Apathy's Last Kiss
The Smashing Pumpkins Lyrics


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What's the matter
What's the difference
You'll feel better if you lie
With the stars in your eyes

Honey, Honey
Where's my baby
She know better than to cry
With the stars in her eyes

There is
No safe place to go
I should know
The lame
And the droll have needs
To let their feelings show

What's the matter
What's the difference
What's the question
You'll feel better
If you lie
With the stars in your eyes

There is
No safe place to go
I should know
The lame
And the droll have needs
To let their feelings show

Bury your heart in a hole
Bury your heart in a




Bury your heart in a
Bury your heart in a hole

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Smashing Pumpkins' song "Apathy's Last Kiss" speak to the idea of escapism and the desire to distract oneself from pain or discomfort. The opening lines, "What's the matter/What's the difference/You'll feel better if you lie/With the stars in your eyes," suggest that ignoring or obscuring the truth can be a soothing balm, even if only for a moment. The use of the phrase "stars in your eyes" conjures images of wonder and beauty, but also hints at a detachment from reality.


The singer then addresses a person referred to as "Honey" and asks where their baby is. The line "She know better than to cry/With the stars in her eyes" suggests that even crying or feeling emotional pain can be seen as weak or undesirable in a culture that prizes invulnerability and apathy. The idea of hiding one's emotions is reinforced by the repeated refrain of "Bury your heart in a hole."


The final lines of the song, "The lame/And the droll have needs/To let their feelings show," may be a criticism of a society that dismisses or mocks those who are perceived as "lame" or boring. The use of the word "needs" reminds us that all people have emotional needs, even if they are not always expressed or acknowledged.


Overall, "Apathy's Last Kiss" presents a bleak picture of a world where pain is hidden and beauty "with the stars in your eyes" is fleeting and illusory.


Line by Line Meaning

What's the matter
What is troubling you


What's the difference
What distinguishes the options and their outcomes


You'll feel better if you lie
You may find comfort in avoiding the truth


With the stars in your eyes
Through a dreamy and idealistic perspective


Honey, Honey
A term of affection for a loved one


Where's my baby
Where is the person I care deeply for


She know better than to cry
She understands how to deal with emotions


No safe place to go
There is nowhere to feel secure


I should know
I am aware of this from experience


The lame
Those who are unable to express themselves well


And the droll have needs
Even those who are amusing and witty require emotional support


To let their feelings show
To reveal their true emotions


What's the question
What is the issue to be addressed


Bury your heart in a hole
Hide away your emotions


Bury your heart in a
Suppress your feelings


Bury your heart in a
Conceal your emotional vulnerability


Bury your heart in a hole
Keep your feelings locked away




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