When It Started
The Strokes & The Strokes Lyrics

Won't decide, but he won't debate
He is hesitant and unassertive in making decisions and does not like to argue or discuss different opinions.

Said, "thanks my friend," but he was too late
He expressed gratitude after the situation had already passed, showing a lack of attentiveness and awareness in the moment.

Oh why, oh why
He is questioning or lamenting something, but does not have a clear answer or understanding.

I don't know
He is admitting his lack of knowledge or understanding about a particular topic or situation.

So you think things move pretty fast down here
He is challenging someone’s assumption that life moves quickly in their environment or circumstances.

Well just wait my dear 'till you look up there
He suggests that there are greater, more complex forces at play that can affect their perception of time and movement in life.

Oh maybe someday you'll know
He implies that the other person may gain greater insight or understanding about life as they mature or experience more.

Had his second kid, was an early night
He had a child and went to bed early, potentially indicating a settled, domestic lifestyle.

Got to be well dressed 'cause he hates to fly
He feels pressure to present himself well in public and especially for air travel.

Oh loves his job, takes it home
He enjoys his work and brings it into his personal life, demonstrating a strong work ethic and dedication.

Anything they wanted They could have it, have it Didn't even notice I don't mind it, mind it
He or someone else had access to whatever they wanted and did not even realize it, indicating a sense of privilege or unawareness.

Won't decide, but he won't debate Said, "thanks my friend, thought that we was dead" Oh why, oh why I don't know
He continues to express hesitation and lack of clarity in decision-making or communication.

Think things move pretty fast down here But just wait my dear 'till we get up there Oh maybe someday they'll know
He reiterates the point that there are bigger, more complicated things that humans cannot fully comprehend or anticipate.

Come on tell me does she warm the room When he comes Or does he just know how to leave When it gets cold
He is asking about someone’s partner and whether they provide emotional warmth and comfort or if they are prone to leaving when things are difficult.

Well I don't care, I don't care Cause it's free
He does not find it important or worthwhile to dwell on the issue because it does not cost him anything.