Shop Around
The Spinners Lyrics


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When I became of age my mother called me to her side,
She said,"Son, you're growing up now pretty soon you'll take a bride.
And then she said, "Just because you've become a young man now,
There's still somethings that you don't understand now,
Before you ask some girl for her hand now
Keep your freedom for as long as you can now."

My mama told me, "You better shop around, (shop, shop)
Oh yeah, you better shop around." (shop, shop around)

Ah, there's somethings that I want you to know now.
Just as sure as the winds gonna blow now
The women come and the women gonna go now
Before you tell em that you love em so now.

My mama told me, "You better shop around, (shop, shop)
Oh yeah, you better shop around." (shop, shop around)

A-try to get yourself a bargain son.
Don't be sold on the very first one.
A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'

Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
My mama told me, "You better shop around."

Ooh yeah, a-try to get yourself a bargain son.
Don't be sold on the very first one.
A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'.

Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
Make sure that her love is true now.
I hate to see you feelin' sad and blue now."

My mama told me, "You better shop around (shop, shop)
Don't let the first one get you
Oh no cause I don't want to see her with you
Before you let her hold you tight, ah yeah make sure shes alright




Before you let her take your hand my son
Understand my son, be a man my son I know you can I love you"

Overall Meaning

The Spinners’ hit “Shop Around” is a classic soul song with a valuable lesson about relationships. The song starts with the singer’s mother calling him to her side to have “the talk.” She reminds him that even though he is growing up, there are still things he doesn’t understand about love and relationships. She advises him to keep his freedom as long as he can and to shop around for the best partner. The catchy hooks emphasize the importance of avoiding getting caught up with the first woman he meets.


The song advises against jumping into a relationship with the first pretty girl that catches his attention. The mother warns him that pretty girls come a dime a dozen, but finding a partner who will give him true love is priceless. The lyrics suggest that he should focus on finding a woman who is actually in love with him and who he truly loves in return. The song acknowledges the pain that can come from ending up with the wrong partner, and encourages taking the time to choose wisely before making such a huge decision.


Overall, “Shop Around” is a wise and ageless reminder to take the search for a life partner seriously and to avoid settling for less than ideal. It stresses the importance of making a thoughtful, informed choice when it comes to love and personal fulfillment.


Line by Line Meaning

When I became of age my mother called me to her side,
As I came of age, my mother pulled me aside to give me advice.


She said,"Son, you're growing up now pretty soon you'll take a bride.
My mother warned me that as I grew up, I would soon have to think about getting married.


And then she said, "Just because you've become a young man now,
She reminded me that even though I'm growing up, there are things I still don't understand.


There's still somethings that you don't understand now,
There are still things that I need to learn about relationships and women.


Before you ask some girl for her hand now
Before I ever ask a girl to marry me, I needed to know what to look for.


Keep your freedom for as long as you can now.
My mother advised me to enjoy my freedom for as long as I can before committing to someone else.


My mama told me, "You better shop around, (shop, shop)
My mother warned me that I needed to look around before settling down with someone.


Ah, there's somethings that I want you to know now.
My mother wanted me to be aware of certain things about women and relationships.


Just as sure as the winds gonna blow now
Just like the wind, relationships can be unpredictable and change without warning.


The women come and the women gonna go now
Women come and go, so it's important to find the right one for you.


Before you tell em that you love em so now.
Before telling a woman that I love her, I needed to ensure that she was the right one for me.


A-try to get yourself a bargain son.
I should try to find the best possible partner for me, someone who would suit me best.


Don't be sold on the very first one.
I should not commit to the first woman I meet, without checking to see if she's right for me.


A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
There are many beautiful women in the world, so I need to find one who is also kind, compassionate, and loving.


A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'
It's important to find someone who will love me genuinely, for who I am.


Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Before getting married, I should be absolutely sure that she is the one for me.


Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
I need to be certain that she truly loves me, and not just settling for me.


Ooh yeah, a-try to get yourself a bargain son.
I should try to find the best possible partner for me, someone who would suit me best.


Don't be sold on the very first one.
I should not commit to the first woman I meet, without checking to see if she's right for me.


A-pretty girls come a dime a dozen,
There are many beautiful women in the world, so I need to find one who is also kind, compassionate, and loving.


A-try to find one who's gonna give you true lovin'.
It's important to find someone who will love me genuinely, for who I am.


Before you take a girl and say I do, now,
Before getting married, I should be absolutely sure that she is the one for me.


Make sure she's in love with-a you now.
I need to be certain that she truly loves me, and not just settling for me.


Make sure that her love is true now.
It's vital to ensure that her love for me is genuine, and not just temporary.


I hate to see you feelin' sad and blue now.
My mother didn't want to see me sad and depressed, especially if I ended up with the wrong woman.


Don't let the first one get you
I shouldn't settle down with the first woman I meet, without checking to see if she's right for me.


Oh no cause I don't want to see her with you
My mother didn't want to see me attached to the wrong woman.


Before you let her hold you tight, ah yeah make sure shes alright
Before getting involved in a physical relationship, I need to make sure that she is emotionally stable and right for me.


Before you let her take your hand my son
Before getting too involved with someone, it's important to make sure that we are compatible and have similar long term goals.


Understand my son, be a man my son I know you can I love you
My mother urged me to be a strong, confident man who knows what he wants in life, and she supports me whatever happens.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BERRY GORDY JR, BERRY JR GORDY, WILLIAM ROBINSON JR.

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@ujimajame4601

Lead by G.C. Cameron, who sounded just like Smokey on his solo song "(Don't Wanna Play) Pajama Games" and gave the world both "It's A Shame" and "It's So Hard To Say Goodbye To Yesterday."

@Stevieboy130664

Better than the original by far.  Funky as f**k

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