Can't You See What You're Doing to Me
The Three Degrees Lyrics


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Said you're a friend of mine
But friends don't make each other right
Baby
Gave you my happiness
But you tell me that I'm like the rest
Like the rest

Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Can't you see just what you're doing
To me?

Said that our love would last
But it looks as though it's in the past
Baby
Now that you put me down
All my girlfriends say that I'm a clown
I'm a clown

Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Can't you see just what you're doing
To me?

Ooooooh, baby ey-ey
Oo-ooh, ooh-ooh, oo-ooh

Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Can't you see just what you're doing
To me, baby?

Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Can't you see just what you're doing
To me, baby?

Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Can't you see just what you're doing




To me, baby?
[Fade]

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Three Degrees's "Can't You See What You're Doing to Me" speak to the struggles of a relationship that is falling apart. The singer in the song is addressing her partner, who she thought was her friend and promised to love forever. The singer gave her all to this person, but they did not reciprocate the same love and respect. They told her she was like the rest, and seem to have broken their promise to her. The singer feels foolish and hurt, and her friends are telling her that she is a clown for staying in this situation.


The chorus is a plea to the partner to recognize the damage they are causing to the singer. She is asking why they broke their promise and cannot see the hurt that they are inflicting upon her. The repetition of the chorus emphasizes the pain of the situation, and the frustration the singer feels that her partner cannot seem to understand.


Throughout the song, the lyrics illustrate the theme of broken promises and unrequited love. The singer gave her all to her partner, but they did not seem to appreciate it or reciprocate the same amount of love. The song speaks to the pain of feeling foolish for trusting someone who did not value the relationship as much as the singer did.


Line by Line Meaning

Said you're a friend of mine
You claimed to be my friend


But friends don't make each other right
However, friends do not deceive and hurt each other


Gave you my happiness
I entrusted my happiness to you


But you tell me that I'm like the rest
Yet, you compare me to others who have wronged you


Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Can you not realize that your actions are causing me harm, my dear?


Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Please explain why you didn't keep your word, my love


Said that our love would last
You assured me that our love would endure


But it looks as though it's in the past
But it appears that it is now over


Now that you put me down
Since you have rejected and abandoned me


All my girlfriends say that I'm a clown
My friends mock and criticize me for falling for your deceptions


Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Can you not realize that your actions are causing me harm, my dear?


Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Please explain why you didn't keep your word, my love


Ooooooh, baby ey-ey
Vocalization to express heartache and frustration


Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Can you not realize that your actions are causing me harm, my dear?


Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Please explain why you didn't keep your word, my love


Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Can you not realize that your actions are causing me harm, my dear?


Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Please explain why you didn't keep your word, my love


Can't you see just what you're doing to me, baby?
Can you not realize that your actions are causing me harm, my dear?


Tell me why you broke your promise to me, baby
Please explain why you didn't keep your word, my love




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Comments from YouTube:

@jeffreyhathaway2800

Considering the age of this, you actually did a great job with it--was expecting it to be in much worse condition! Probably one of the BEST clips of The Three Degrees; all 3 of them get close-ups and plenty of camera time! Their singing and movements are flawless as usual. If girl groups had a "Royal Family" then The Three Degrees would be them!!!

@shyman99

Simply gorgeous. The royalty of female trios, along with the Supremes.

@that70sgirl90

shyman99... So True... they don't make them like that anymore! 🙁

@williamdecastroferreira5617

Don't forget The Ronnetes 👏👏

@70s80sVidz

Just beautiful, and even if the quality isn't "perfect", it's wonderful to see. Thank you so much and please don't let a few video imperfections stop you from sharing these rare and precious performances...we love them all 💖

@jeremymanning2132

This brings back some great memories for me.
This was by far their most successful line up.
They produced some awesome tracks when they were at Philadelphia International Records.
Respect!

@ivanildosousa8742

Linda demais essa música gosto muito dela

@robin2000

I was given a 45/RPM record back in 1978 contining four hits: When will I see you again, Dirty Ol' Man. Year of Decision and Can't you see what you're doing to me. I still keep this record in my collection. Thanks so much for sharing this video.

@usmcveteran7316

Beautiful song and great artists. Love to return to 1974, and be a 19 year old United States Marine. A great time to be 19 years old. Semper Fi

@holmes1978

I Love this song so much !!!

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