Is It Really So Strange
The Smiths Lyrics


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I left the North
I traveled South
I found a tiny house
And I can't help the way that I feel

Oh yes, you can kick me
And you can punch me
And you can break my face
But you won't change the way I feel
'Cause I love you, oh

And is it really so strange?
Oh, is it really so strange?
Oh, is it really so, really so strange?
I say, "No", you say, "Yes"
But you will change your mind

I left the South
I traveled North
I got confused, I killed a horse
I can't help the way that I feel

Oh yes, you can kick me
And you can butt me
And you can break my spine
But you won't change the way I feel
'Cause I love you, oh

And is it really so strange?
Oh, is it really so strange?
Oh, is it really so, really so strange?
I say, "No", you say, "Yes"
But you will change your mind

I left the North again
I traveled South again
And I got confused, I killed a nun
I can't help the way I feel

I can't help the way I feel
I can't help the way I feel
I lost my bag in Newport Pagnell

Why is the last mile the hardest mile?
My throat was dry, with the sun in my eyes




And I realized, I realized
I could never, I could never, never, go back home again

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Is It Really So Strange" by The Smiths reflect a tumultuous and unrequited love. The song tells the story of a person who leaves the North and heads South to find a new life but can't escape their love for someone who doesn't return their feelings. Despite being physically abused by this person and experiencing confusion and violence on their journey, they remain steadfast in their love.


The repetition of the phrase "is it really so strange?" suggests a sense of disbelief or incomprehension at the fact that their love is not returned. The line "I say, 'No', you say, 'Yes'" is indicative of the back-and-forth nature of their relationship, with the other person sending mixed signals.


The final lines of the song, "Why is the last mile the hardest mile? My throat was dry, with the sun in my eyes, and I realized, I realized, I could never, I could never, never, go back home again" reflect a sense of hopelessness and resignation. The singer has come to the realization that their love is unattainable, and they can never return to the life they once knew.


Line by Line Meaning

I left the North
I departed my hometown


I traveled South
I journeyed to a different region


I found a tiny house
I discovered a small dwelling


And I can't help the way that I feel
My emotions are beyond my control


Oh yes, you can kick me
You're capable of physically harming me


And you can punch me
You can strike me with your fists


And you can break my face
You can cause physical damage to my face


But you won't change the way I feel
My emotions won't be altered by your violence


'Cause I love you, oh
I care about you deeply


And is it really so strange?
Is my behavior truly unusual?


Oh, is it really so strange?
Is it really abnormal?


Oh, is it really so, really so strange?
Is it actually that uncommon?


I say, "No", you say, "Yes"
We have differing opinions


But you will change your mind
You'll come around eventually


I got confused, I killed a horse
I was unclear on something and harmed an innocent animal


Oh yes, you can kick me
You're capable of using physical force against me


And you can butt me
You could hit me with your head


And you can break my spine
You could cause me serious physical harm


But you won't change the way I feel
Despite your violent tendencies, my emotions won't be altered


'Cause I love you, oh
I have strong feelings for you


And is it really so strange?
Is my behavior really that odd?


Oh, is it really so strange?
Is it very unusual?


Oh, is it really so, really so strange?
Is it truly out of the ordinary?


I say, "No", you say, "Yes"
We have differing opinions


But you will change your mind
You will come around to my perspective


I got confused, I killed a nun
I was unclear on something and took the life of a religious woman


I can't help the way I feel
My emotions are beyond my control


I can't help the way I feel
My emotions are not something I can change


I lost my bag in Newport Pagnell
My belongings went missing in a specific location


Why is the last mile the hardest mile?
Why is the final stretch the most challenging one?


My throat was dry, with the sun in my eyes
I was dehydrated and affected by the bright sunlight


And I realized, I realized
I came to a sudden understanding


I could never, I could never, never, go back home again
I knew I could never return to my previous life




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: STEVEN MORRISSEY, JOHNNY MARR

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@roiybenkel682

I left the North
I travelled South
I found a tiny house
And I can't help the way I feel
Oh yes, you can kick me
And you can punch me
And you can break my face
But you won't change the way I feel
'Cause I love you
Oh...

And is it really so strange?
Oh, is it really so strange?
Oh, is it really so, really so strange?
I say NO, you say YES
(and you will change your mind)

I left the South
I travelled North
I got confused - I killed a horse
I can't help the way I feel
Oh yes, you can punch me
And you can butt me
And you can break my spine
But you won't change the way I feel
'Cause I love you
Oh...

And is it really so strange?
Oh, is it really so strange?
Oh, is it really so, really so strange?
I say NO, you say YES
(But you will change your mind)

I left the North again
I travelled South again
And I got confused - I killed a nun
I CAN'T HELP THE WAY I FEEL
I CAN'T HELP THE WAY I FEEL
I CAN'T HELP THE WAY I FEEL
(I lost my bag in Newport Pagnell)

Why is the last mile the hardest mile?
My throat was dry, with the sun in my eyes
And I realised, I realised
I could never
I could never, never, never, go back home again



All comments from YouTube:

@thesmiths5395

New! The Smiths Spotify Playlist - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7sy3NL9RCKUJknQ8fvkdAv?si=t3pvD2P0TlKw8bu1lF5zUg

@deankittelson2798

Listening to Louder than bombs in honor of Andy. Only a beautiful soul could write and execute such power and soulfulness all in the same note. RIP friend.

@neilalancrombiemain6899

reminds me of high school played this and strangeways here we come over and over never got bored of them never will !!!!

@thesmiths5395

neilalancrombie main wish I was at school back now, I’m 17 finished high school listening to Drake and all that shite 😂 thanks for the post lad!

@corpi9693

I've had this song stuck in my head for the past week. I love this song <3

@linsayspence7070

One of the last Smith's songs, but one of the best ❤

@1feralbeast

Might be my favorite of all time of theirs..on the top 3 list for certain!

@Dremons7

Very underrated track

@mathewmcdonald3657

Great song. Why is the last mile the hardest mile?

@stevestrange965

How do you know?

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