You Cheated You Lied
The Shangri-Las Lyrics


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You cheated, you lied
You said that you love me
You cheated, you lied
You said that you want me

Oh, what can I do
But just keep on loving you
Love is something you know nothing about
Love is something you can't know about

So please try to love me
Love me like I love you
Oh please try to love me
Love me like I love you

You cheated, you lied
You said that you want me
You cheated, you lied
You said that you love me

Oh what can I do...

Oh what can I do...
Oh what can I do...

Overall Meaning

The Shangri-Las's song "You Cheated You Lied" is a heartbreaking ballad about a woman who is deeply hurt by her partner's infidelities and lies. The lyrics express a sense of desperation and confusion as the woman struggles to come to terms with the betrayal of her lover. At the same time, she is unable to stop loving him, even though she knows that he is not worthy of her affection.


The opening lines of the song, "You cheated, you lied, you said that you love me, you cheated, you lied, you said that you want me," set the tone for the rest of the lyrics. The repetition of the phrases "you cheated, you lied" emphasizes the woman's disbelief and hurt at her partner's actions. She struggles with the realization that the person she trusted and loved has betrayed her.


The chorus of the song, "Oh what can I do, but just keep on loving you," highlights the woman's helplessness in the situation. Despite her partner's lies and infidelities, she cannot stop loving him. This is because love is something that she feels deeply, something that she cannot help but feel. The chorus also suggests that love is something that her partner does not understand or appreciate, as he is incapable of loving her in return.


In the second part of the chorus, the woman pleads with her partner to try to love her, "Love me like I love you." This shows that she is willing to forgive him and move past his transgressions if he is willing to reciprocate her love. However, it is unclear whether her partner is capable or willing to change his ways, and the song ends on a note of uncertainty and sadness.


Line by Line Meaning

You cheated, you lied
You were unfaithful and dishonest.


You said that you love me
You claimed to have affection for me.


You said that you want me
You professed a desire for me.


Oh, what can I do
I am unsure of what actions to take.


But just keep on loving you
Despite your deceit, I continue to feel strongly for you.


Love is something you know nothing about
You lack understanding of what love truly means.


Love is something you can't know about
You are incapable of comprehending the concept of love.


So please try to love me
I implore you to attempt to feel affection for me.


Love me like I love you
Return my feelings of love in equal measure.


Oh please try to love me
I beg of you to try and reciprocate my love.


Oh what can I do...
I am still uncertain of what action to take in this situation.


Oh what can I do...
My confusion and uncertainty persist.


Oh what can I do...
I am left with no clear solution to the problem at hand.




Lyrics © Kanjian Music, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: LEVON HELM

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Comments from YouTube:

@bobalan3179

MaryAnn sat next to me in a A.J.H.S Geometry class in 1963. She was a very nice person. May she and her sister Marge R.I.P.

@TGTSTS

Hands down THE best version of this song. The Shangri-Las are entirely underrated. Love, love, love.

@jimmig8542

lets not get crazy here! the shields own this song-sorry.

@MeanOlHepCat

with Jesse Belvin doing the falcetto ... simply the best

@doowopfiend

@@jimmig8542 that is just not true

@rossiniangelini7751

Listen to that piano. Listen to the harmony. Only a stone would not be moved. Listening makes my eyes well up with tears. Oh where did the years go?

@RaananVolesPianist

A good version, but the original version has the falsetto, And the falsetto is what makes the song.

@gao1258

I adore the "Shangs, this track standouts for Mary's lead, the doo-wop backing vocals, and that lead guitar...wonderful

@adrygonzalez3700

Doo wop por siempre. Siempre estará en nuestros corazones. Yo tengo 48 años y ni siquiera nací en esa época. Pero esta música me causa una gran nostalgia por aquella gran época perdida.

@SENORITA1666

omg i cant get over how amazing this music is! old music from the 60's, with real emotion and lyrics with meaning, and just awesome intruments and talent! god i was born in the wrong era love the 60's!

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