Cold Days from the Birdhouse
The Twilight Sad Lyrics


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Another hotel with ruined plans
Romantic gesture with ruined plans
And so you make it your own
But this is where your arm can't go
You make it your own

Another phone call with ruined plans
Romantic gesture with ruined plans
And so you make it your own
But this is where your arm can't go
You make it your own
But this is where your arm can't go

And your red sky at night won't follow me
It won't follow me now
I won't wear your shoes
And I won't clip your wings

I see it when you lied, we all look so surprised
And will you come back? Will you come back?
And breathing in smoke signs like a puppet told to drive
And will you come back? Will you come back?

And your red sky at night won't follow me
It won't follow me now
And your red sky at night won't follow me
It won't follow me now
And your red sky at night won't follow me
It won't follow me now
And your red sky at night won't follow me
You won't follow me now

And where are your manners?
So where are your manners?
And where are your manners?
And where are your manners?

So where are your manners?
And where are your manners?
And where are your manners?
And where are your manners?

So where are your manners?
And where are your manners?
So where are your manners?
And where are your manners?
And where are your manners?




So where are your manners?
So where are your manners?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Twilight Sad's "Cold Days from the Birdhouse" suggest the frustration of trying to make a connection with someone who just can't seem to reciprocate. The singer of the song is dealing with both a failed romantic gesture and a ruined plan at a hotel, which has left them feeling alone and disconnected. They try to make the situation their own but realize there are limits to what they can do. The metaphor of the arm not being able to go to a certain point suggests that there is only so far they can extend themselves to try and connect with this person who remains distant.


The chorus of the song emphasizes the divide between the singer and this other person, with the "red sky at night" suggesting a time of beauty and peace that can't be shared between them. The singer refuses to "wear your shoes" or "clip your wings", suggesting that they won't try to change themselves or limit themselves to try and make a connection. The lyrics suggest a sense of hurt and betrayal, with the singer feeling lied to and surprised by the other person's actions.


The repetition of "Where are your manners?" at the end of the song suggests a frustration with the other person's behavior and a desire for them to act in a more respectful way. The song ends with a sense of unresolved tension, with the singer still seeking connection but unable to achieve it with this particular person.


Line by Line Meaning

Another hotel with ruined plans
A previously planned romantic gesture ruined due to another hotel booking.


And so you make it your own
You attempt to recreate the ruined romantic gesture, but with your own twist.


But this is where your arm can't go
However, there are limitations to what you can do to make up for the disappointment.


Another phone call with ruined plans
A similar romantic gesture planned over the phone doesn't work out as expected.


And your red sky at night won't follow me
Your positive outlook and hopeful spirit can't be shared with me.


It won't follow me now
And this barrier persists between us.


I won't wear your shoes
I won't take on the same attitude or perspective as you.


And I won't clip your wings
I won't hold you back or hinder your freedom.


I see it when you lied, we all look so surprised
When you deceived us, we expressed our shock and disappointment.


And will you come back? Will you come back?
But despite this, we are still wondering if you will return to us.


And breathing in smoke signs like a puppet told to drive
We take in hints and indicators, like a puppet receiving commands, to try to move forward.


So where are your manners?
We are frustrated with your lack of consideration and decency.


And where are your manners?
We continue to question your behavior and choices.


So where are your manners?
These repeated questions are a plea for you to act with respect and accountability.


And where are your manners?
We need you to take responsibility for your actions and make amends.


So where are your manners?
You continue to disappoint and upset us with your behavior.


And where are your manners?
We need you to treat us and the situation with the consideration we deserve.


So where are your manners?
Our repeated pleas reveal our desperation for you to show basic manners and respect.


So where are your manners?
We hope that, by continuously asking, we can encourage you to change your behavior for the better.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Andrew James MacFarlane, Craig Orzel, James Graham, Mark Gerard Devine

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