It'S Easier To Cry
The Shangri-Las Lyrics


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They said forget about him
You're better off without him
Go out and find yourself another guy
But I love him so, I can't forget him
No, no, it's easier to cry

(Oh)
They say stop thinking 'bout him
(Oh)
You really didn't love him
He was just something you had to try

But I miss him so, I can't forget him
No, no, it's easier to cry
Ah ah, ah ah

They say no use in crying
A girls got to keep on trying
But if he doesn't come back, I'll just die
'Cause I need him so, I can't forget him

No, no, it's easier to cry




Much easier to cry
Easier to cry, can't forget him

Overall Meaning

The Shangri-Las' song "It's Easier To Cry" is a heart-wrenching ballad about a girl who is struggling to move on from a past relationship. The lyrics express the conflicting advice she receives from others, who tell her to forget about the boy she loves and move on, but she finds it difficult to let go. The opening lines "They said forget about him, You're better off without him, Go out and find yourself another guy" highlight the pressure that she faces to move on from her friends and family.


The girl in the song, however, cannot simply forget the person she loves so much, and finds it easier to cry than to let go of her feelings. The lines "But I love him so, I can't forget him, No, no, it's easier to cry" express her pain and her emotional turmoil as she tries to come to terms with her break up. The lyrics are a powerful portrayal of the emotional struggles that come with moving on from a past love.


Despite the heart-rending subject matter, the song is also musically powerful, with driving guitars and a frantic beat that underlines the urgency of the girl's feelings. The song's catchy melody and the Shangri-Las' signature harmonies also make it a memorable entry in the girl group genre.


Line by Line Meaning

They said forget about him
People told me to move on from my past relationship


You're better off without him
They suggested that I'll be happier without my ex-boyfriend in the long run


Go out and find yourself another guy
They proposed that I find a new partner to replace my old one


But I love him so, I can't forget him
I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend and can't stop thinking about him


No, no, it's easier to cry
Instead of trying to move on, it's easier for me to cry and continue to hold onto my emotions


(Oh) They say stop thinking 'bout him
Others advise me to stop obsessing over my ex-boyfriend


(Oh) You really didn't love him
People imply that my feelings for him weren't genuine


He was just something you had to try
They believe that he was just an experimental fling and not a serious relationship


But I miss him so, I can't forget him
I miss my ex-boyfriend and can't erase him from my memories


Ah ah, ah ah
A vocalization with no specific meaning


They say no use in crying
Others suggest that there's no point in crying over a past relationship


A girl's got to keep on trying
They encourage me to continue looking for love


But if he doesn't come back, I'll just die
If my ex-boyfriend doesn't return, I feel like I'll never be happy again


'Cause I need him so, I can't forget him
I still have strong feelings for my ex-boyfriend


No, no, it's easier to cry
It's still easier for me to cry than to try and forget about him


Much easier to cry
It's easier to simply cry than to work on moving on from my ex-boyfriend


Easier to cry, can't forget him
Even though it's easier to cry, I still can't forget about him




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: J.L. JACKSON, JOE DE ANGELES, ROBERT STEINBERG

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