Blues Before And After
The Smithereens Lyrics


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You know I really want to see you when you know I might not
(And you make me want you more when you hurt me a lot)
I say I really love you and you say that you don't
(And it really turns me on when you say that you won't)

The blues before and after
I get the blues before and after I'm with you
The blues before and after
I get the blues before and after loving you

Sometimes I need to hear you voice
Sometimes I don't want to know
(I get so tired of tryin' to win you I just don't want to know)
You're takin' just what you need
And then you're well on your way
(I hear the same old story almost every day)

The blues before and after
I get the blues before and after I'm with you
The blues before and after
I get the blues before and after loving you

It's a shame that you won't see me when I need you tonight
Cause I know that if you did then everything would be right
And I've tried my very best to give the things that you need
But the blues they seem to follow me I never succeed

I want to take you in my arms and you just don't want to know
(When I finally get to touch you, feels like forty below)
Just as always you have gotten your way
Just a normal complication in a typical day

The blues before and after
I get the blues before and after I'm with you




The blues before and after
I get the blues before and after loving you

Overall Meaning

The Smithereens's song "Blues Before And After" is a tale of a man in a complicated and frustrating relationship with a woman he loves deeply. The opening lines of the song express the singer's longing to see his lover even though she may hurt him, revealing how he is willing to go through pain to be with her. He confesses his love for her, but it appears that she is not interested in reciprocating his feelings. The singer finds this attitude of hers attractive and irresistible, adding to the complexity of their relationship.


In the chorus, the lyricist creates a metaphor of the blues, conveying the emotional state of the singer before and after being with his lover. He experiences a sense of melancholy and sadness despite being with her because of the unstable nature of their relationship. The chorus also highlights how the "blues" become a constant in his life, persisting even after loving her. He needs her but often doesn't want to deal with her, and this paradox keeps him in a state of emotional turmoil.


The final verse repeats the same pattern of the singer's desire to be with his lover, who seems to be indifferent towards him. He is willing to give her anything she needs but never seems to get what he desires. The song ends with the singer feeling defeated by the same old story that keeps repeating itself in their relationship.


Overall, "Blues Before and After" is a bittersweet song that captures the complexities of relationships and how they can leave us in a state of emotional confusion.


Line by Line Meaning

You know I really want to see you when you know I might not
I want to see you even though you may not be available


(And you make me want you more when you hurt me a lot)
Your unavailability increases my desire to be with you


I say I really love you and you say that you don't
I confess my love for you but you reject it


(And it really turns me on when you say that you won't)
Your rejection of my love excites me


The blues before and after
I feel sad both before and after being with you


I get the blues before and after I'm with you
Being with you doesn't bring me happiness


I get the blues before and after
My circumstances bring me continuous sadness


I get the blues before and after loving you
Even though I love you, being with you doesn't make me happy


Sometimes I need to hear you voice
At times, I need to hear your voice


Sometimes I don't want to know
However, sometimes I don't want to hear from you


(I get so tired of tryin' to win you I just don't want to know)
I become fatigued with the constant effort of trying to win you over


You're takin' just what you need
You only take what you need from me


And then you're well on your way
After you've taken what you need, you're content to go your separate way


(I hear the same old story almost every day)
I grow tired of hearing the same story from you day in and day out


It's a shame that you won't see me when I need you tonight
It saddens me that you can't see me when I need you tonight


Cause I know that if you did then everything would be right
If you were here, everything would be okay


And I've tried my very best to give the things that you need
I've done everything I can to provide what you require


But the blues they seem to follow me I never succeed
Despite my efforts, I can't seem to shake my sadness


I want to take you in my arms and you just don't want to know
I desire to be close to you, but you remain indifferent


(When I finally get to touch you, feels like forty below)
Even when we're together physically, it feels like there's no connection


Just as always you have gotten your way
As usual, you've achieved what you wanted


Just a normal complication in a typical day
Your behavior is just another challenge I face each day




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: PAT DINIZIO

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thewordlove4316

I don't know ...

William Wilson,
Room Without A View,
Maria Elena,
Yesterday Girl,
Baby Be Good,
Cut Flowers,
Kiss Your Tears Away,
Blue Period ...

there's not a clunker on this one!!



All comments from YouTube:

Wolf Soul

I know these guys, and they are most excellent dudes who never received their just desserts. In other words, they should have been HUGE. Rest in peace, Pat. You were awesome and always so kind to me. Thank you.

Edwin Mikesell

Hell yeah! Very approachable and underrated!!

Barronius

I love this song

Old Яomans

Yeah I really enjoyed them back in the day, but looking back, I see that thier dad-rock look didn't help them marketing-wise.

Eliazar Ramirez

I never forget this band.

Terry Quelet

The Village Green in Hillsboro, NJ loves the Smithereens.

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smithereens are amazing before and after everything.

ajdoman317

I hate when I discover a band that I REALLY like and then I found out the lead singer passed away. RIP Pat. Its a bummer I'll never get to hear you live, but thank you for your music.

cthulhugamete

Under appreciated, rock solid band.

Emily Bryyson

This band is entertaining as hell live. Up there with Iggy & The Ramones. This band goes to 11 for real!

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