Memory
The Suburbs Lyrics


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Hey Jolene
Thanks for the memories
But I think it's time to cut the ties
Life has around us
For I need to be selfish and you have to go
Get some attention from someone else
For love had made me
Blind
And in time I became
The man I never wanted to be
Honestly
I didn't actually love you
I was just lonely
Time wasted
Sleep lost
The letters probably meant nothing to you
Hey Jolene
Thanks for the memories
Because I showed you the sides of me
Nobody has ever seen
I showed you the best parts of life
Hey Jolene
Please forget me
Hey Jolene
Thanks for misusing me
Thanks for the lessons you silently taught me
Hey Jolene
Thanks for the memories
Because I showed you the sides of me
Nobody has ever seen
I showed you the best parts of life
Hey Jolene
Please forget me
Hey Jolene
Thanks for misusing me
Thanks for the lessons you silently taught me




Hey Jolene
Thanks for the memories

Overall Meaning

The song "Memory" by The Suburbs is a heartfelt confession to a former lover named Jolene. The singer thanks Jolene for the memories they shared, but admits that it's time to move on and cut ties. The song speaks to the singer's desire to be selfish and the need to look after their own well-being. The singer suggests that love had made them blind, and that in time they became the person they never wanted to be. The singer confesses that they weren't actually in love with Jolene, but they were just lonely. The singer admits to wasting time and losing sleep, but suggests that the letters they wrote probably meant nothing to Jolene.


Throughout the song, the singer repeats his gratitude for the memories he shared with Jolene, but ultimately begs for her to forget him. The song also acknowledges the lessons learned from their relationship, even if those lessons were learned silently. The song is a poignant reflection on a relationship that has ended, and the ways in which that relationship changed the singer. Ultimately, the song suggests that while memories can be painful, they can also be transformative and ultimately valuable.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey Jolene
Addressing the person named Jolene


Thanks for the memories
Expressing gratitude for the memories shared with Jolene


But I think it's time to cut the ties
Feeling that it is necessary to end the relationship


Life has around us
Reflecting on the changes and developments in life


For I need to be selfish and you have to go
Acknowledging the need to prioritize oneself and end the relationship with Jolene


Get some attention from someone else
Encouraging Jolene to seek affection from someone other than the singer


For love had made me
Reflecting on how love has affected the singer


Blind
Feeling like love has blinded the artist's judgement


And in time I became
Reflecting on how the artist has changed over time


The man I never wanted to be
Feeling disappointment in the person they have become


Honestly
Speaking candidly


I didn't actually love you
Admitting that the artist did not truly love Jolene


I was just lonely
Realizing that the singer only sought companionship because they were lonely


Time wasted
Feeling like the time spent in the relationship was wasted


Sleep lost
Suggesting that the singer lost sleep over the relationship


The letters probably meant nothing to you
Implying that Jolene likely did not care about the letters the artist sent


Because I showed you the sides of me nobody has ever seen
Acknowledging that the relationship allowed the artist to reveal a vulnerable part of themselves to Jolene


Please forget me
Requesting that Jolene forget about the singer


Thanks for misusing me
Implying that Jolene may have taken advantage of the singer in some way


Thanks for the lessons you silently taught me
Acknowledging that the relationship may have taught the artist some valuable lessons




Lyrics © DistroKid
Written by: Corné Opperman

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Comments from YouTube:

luvhatpunk

A fantastic first offering from the Suburbs on this red vinyl 7" !!! I believe there are another 4 or 5 songs on the other side of this late 70's platter.

luvhatpunk

.....including the fantastic "Prehistoric Jaws".

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