in black
He walks alone, a shadow in the night
Each time he walks by my window
Can't hold the tears from my eyes
We're so much in love
Why can't they realize

That every time he looks at me
I long to feel his lips on mine
I live on just the memory of him caressing me
So soft, so warm
So soft, so warm

They said he was much to wild for me
They said I didn't know what I was getting myself into
They said a whole lot of things
But there are some things they could never understand
That a girl can tell by the way a boy holds her hand
Or maybe they thought we were too young to be in love this way
Well, I don't care what people say
This girl's love is getting stronger with each passing day

That every time he looks at me
I long to feel his lips on mine
I live on just the memory of him caressing me
So soft, so warm
So soft, so warm

But now he's gone
But now he's gone

I climbed the stairs
I shut the door
I turned the lock
Alone once more




And no one can hear me cry
No one

Overall Meaning

can see the tears I cry


The Shangri-Las's song "Dressed In Black" tells the story of a young woman who is deeply in love with a man who is seen as an outsider in their community. The man is described as "dressed in black" and "a shadow in the night," which suggests that he is a mysterious figure who is not well understood by the people around him. Despite the fact that they are deeply in love, the woman's friends and family disapprove of the relationship and believe that the man is too wild for her.


However, the singer of the song dismisses these concerns and insists that her love for the man is only getting stronger with each passing day. She longs to feel his lips on hers and is sustained by the memory of his tender caresses. The final lines of the song suggest that the man has left her and that she is now alone and crying in her room, but her devotion to him remains unwavering.


Overall, "Dressed In Black" is a poignant and emotionally charged song about the intensity of young love, the challenges of navigating societal expectations, and the heartbreak that comes with loss.


Line by Line Meaning

Dressed in black
Describing the attire of the singer


He walks alone, a shadow in the night
Painting the solitary image of the singer


Each time he walks by my window
Narrating the singer's consistent presence


Can't hold the tears from my eyes
Expressing the overwhelming emotions of the artist


We're so much in love
Stating the depth of love between the artist and their lover


Why can't they realize
Questioning the disapproval of others towards their relationship


That every time he looks at me
Highlighting the intense connection between the singers


I long to feel his lips on mine
Expressing the physical desire of the artist


I live on just the memory of him caressing me
Revealing the strength of the artist's emotional attachment


So soft, so warm
Describing the feeling of their lover's touch


They said he was much too wild for me
Recalling the criticisms of others towards their relationship


They said I didn't know what I was getting myself into
Stating the disapproval of others towards the artist's choice


They said a whole lot of things
Illustrating the constant criticisms the singer faced


But there are some things they could never understand
Acknowledging the lack of comprehension of others towards their love


That a girl can tell by the way a boy holds her hand
Suggesting the singer's intimate knowledge of their lover's feelings


Or maybe they thought we were too young to be in love this way
Presenting the possibility that their age influenced the criticisms


Well, I don't care what people say
Asserting the artist's conviction in their love


This girl's love is getting stronger with each passing day
Emphasizing the singer's devotion to their lover


But now he's gone
Announcing the departure of the singer's lover


I climbed the stairs
Describing the artist's actions after their lover's departure


I shut the door
Continuing to describe the artist's actions


I turned the lock
Further exemplifying the artist's movements


Alone once more
Conveying the feeling of solitude


And no one can hear me cry
Portraying the artist's pain




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: VINNIE GORMANN, VINNY GORMANN, TONY MICHAELS, GEORGE MORTON

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