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Needle In A Haystack
The Velvelettes Lyrics


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Well well, I once believed all fellas were nice
But girls, listen to me, take my advice
Girls, you'd better get yourselves onto my track
'Cause findin' a good man, girls, is like findin' a
(Needle in a haystack)
What did I say, girls? (Needle in a haystack)
(She-doop, she-doop, la la)
(She-doop, she-doop, la la)

Girls, those fellas are sly, slick & shy
So don't you ever let 'em get you starry-eyed
Well, you may think their love is true
But they'll walk right over you
Now girls, you should know these things right off the back
'Cause findin' a good man, girls, is like findin' a
(Needle in a haystack)
What did I say, girls? (Needle in a haystack)
(She-doop, she-doop, la la)
(She-doop, she-doop, la la)

Now girls, I say I'm tellin' you the natural facts
'Cause findin' a good man, girls, is like findin' a
(Needle in a haystack)
What did I say, girls? (Needle in a haystack)

I'm tellin' you, girls, you'd better look before you leap
Still water sometimes runs very deep
You'll be sorry when you just jump
& do justice passed by love
Girls, you should know these things right off the back
'Cause findin' a good man, girls, is like findin' a
(Needle in a haystack)
What did I say, girls? (Needle in a haystack)

I say you'd better take heed (needle in a haystack)
Listen to me (needle in a haystack)

You'd better play hard to get
Or you're gonna regret
The day you were born, girl
When he leaves you alone, girl
Good guys are like findin' a (needle in a haystack)
Girls, they're like findin' a (needle in a haystack)

Overall Meaning

The Velvelettes's hit song "Needle in a Haystack" is a cautionary tale to young women about the difficulties of finding a good man. The lyrics suggest that many men may initially appear charming and loving but are ultimately opportunistic and not to be trusted. The chorus, "finding a good man, girls, is like finding a needle in a haystack," effectively communicates how difficult it is for women to differentiate between trustworthy and unreliable partners. The tone of the song is cheery and upbeat, despite the underlying message warning women against the dishonesty of some men.


The lyrics encourage women to play "hard to get" and to be cautious in their romantic pursuits. The phrase "still water sometimes runs very deep" suggests that men can be misleading in their intentions, just as water may look calm on the surface but have turbulence below. The song's message still resonates with women today, as the difficulty of finding a trustworthy partner with whom to build a long-lasting relationship remains a challenge.


Line by Line Meaning

Well well, I once believed all fellas were nice
At one point, I thought that all men were good people.


But girls, listen to me, take my advice
However, I urge all women to heed this warning.


Girls, you'd better get yourselves onto my track
Ladies, it's important that you follow my advice.


'Cause findin' a good man, girls, is like findin' a (Needle in a haystack)
Finding a man who is trustworthy and kind is incredibly difficult.


What did I say, girls? (Needle in a haystack)
Don't forget what I just warned you about.


(She-doop, she-doop, la la)


Girls, those fellas are sly, slick & shy
Men can be deceptive and hard to read.


So don't you ever let 'em get you starry-eyed
Don't be blinded by their charm.


Well, you may think their love is true
You might believe that their feelings are genuine.


But they'll walk right over you
However, they will take advantage of you.


Now girls, you should know these things right off the back
It's important to be aware of these facts from the beginning.


'Cause findin' a good man, girls, is like findin' a (Needle in a haystack)
Locating an honest, decent man is a huge challenge.


What did I say, girls? (Needle in a haystack)
Remember that I warned you about this.


(She-doop, she-doop, la la)


Now girls, I say I'm tellin' you the natural facts
I'm sharing the realities that women face.


'Cause findin' a good man, girls, is like findin' a (Needle in a haystack)
Discovering a kind, trustworthy man is an enormous challenge.


What did I say, girls? (Needle in a haystack)
Pay attention to what I warned you about before.


I'm tellin' you, girls, you'd better look before you leap
Women should be cautious when it comes to relationships.


Still water sometimes runs very deep
People can be deceptive even when they seem calm and mild-mannered.


You'll be sorry when you just jump & do justice passed by love
You will regret rushing into a relationship and ignoring warning signs.


Girls, you should know these things right off the back
Women need to be aware of these things from the beginning.


'Cause findin' a good man, girls, is like findin' a (Needle in a haystack)
Finding a man who is honest and dependable is incredibly difficult.


What did I say, girls? (Needle in a haystack)
Don't forget the warning I gave you.


I say you'd better take heed (needle in a haystack)
It's important to pay attention to the advice I'm giving you.


Listen to me (needle in a haystack)
Hear me out and be cautious in your relationships.


You'd better play hard to get
You should be wary of men who come on too strong.


Or you're gonna regret The day you were born, girl When he leaves you alone, girl
If you don't play hard to get, you will regret it when he leaves you behind.


Good guys are like findin' a (needle in a haystack)
Finding a decent, reliable man is an enormous challenge.


Girls, they're like findin' a (needle in a haystack)
It's incredibly hard to locate men who are honest and good-hearted.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: GORDON MILLS

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Comments from YouTube:

@tineshiacooper45

The one on the left was my 8th grade music teacher... wonderful

@mhawkyard1799

I wish she’d been my teach. Wow!😂

@adamdudley2590

One of the first tracks that really kick started my love of Soul music and from that to Northern Soul, enough said!
KEEP THE FAITH!!

@ranu1496

Still sounding good after all these years!! That song is at least 53 years old. They still look good too!

@tootsie4u67

Bertha McNeal of the Velvelettes was my music teacher in Middle school in Kalamazoo Michigan, and I always had high reguards and repect for her. Shes a wonderful singer and performer !!

@deliabarkley-delieu1411

Definitely one of my Desert Island discs! All time favourite. Cannot sit still while listening to this...Perfect Motown. Cannot be bettered.

@levonpoe

This is SMOKING! The ladies are gorgeous of voice and looks.
This is one of the great pleasures of YOUTUBE!.
I feel honored to see and hear this.

@RonWylie-gk5lc

If your legs stay still during this your dead lol, wonderful old Northern Soul classic, happy days

@samjtwinn

I was a collector of this group in the mid 60's and still have their 45's. It's nice to see others appreciated them also, good job Ian.

@laurenceharrison661

Brings back so many memories.Brilliant as it ever was

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