So It Goes
The Verve Lyrics


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Life
Roll my die
Change this life
You said this movie was mine
But now you go and change your mind
This is my life
So it goes
You come in on your own in this life
You know you leave on your own
'Cause I don't need no cause
When my feelings fall
You showed me things I didn't want to see
I don't believe that love is free
Sure fine way to treat a man

So it goes
You come in on your own in this life
And you know you leave on your own

Life
This is my Life
So it goes
You come into this life on your own
You know you'll leave on your own
Life
This is my life
So it goes
You come into this life on your own
You know you leave
I'm just a poor little wifeless fella
I'm just a poor little wifeless fella
I'm just a poor little wifeless fella
I'm just a poor little wifeless fella
Another drink and I won't miss her
Another drink and I won't miss her




Another drink and I won't miss her
Another drink and I won't miss her

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Verve's song "So It Goes" appear to be about the ups and downs of life, specifically the idea that we all come into this world alone and leave in the same way. The song seems to be directed towards someone who has changed their mind and left the singer feeling alone and unloved. "Life" is framed as a roll of the dice, something that can be unpredictable and uncontrollable. The singer acknowledges that their feelings are their own and they don't need a reason for them, but also hints at resentment towards the other person for showing them things they didn't want to see and not treating them well. The repeated refrain of "So it goes" seems to convey a sense of resignation or acceptance of life's unpredictability.


The line "I'm just a poor little wifeless fella" is interesting in that it seems to suggest that the singer is specifically referring to a romantic relationship they have lost, even though that isn't clear from the rest of the song. It's possible that this line is a nod to the famous quote from Kurt Vonnegut's novel "Slaughterhouse-Five" ("So it goes") which is used to acknowledge the inevitability of death, and that the song is more broadly about the idea that we all end up alone in the end. The repetition of "Another drink and I won't miss her" seems to be a coping mechanism, suggesting that the singer is trying to numb the pain of loss with alcohol.


Overall, "So It Goes" is a melancholy reflection on the transience of life and the inevitability of endings.


Line by Line Meaning

Life
The concept of existence and living


Roll my die
Taking chances in life


Change this life
Wanting to make adjustments in life


You said this movie was mine
A promise of control over life from a loved one


But now you go and change your mind
A loved one changing their mind about giving control


This is my life
Asserting control over one's life


So it goes
Accepting how life unfolds


You come in on your own in this life
Being born into this world without any say


You know you leave on your own
Dying with only oneself


'Cause I don't need no cause
Not needing a reason


When my feelings fall
Being disappointed when expectations don't align with reality


You showed me things I didn't want to see
A loved one showing a perspective that was difficult to accept


I don't believe that love is free
Love can come at a cost


Sure fine way to treat a man
Sarcastically commenting on the cost of love


Life
The concept of existence and living


This is my Life
Reiterating control over one's life


So it goes
Accepting how life unfolds


You come into this life on your own
Being born into this world without any say


You know you'll leave on your own
Dying with only oneself


Life
The concept of existence and living


This is my life
Asserting control over one's life


So it goes
Accepting how life unfolds


You come into this life on your own
Being born into this world without any say


You know you leave
Dying with only oneself


I'm just a poor little wifeless fella
Expressing loneliness and lack of companionship


Another drink and I won't miss her
Using alcohol to cope with loss


Another drink and I won't miss her
Using alcohol to cope with loss


Another drink and I won't miss her
Using alcohol to cope with loss


Another drink and I won't miss her
Using alcohol to cope with loss




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: NICK MC CABE, PETER SALISURY, RICHARD ASHCROFT, SIMON JONES

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