What's A Girl Supposed To Do
The Shangri-Las Lyrics


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walke dme to my door
said he's glad he found
all he waited for
put his arms around me
and the stars were bright in the sky
and he looked down deep in my eyes
what's a girl suposed to do but kiss him
so i kissed him

we jsut met that night
felt i always knew him
so i know it was right
to give my kisses to him
and he said he wanted me so
and my heart said don't let him go
what's a girl supposed to do but hold him
so i held him
whoa yeah

oh he said he loved me and then i
had to kiss him again
what's a girl supposed to do but love him
and i love him

did you kiss him oh yeah
did you hold him oh yeah

Overall Meaning

The Shangri-Las's song "What's A Girl Supposed To Do?" is a classic tale of young love and the desire to be with someone. The singer tells the story of meeting a young man who has all the qualities she's been looking for. He walks her to her door and puts his arms around her, and despite only just meeting him that night, she feels like she's known him forever. She can't help but kiss him, as any girl in her situation would.


Their connection is strong, and he tells her that he wants her, and her heart tells her not to let him go. She holds him close to her, not wanting to relinquish the closeness they share. He tells her he loves her, and she can't help but kiss him again. She simply loves him, and what else is a girl supposed to do?


The song encapsulates the innocent and intense feelings of young love, where a single encounter can feel like a lifetime of happiness. The lyrics capture the irrationality of love and how, at times, it can be difficult to resist the urge to be with someone we feel strongly about.


Line by Line Meaning

walked me to my door
He accompanied me to my house.


said he's glad he found all he waited for
He expressed his happiness upon meeting me.


put his arms around me and the stars were bright in the sky
He embraced me and we both enjoyed the beautiful night sky.


and he looked down deep in my eyes
He made eye contact with me, indicating his sincerity and interest.


what's a girl supposed to do but kiss him
A girl in this situation would naturally want to kiss him.


so i kissed him
I acted on my natural impulse and kissed him.


we just met that night
We only knew each other for a short time.


felt i always knew him, so i know it was right
We had an intense connection that made it feel like we've known each other for a long time.


to give my kisses to him
I wanted to express my affection by kissing him.


and he said he wanted me so
He expressed his desire to be with me.


and my heart said don't let him go
I felt a strong emotional attachment to him, making me want to keep him in my life.


what's a girl supposed to do but hold him
It is natural for me to want to hold him in my arms.


so i held him
I expressed my affection by wrapping my arms around him.


oh he said he loved me and then i had to kiss him again
He expressed his love for me, causing me to want to kiss him again.


what's a girl supposed to do but love him
A girl in love would naturally want to express that love.


and i love him
I have strong feelings of love for him.


did you kiss him oh yeah
Someone is asking if I kissed him.


did you hold him oh yeah
Someone is asking if I held him in my arms.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: NIKKI JEAN, JEFF BARRY

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Comments from YouTube:

@joaniejett8394

Such a simpler time, a group that rocked my socks off as a kid, their timing impeccable and just love them to death!

@delsongalasinao706

Old music like this is good to our mental health especially when the world we live with is full toxicity

@gerhardanton8759

absolute good chorus and music...
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@normanbommarito6029

These girls were the greatest

@Soapking1965

Lesley Gore also had a version earlier in 1965.

@normanbommarito6029

I never heard of it before thanks

@steppenwolf53

Leslie and the Shangri-Las both released the song in September of 1965, but I believe Leslie’s was released first.

@delsongalasinao706

I loved this song it promotes strong feminism.

@flamencoprof

I have this in a playlist called "Blind Devotion", and much as I love The Shangri Las strong image, I have to disagree re this song.
Just look at the lyrics: -

"We just met that night
felt i always knew him
so i knew it was right
to give my kisses to him
and he said he wanted me so
and my heart said don't let him go
what's a girl supposed to do but hold him
so i held him"

I hold this group in high regard. :-)

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