Title
The Sonder Bombs Lyrics


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I don′t wanna be your merch girl
I wanna be your goddamn idol
And I don't wanna have to work twice as hard
For the same mother fuckin title
But I realize
That I probably won′t
Be so lucky
What's more modern than a female rockstar
The kind you wanna picture on her knees
I don't plan on being anyone else′s
So I′m not a priority
But I realize
That I probably set
My sights too high

It's not enough to buy my merch
If you can′t look me in the eyes
I don't want a weaker handshake
Than what you gave all the guys
It′s not enough to buy my merch
If you can't look me in the eyes
I don′t want a weaker handshake
Than what you gave all the guys





I don't wanna be your merch girl
I wanna be your goddamn idol

Overall Meaning

The Sonder Bombs's song "Title" is a powerful feminist anthem that expresses a desire for female artists to be seen as idols rather than just merchandise to be bought and sold. The lyrics suggest that the music industry has a long way to go in terms of gender equality, as women are often not given the same opportunities and respect as their male counterparts.


The song begins with the singer stating that she does not want to be a mere "merch girl," but rather a "goddamn idol," highlighting the discrepancy in the way that men and women are viewed in the music industry. She expresses frustration at having to work twice as hard just to achieve the same level of recognition as men, and acknowledges the fact that this is unlikely to change anytime soon. The second verse emphasizes the objectification of women in rock music, as the singer rejects the idea of being someone's fantasy and asserts her autonomy.


Overall, "Title" is a powerful statement about the need for gender equality in the music industry, and it encourages listeners to support and uplift female artists.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't wanna be your merch girl
I don't want to be seen as just a product for you to buy and use to show off your support for me.


I wanna be your goddamn idol
I want to be someone you look up to and admire for my talent, not just a pretty face to put on a t-shirt.


And I don't wanna have to work twice as hard
I don't want to have to put in more effort than my male counterparts to achieve the same level of success.


For the same mother fuckin title
I shouldn't have to work harder just because of my gender, I deserve equal recognition and opportunities.


But I realize
However, I understand that the music industry is still unequal and biased towards men.


That I probably won't
I am aware that reaching my goal of becoming a respected female rockstar may be challenging and difficult.


Be so lucky
Success may not come easily to me because of the systemic barriers in place for women in the industry.


What's more modern than a female rockstar
There is nothing more current or relevant than a woman who rocks the stage with her music and her presence.


The kind you wanna picture on her knees
However, some people still objectify and sexualize female performers, reducing them to nothing more than a sexual object to be objectified.


I don't plan on being anyone else's
I refuse to change who I am or alter my talent and art to satisfy anyone else's expectations or desires.


So I'm not a priority
Because I won't cater to anyone's expectations, I may not be as high on the priority list for some people, despite my talent.


But I realize
However, I am aware that staying true to myself is more important than conforming to others' expectations.


That I probably set
I understand that by being unapologetically myself, I may have set my sights higher than some people are willing to see and recognize.


My sights too high
People's limited expectations and stereotypical views of female performers may make it difficult for me to achieve my goals of being a respected artist.


It's not enough to buy my merch
Simply buying a t-shirt with my face on it isn't enough to show true support for my music and my message.


If you can't look me in the eyes
To truly understand and appreciate my music and message, you need to see me as a respected and talented musician with something important to say, not just a pretty face to consume.


I don't want a weaker handshake
I want to be treated with respect and given the same opportunities and recognition as male performers in the industry.


Than what you gave all the guys
I shouldn't have to settle for less than what my male counterparts receive, both in terms of respect and recognition.




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