Treat Her Like A Lady
The Temptations Lyrics


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Treat her like a lady

Ooh-ooh, ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
Ooh, yeah, baby
Whoa-whoa-oh-oh, mmm

Now I'm the kinda guy who don't believe
That chivalry is dead, no
'Cause I believe a woman should be treated
With the utmost respect, mmm-hmm

Don't be afraid, don't turn and walk away
I wanna get to know ya, well
Don't be ashamed, don't say that love's to blame
Just come and look me over

(You'll find a heart)
You'll find a heart that you've always been lookin' for
How could anybody ask for much more, whoa
(More, more, more)

Now I like openin' doors
Pickin' up your hanky off the floor
Treat her like a lady
(Treat her like lady)
Light her cigarette if she smokes, even
(Help her with her coat)
Well, treat her like a lady
(Treat her like lady)

In this world of liberation
It's so easy to forget, mmm
That it's so nice to have a man around
To lend a helping hand, you can bet, I bet you can, baby

When I was young, my mama used to say, "Boy
A woman's like a flower, with love on her, you shower"
Ever since that day, her words never went away
I always will remember to treat my baby tender

You'll find a heart that you've always been lookin' for
How could anybody ask for much more, whoa
(More, more, more)

Now I like openin' doors
Pickin' up your hanky off the floor
Treat her like a lady
(Treat her like lady)

She's a bad son-of-a-gun
I'm her lovin' Don Juan
Treat her like a lady
(Treat her like lady)

Ooh-ho-oh, whoa
Whoa, oh, baby
Every day, ever way
Hey, hey
Hey, hey, hey

(You'll find a heart)
You'll find a heart that you've always been lookin' for
How could anybody ask for much more, whoa
(More, more, more)

Now I like openin' doors
Pickin' up your hanky off the floor
Treat her like a lady
(Treat her like lady)

Light her cigarette if she smokes, even
(Help her with her coat)
Help her out
Treat her like a lady
(Treat her like lady)

Compliment her on her hair
Even help her with her chair
Treat her like a lady
(Treat her like lady)

Now, boy, you should remember
To be a gentleman
Treat her like a lady, hoo

(You better)
Treat her like
(Well)
Treat her like
(Ho)
Treat her like a lady
(Treat her like a lady)

Treat her like
Treat her like
(Hey)
Treat her like a lady
(Treat her like a lady)

Treat her like
Treat her like
(Well)
Treat her like a lady
(Treat her like a lady)

Treat her like




Treat her like
(Woo)

Overall Meaning

The Temptations song "Treat Her Like A Lady" reminds listeners of the importance of chivalry towards women. The song stresses on the fact that a woman should be treated with respect and dignity, especially in this modern world of liberation. The singer establishes his belief in chivalry and his intention to treat his lady love with the utmost care. Moreover, the lyrics instill that a woman's worth is not measured by her physical assets but by the heart that she possesses. The song highlights the necessity of offering women simple gestures of appreciation like opening doors, lighting cigarettes, or helping them with their coats to make them feel special.


The song can also be considered as a reaction to the changing times where women were fighting for equality and men often found themselves at crossroads trying to figure out how to navigate the new norms. The Temptations's iconic song prompts men to embrace their role as gentlemen and reminds everyone that these small acts of kindness go a long way in expressing love and affection. Overall, the song inspires respect, honor and love towards women and the important role they play as life partners.


Line by Line Meaning

Now I'm the kinda guy who don't believe That chivalry is dead, no
I believe in the timeless value of chivalry and that women should still be given respect and courtesy.


Just come and look me over
Don't judge me without getting to know me first.


You'll find a heart that you've always been lookin' for How could anybody ask for much more, whoa
I have a good heart and I treat women well, what more could you want?


Now I like openin' doors Pickin' up your hanky off the floor Treat her like a lady (Treat her like lady) Light her cigarette if she smokes, even (Help her with her coat) Well, treat her like a lady (Treat her like lady)
I believe in small acts of chivalry, like opening doors, and helping her with her coat, and offering to light her cigarette.


In this world of liberation It's so easy to forget, mmm That it's so nice to have a man around To lend a helping hand, you can bet, I bet you can, baby
In a world where women are encouraged to be independent, we can overlook the importance of having a man to help out and provide support.


When I was young, my mama used to say, "Boy A woman's like a flower, with love on her, you shower" Ever since that day, her words never went away I always will remember to treat my baby tender
My mother taught me to treat women with love and care, and those values have stuck with me.


She's a bad son-of-a-gun I'm her lovin' Don Juan Treat her like a lady (Treat her like lady)
My lady is a strong and independent woman, and I am committed to wooing her and treating her like a queen.


Compliment her on her hair Even help her with her chair Treat her like a lady (Treat her like lady)
Small gestures like complimenting her appearance or pulling out her chair can make a big difference in how valued and respected she feels as a woman.


Now, boy, you should remember To be a gentleman Treat her like a lady, hoo
Young men like myself should strive to embody the qualities of a gentleman, especially when interacting with women.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Otis C Williams, Ali-Ollie Woodson

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Comments from YouTube:

@pebbles9908

I'm 52 and this song takes me back to '84. It's Saturday morning and my mother is cooking breakfast and we're cleaning the house and listening to this song.....

My mother died at the age of 39 from ovarian cancer....this song really took me back.

@luzlopez776

Sorry for your loss

@shelbygilmore6595

I wish men still felt this way about women ❤

@anthonettemiddleton2206

Temptations for ever !!!!! It’s 2024 and I still love this song

@sammiller7494

Me to

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@martinw1225

Same!

@user-te6nj8fv7e

Temptations for ever !!!!! It's 2024 and I still love this song

@deborahesonwune3759

Me too and I am old now. 70 but can still dance to this❤❤❤❤

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