Some Things You Never Get Used To
The Supremes Lyrics


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Some things you never get used to

It's the same routine of getting up every morning
And putting on a smile
But underneath there's another person
Who can't find a reason to make living worthwhile

Ah, another day to get through
Without the love that once was mine
Sometimes I think my heartaches come to an end
And then something brings them all back again
Like wanting you and not having you
I'll never get used to

I've gotten used to not listing
For familiar sounds you used to make
Now I'm trying to get out of the habit
Of calling your name first thing when I awake
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It's like a child's first step
I have to learn to walk all, all over again
'Cause you were always there if I should fall
And now there's nobody else that I can call
It's like wanting you and not having you
I'll never get used to

Lost in a cloud
I think I caught a glimpse of you
Blindly I rush to touch your hand, huh
To discover it's my mind
Playing tricks on me again
Tricks on me again

Some things you never get used to
Sometimes I think my heartaches come to an end
And then something brings them all back again
Like wanting you and like having you
I'll never get used to
It's wanting you and not having you
I'll never get used to
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Like wanting you and not having you
I'll never get used to

Overall Meaning

The Supremes's song "Some Things You Never Get Used To" is a heartbreaking ballad that conveys the difficulty of moving on from lost love. The opening lyrics set the scene for the rest of the song by stating that, on the surface, the singer puts on a brave face and faces each day with a smile. However, the listener is introduced to the inner turmoil that haunts the singer as they struggle to find a way to make life worth living without their former partner. The "routine of getting up every morning" implies that the singer has been stuck in this cycle for some time, and can't seem to escape it.


The lyrics of the song delve deeper into the emotions the singer experiences which all revolve around the same theme: wanting someone they can't have. The line "Like wanting you and not having you, I'll never get used to" is the refrain of the song and serves as a reminder of the point of the whole composition. Through the verses, we see the singer come to terms with not hearing the familiar sounds of their former partner or calling out their name every morning. The imagery of the child learning to walk after losing their crutch is powerful, and it underlines the message of the entire song: moving on from lost love is hard, and it requires an entirely new way of thinking.


Overall, Some Things You Never Get Used To is a somber composition that deals with the universal theme of love and loss. The lyrics expertly convey the difficulty of accepting a new reality, and through its emotive and relatable messaging, it is no wonder that it remains an all-time classic to this day.


Line by Line Meaning

Some things you never get used to
There are some things that are just too difficult to get used to.


It's the same routine of getting up every morning
Every day feels like Groundhog Day, with the same mundane routine repeated over and over again.


And putting on a smile
Even though I'm hurting on the inside, I have to put on a happy face for everyone else.


But underneath there's another person
Beneath the surface, there's a completely different person struggling with pain and heartache.


Who can't find a reason to make living worthwhile
It's hard to find meaning in life when the person you love is no longer there.


Ah, another day to get through
Each new day is a struggle that I have to somehow get through.


Without the love that once was mine
I had love in my life before, but now it's gone and I don't know how to replace it.


Sometimes I think my heartaches come to an end
I start to feel a little better and think that maybe the pain will go away, but then something happens to bring it all back again.


And then something brings them all back again
Just when I thought the pain was subsiding, it all comes rushing back.


Like wanting you and not having you
The main source of my heartache is wanting to be with you, but not being able to.


I'll never get used to
Even though I've been living without you for a while, I know I'll never truly get used to the feeling.


I've gotten used to not listing
I've learned to live without hearing the familiar sounds that you used to make.


For familiar sounds you used to make
I miss hearing the little things that used to remind me of you.


Now I'm trying to get out of the habit
I'm actively trying to break the habit of calling out your name first thing in the morning.


Of calling your name first thing when I awake
Every day, my first thought is of you, and it's hard to break that habit.


It's like a child's first step
Starting over without you feels like having to learn how to walk all over again, like a child.


I have to learn to walk all, all over again
Without you, everything feels new and daunting, like having to start from the beginning.


'Cause you were always there if I should fall
Before, I knew that no matter what happened, you would be there to catch me if I fell.


And now there's nobody else that I can call
Now that you're gone, there's no one else that can replace you or fill that void.


Lost in a cloud
I feel like I'm wandering aimlessly through life, without any direction or purpose.


I think I caught a glimpse of you
Sometimes I think I see you, even though I know it's not possible.


Blindly I rush to touch your hand, huh
Whenever I think I see you, I'm filled with hope and rush towards you, but it's always a false alarm.


To discover it's my mind
Eventually I realize that it was just my imagination playing tricks on me again.


Playing tricks on me again
It's happened so many times that I know my mind is just making things up again.


Like wanting you and like having you
I both want you and have you in my heart, but I can't physically be with you.


I'll never get used to
No matter how much time passes, I know I'll never fully adjust to the feeling of not having you with me.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: NICKOLAS ASHFORD, VALERIE SIMPSON

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