Post Break-Up Sex
The Vaccines Lyrics


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I can barely look at you
Don't tell me who you lost it to
Didn't we say we had a deal?
Didn't I say how bad I feel?
Everyone needs a helping hand
Who said I would not understand?
Someone up the social scale
For when you're going off the rails

Have post break up sex
That helps you forget your ex
What did you expect
From post break up sex?

Leave it 'til the guilt consumes
Fucking in the nearest room
All our friends were unaware
Most had just passed out downstairs
To think I'd hoped you'd be okay
Now I can't think of what to say
Maybe I misunderstood
But I can't believe you're feeling good

From post break up sex
That helps you forget your ex
What did you expect
From post break up sex? Alright

Post break up sex
That helps you forget your ex
What did you expect
From post break up sex?

Oh, when you love somebody but you find someone
Uh-huh-huh
And it all unravels and it comes undone
Uh-huh-huh, uh-huh-huh
Uh-huh-huh

Post break up sex
That helps you forget your ex
What did you expect
From post break up sex?
Post break up sex
That helps you forget your ex




What did you expect
From post break up sex?

Overall Meaning

The Vaccines' song Post Break-Up Sex deals with the complicated emotions and decisions that come with trying to move on from a past relationship. The opening lyrics, "I can barely look at you / Don't tell me who you lost it to" sets the tone for the uneasy feeling between the two individuals. The singer questions the loyalty of their past partner and the promises they had made to each other. The line "Everyone needs a helping hand / Who said I would not understand?" could be interpreted as saying that the singer is willing to help their partner through the breakup despite their hurt ego. However, the next line "Someone up the social scale / For when you're going off the rails" suggests that the singer is only willing to help find the partner a new lover if they are of higher status.


The chorus of the song, "Have post break up sex / That helps you forget your ex" suggests that the singer is encouraging their partner to engage in casual sexual activity as a means of moving on from their past relationship. The lyrics "Leave it 'til the guilt consumes / Fucking in the nearest room / All our friends were unaware" implies that the partners might be acting on pure impulse and might feel guilty for engaging in the activity as it's taking place. The mention of "our friends" indicates that this casual sexual activity might have happened in a group setting, hence the secrecy. The last line of the chorus "What did you expect from post break up sex?" seems to question the inherent nature of rebound relationships and the expectations attached to it.


Ultimately, The Vaccines' song Post Break-Up Sex deals with the complicated feelings of heartbreak, betrayal, lust, and the stakes in trying to move on from a past relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I can barely look at you
I am struggling to maintain eye contact with you.


Don't tell me who you lost it to
Please do not inform me about whom you have slept with.


Didn't we say we had a deal?
Did we not have an agreement on this matter?


Didn't I say how bad I feel?
Have I not already expressed the extent of my emotional distress?


Everyone needs a helping hand
All individuals require assistance at some point in their lives.


Who said I would not understand?
Why would anyone assume that I am incapable of comprehending your situation?


Someone up the social scale
An individual who possesses greater social status than oneself.


For when you're going off the rails
To provide support and guidance when you are behaving recklessly.


Have post break up sex
Engage in sexual activity following the end of our relationship.


That helps you forget your ex
This behavior assists in suppressing thoughts and emotions related to your former partner.


What did you expect
What were your anticipations with regard to our sexual encounter?


Leave it 'til the guilt consumes
Ignore any remorseful feelings until they completely overwhelm you.


Fucking in the nearest room
Engaging in sexual activity in the most convenient location available.


All our friends were unaware
Our mutual acquaintances were oblivious to our behavior.


Most had just passed out downstairs
The majority of individuals were asleep or unconscious on a lower level of the residence.


To think I'd hoped you'd be okay
It is noteworthy that I had previously wished for your well-being.


Now I can't think of what to say
Unfortunately, I am unable to formulate an appropriate response at this time.


Maybe I misunderstood
It is conceivable that I misinterpreted the situation.


But I can't believe you're feeling good
However, I find it difficult to believe that you are experiencing positive emotions following our separation.


Oh, when you love somebody but you find someone
When you have an emotional connection with an individual, but you encounter someone else.


And it all unravels and it comes undone
Everything falls apart, resulting in a state of chaos and disarray.


Post break up sex
Engaging in sexual activity following the end of a romantic relationship.


That helps you forget your ex
This behavior serves as a coping mechanism to help suppress negative feelings and memories about one's former partner.


