The Daylight Between Us
The Wallflowers Lyrics


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The men were drinking wine and the women they'd split
To smoke French cigarettes
We'll do a couple rails and sit around and bitch
Lie down and get sick
Oh, in the morning there's a line of ashes in the sink
And bruises on her lips
The candles that were lit had melted on the cake
As if they were over it
Now she's looking for the dog and a last hit
For water and a first aid kit
But it used to be enough to taste it
But that's before we were always wasted

Oh, in the spring of '09, well, baby got straight
Was getting only half baked
I get a little high what difference does it make
If you do or you don't relate
Oh and it's true there is a light that comes on when I play
Your sweetheart, the runaway
But I'm never more than fine and you're not nearly brave
Enough for the war I'll make
But I feel like a soldier in this pit
With you a lion that won't quit
But when I was in love I would make it
But I only want you now when I'm wasted

We were living in the house we bought in '01 for 97 down
The car was on blocks, the wheels were on the ground
Been awhile since they'd seen town
She was lying in the hall her fingers in her gloves
Couple of years past young
She'd either given in or maybe given out
Or a little of each of 'em

Now I pour myself a drink and I get dressed
Rate the horses and place my bets
I want her back more than she'd guess
But mostly I just wanna get wasted




If there were any second chances left
Chances are they would get wasted

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Wallflowers' song The Daylight Between Us describe a relationship that has been dragged down by substance abuse. The scene is set as groups of people separated into men and women drinking wine and smoking French cigarettes and using cocaine. The morning after the party, there are ashes in the sink and bruises on her lips, representing the aftermath of the substance-fueled life.


The scene then shifts to "Spring of '09", in which the singer implies that his partner has gotten sober while he still generally gets high. He is playing a song for her and trying to reconnect, but there is still distance between them. The first verse and the second verse describe the downfall of this relationship in a conversational and almost everyday manner. The song ends with the singer imagining that there might still be a chance to rekindle the relationship, but he admits that the chances are slim to none.


The use of imagery, such as ashes, bruises, and melted candles, adds to the melancholic mood and portrays the ultimate collapse of this relationship. The lyrics highlight the negative effects of substance abuse and the powerlessness it can hold over people.


Line by Line Meaning

The men were drinking wine and the women they'd split
The men were drinking wine while the women had left to smoke some French cigarettes.


We'll do a couple rails and sit around and bitch
After snorting some drugs, we'll sit around and complain.


Lie down and get sick
The drugs will make us sick and we'll lie down for a while.


Oh, in the morning there's a line of ashes in the sink
In the morning, we'll find a line of ashes in the sink from the cigarettes we smoked.


And bruises on her lips
She'll have bruises on her lips, possibly from kissing or other activities.


The candles that were lit had melted on the cake
The candles that were lit on the cake have melted, as if they were no longer in use.


As if they were over it
The candles give the impression that the celebration is over and done with.


Now she's looking for the dog and a last hit
She's searching for the dog and one final dose of drugs.


For water and a first aid kit
She'll also be looking for water and a first aid kit, possibly due to injuries sustained during their drug use or other activities.


But it used to be enough to taste it
At one point, just tasting the drugs was enough for them.


But that's before we were always wasted
However, now they're always under the influence of drugs or alcohol.


Oh, in the spring of '09, well, baby got straight
In spring 2009, the artist's partner got sober.


Was getting only half baked
The partner was no longer getting fully under the influence of drugs or alcohol.


I get a little high what difference does it make
The singer is still getting high, but wonders if it really makes a difference.


If you do or you don't relate
It doesn't matter if the listener can relate to their drug and alcohol use or not.


Oh and it's true there is a light that comes on when I play
The artist feels a sense of enlightenment when playing music.


Your sweetheart, the runaway
The artist is referring to their partner who was once a runaway.


But I'm never more than fine and you're not nearly brave
The singer feels mediocre, while their partner lacks bravery.


Enough for the war I'll make
Their partner is not strong enough to handle the singer's struggles or conflicts.


But I feel like a soldier in this pit
The artist feels like a soldier fighting a war in the pit of their addiction.


With you a lion that won't quit
Their partner is seen as a strong lion who won't give up.


But when I was in love I would make it
In the past, the artist was able to make love work despite the struggles of addiction.


But I only want you now when I'm wasted
Now, the singer only desires their partner when under the influence of drugs or alcohol.


We were living in the house we bought in '01 for 97 down
The artist and their partner were living in the house they purchased in 2001 for a down payment of $97.


The car was on blocks, the wheels were on the ground
Their car was no longer being used and sat unused on blocks.


Been awhile since they'd seen town
It had been a while since they had left their house and the town they were in.


She was lying in the hall her fingers in her gloves
Their partner was lying in the hallway with her fingers still in her gloves.


Couple of years past young
A couple of years had passed since they were young and carefree.


She'd either given in or maybe given out
Their partner had either surrendered to addiction or succumbed to it.


Or a little of each of 'em
Alternatively, it could be a little bit of both - giving in and giving out.


Now I pour myself a drink and I get dressed
The singer begins his day by pouring a drink and getting dressed.


Rate the horses and place my bets
He proceeds to rate horses and wager bets on them.


I want her back more than she'd guess
The artist still desires their partner and wants to reconcile, but their partner may not realize to what extent.


But mostly I just wanna get wasted
Despite his other desires, the artist mainly wants to get drunk or high.


If there were any second chances left
The singer reflects on whether or not there are any second chances left for him.


Chances are they would get wasted
He concludes that if there were, it would likely lead to more drug and alcohol use.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Jakob Dylan

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