Never Been Kissed
The Smiths Lyrics


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I have been unfaithful
I have been unworthy
I have been unrighteous
And I have been unmerciful

I have been unreachable
I have been unteachable
I have been unwilling
And I have been undesirable

[Chorus]
Sometimes, I have been unwise
I've been undone by what I'm unsure of
But because of you, and all that you went through
I know that I have never been unloved

I have been unbroken
I have been unmended
I have been uneasy
And I've been unapproachable

I've been unemotional
I've been unexceptional
I've been undecided
And I have been unqualified

[Chorus]

Unaware, I have been unfair
I've been unfit for blessings from above




But even I can see the sacrifice you made for me
To show that I have never been unloved

Overall Meaning

The Smiths' "Never Been Kissed" is a song about personal reflection and redemption. The lyrics describe a pattern of negative behavior and shortcomings on the part of the singer, acknowledging their faults and confessing them to an unknown listener. The lyrics show that the singer has been unfaithful, unworthy, unrighteous, unmerciful, unreachable, unteachable, unwilling, undesirable, unwise, undone by what they are unsure of, unbroken, unmended, uneasy, unapproachable, unemotional, unexceptional, undecided, and unqualified. In other words, they have been all the things that nobody wants to be, and yet they still feel loved because of the sacrifices that someone else made for them.


The choruses offer a glimpse of hope amid all the negativity. The idea is that the person singing the song is not without hope and that despite all their flaws, they have never been unloved. The song seems to be about someone who feels that they are unworthy of love and acceptance, but who finds hope in the knowledge that someone else thinks differently. The song speaks of forgiveness and redemption, of a person who has been given a second chance, and who is grateful for the love and acceptance that they have received.


Line by Line Meaning

I have been unfaithful
I have broken someone's trust


I have been unworthy
I have not deserved love or respect


I have been unrighteous
I have acted in a morally wrong way


And I have been unmerciful
I have shown no compassion or kindness


I have been unreachable
I have isolated myself and pushed others away


I have been unteachable
I have been resistant to learning or growing


I have been unwilling
I have not been open to change or new experiences


And I have been undesirable
I have felt unattractive or unwanted


Sometimes, I have been unwise
I have made foolish decisions


I've been undone by what I'm unsure of
I have been overwhelmed and uncertain


But because of you, and all that you went through
Thanks to someone who showed me love and support in my struggles


I know that I have never been unloved
I realize that despite my flaws, someone has cared for me


I have been unbroken
I have not been defeated or broken by challenges


I have been unmended
I have not fully healed from emotional or physical pain


I have been uneasy
I have felt nervous or anxious in certain situations


And I've been unapproachable
I have been difficult to approach or talk to


I've been unemotional
I have suppressed or not expressed my feelings


I've been unexceptional
I have not stood out or excelled in any particular area


I've been undecided
I have been unsure or indecisive about something


And I have been unqualified
I have felt like I lack the skills or abilities for something


Unaware, I have been unfair
I have treated someone poorly without realizing it


I've been unfit for blessings from above
I have not felt worthy of good things happening to me


But even I can see the sacrifice you made for me
I recognize the efforts someone has made on my behalf, despite my flaws


To show that I have never been unloved
To prove that someone has cared for me, despite my mistakes or shortcomings




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., CAPITOL CHRISTIAN MUSIC GROUP
Written by: MICHAEL W. SMITH, WAYNE KIRKPATRICK

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max b

when she says im 25 years old, lol when you thought that was old at the time, now your older than the characters in the 90s movies.

Chumpster1981

I was a senior when this movie came out. Now I’m 39. 😣

sha11235

At the time this came out, I was 29.

BramekizMaribekz

It's crazy how generations age different. Back then, everyone looks older than they are. Now everyone looks Younger than they are

BramekizMaribekz

@Pearls & Swine I know what you mean. When you're younger, everybody is so old and once you hit your thirties and up, everybody seems so young. And 25 back then always looked older. Now 25 looks like teenagers

Pearls & Swine

Lol I was just about to say that. I remember watching this movie and thinking 25 sounded so old, like it's so far away from someone that's 15-17. Now I hear 25 and I still think of an inexperienced young person.

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skunkie110

They missed the part when Rob says something like, "I thought she was gonna make like Carrie and kill us all." Haha. That part makes me laugh every time. I love this movie

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That part makes me laugh too. 😂😂

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Yeah 😂😂

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