What did you expect
What were your anticipations with regard to our sexual encounter?




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Arni Arnason, Freddie Cowan, Justin Hayward-Young, Peter Robertson

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@phenomenal3340

@@lenzilea7960 I'm pretty late but:


"Someone up the social scale" stands for somebody who is popular.
and
"For when you're going off the rails" is saying somebody is like a train falling out it's rails (essentially that person is a mess).


Hope this helps



@girl09281

I can barely look at you
Don't tell me who you lost it to
Didn't we say we had a deal
Didn't I say how bad I feel

Everyone needs a helping hand
Who said I would not understand
Someone up the social scale
For when you're going off the rails, have

Post break-up sex
that helps you forget your ex
What did you expect
from post break-up sex

Leave it 'til the guilt consumes
Fucking in the nearest room
All our friends were unaware
Most had just passed out downstairs

To think I'd hoped you'd be okay
Now I can't think of what to say
Maybe I misunderstood
But I can't believe you're feeling good from

Post break-up sex
that helps you forget your ex
What did you expect
from post break-up sex

(Instrumental)

Post break-up sex
that helps you forget your ex
What did you expect
from post break-up sex

Oh when you love somebody but you find someone
Ah-ha-ha
And it all unravels and comes undone
Ah-ha-ha, ah-ha-ha, ah-ha-ha

Post break-up sex
that helps you forget your ex
What did you expect
from post break-up sex

Post break-up sex
that helps you forget your ex
What did you expect
from post break-up sex



@luasalles

Sexo PĂłs TĂ©rmino

Eu mal posso olhar para vocĂȘ
NĂŁo me diga pra quem vocĂȘ perdeu
NĂłs nĂŁo dissemos que tĂ­nhamos um acordo?
Eu nĂŁo disse o quĂŁo mal eu me sinto?

Todo mundo precisa de uma mĂŁo amiga
Quem disse que eu nĂŁo entenderia?
Alguém na escala social
Para quando vocĂȘ estĂĄ saindo dos trilhos
Sexo pós término
Que o ajuda a esquecer sua ex
O que vocĂȘ esperava de sexo pĂłs tĂ©rmino?

Deixe assim até a culpa consumir
Fodendo no quarto mais prĂłximo
Todos os nossos amigos nĂŁo sabiam
A maioria tinha apenas desmaiado lĂĄ embaixo
E pensar que eu esperava que vocĂȘ estaria bem
Agora eu nĂŁo consigo pensar no que dizer
Talvez eu tenha entendido mal
Mas eu nĂŁo posso acreditar que vocĂȘ estĂĄ se sentindo bem, a partir de

Sexo pós término
Que o ajuda a esquecer sua ex
O que vocĂȘ espera de sexo pĂłs tĂ©rmino?
Oh, quando vocĂȘ ama alguĂ©m, mas vocĂȘ encontra alguĂ©m
Uh, huh, huh
E tudo se desenrola e se desfaz
Uh-huh-huh, uh-huh-huh
Uh-huh-huh
Do sexo pós término
Que o ajuda a esquecer sua ex
O que vocĂȘ espera de sexo pĂłs tĂ©rmino?



All comments from YouTube:

@alexcassidy441

I don’t think this song is just about sex, I think sex is just the placeholder for intimacy which people in relationships like to think is unique and irreplaceable. He’s generally singing about the feeling of when you break up with someone and they move on from you to someone else before you do, and how that hurts your feelings because you’re left feeling like what took place wasn’t just sex but a completely irreplaceable and unique act which used to be between the two of you, i do think the singer acknowledges the reality of the situation though in the line “ when you love somebody but you find someone” ultimately sex means very little compared to a long term emotional relationship, but many people after breaking up will still be in love with their ex but they will sleep with somebody to try to get over it, but ultimately the person they slept with and the act of sleeping with them means very little

@Struenda

Good job boy!

@user-ft3cw4wk4u

me having post break up sex then falling in love with the girl & the cycle continues lmao

@titorafa7992

It's like Stella Was A Driver And She's Always Down

@poetdrunken5775

damn that hurts bro

@elusivamente

Thank you. ❀

@AndyJ-il6lq

There's a place in heaven reserved for the artists who give you the lyrics

@jatinacharya1338

akaa7 147. ,Lita you want gg

@gm5240

akaa7 147 You're true x)

@asmarasiliwangi7195

akaa7 147

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