If I Can't Have You
The Waterboys Lyrics


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I want you babe, I don't want nobody else
I want you babe, I don't want nobody else
If you don't want me, then I don't want myself

I need you babe, I need you, need your help
I need you babe, I need you bad, I need you, Lord I need you, need your help
If you ain't there baby, I ain't gonna need myself
I'm hurting for you babe, I'm hurting like hell




Yeah, I'm hurting for you baby, I'm hurting like hell
If you ain't hurting for me too, I'm gonna hurt myself

Overall Meaning

The Waterboys's song "If I Can't Have You" is a heartfelt tribute to a lover who means everything to the singer. The lyrics express one man's deep dependence on a woman, conveying that his existence revolves entirely around her presence in his life. The first verse opens with the declaration, "I want you babe, I don't want nobody else," conveying the single-minded pursuit of love. The singer is both possessive and vulnerable, desperate to be with this one person and acknowledging his own worthlessness without her: "If you don't want me, then I don't want myself." The second verse builds upon the first as the singer's emotional state intensifies. The repeated "I need you babe" underscores how crucial this woman is to his well-being, going so far as to say, "If you ain't there baby, I ain't gonna need myself." This line reveals an almost suicidal sentiment, implying that without this woman's love, he would be willing to give up on his life entirely.


Finally, the last verse presents the listener with the singer's pain, anguish and hopelessness. He is lost without his lover and can't imagine any existence that isn't intertwined with hers. The line "If you ain't hurting for me too, I'm gonna hurt myself" emphasizes the obsession with her, revealing that he needs her love to survive, and any lack of it will lead to his eventual destruction.


Overall, "If I Can't Have You" is a deeply emotional song that conveys the depths of love and the struggle of a man to exist without the woman he loves. It is a reminder of how important and significant relationships can be and how painful the absence of a loved one can be.


Line by Line Meaning

I want you babe, I don't want nobody else
I desire only you, and no one else.


If you don't want me, then I don't want myself
My self-worth is tied to your acceptance of me. Without you, I am nothing.


I need you babe, I need you, need your help
I am dependent on you, both emotionally and practically. I require your aid to get by.


If you ain't there baby, I ain't gonna need myself
Without you, my reason for being is gone. I cannot exist without you.


I'm hurting for you babe, I'm hurting like hell
My longing for you is causing me immense pain and suffering.


If you ain't hurting for me too, I'm gonna hurt myself
If you are not similarly affected by our separation, I will inflict pain on myself to match the intensity of my emotions.




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Comments from YouTube:

B Murray

Amzing!!Good old Rockabilly... Just an excellent band!

strogykx

I want you babe, I don't want nobody else I want you babe, I don't want nobody else If you don't want me, then I don't want myself I need you babe, I need you, need your help I need you babe, I need you bad, I need you, Lord I need you, need your help If you ain't there baby, I ain't gonna need myself I'm hurting for you babe, I'm hurting like hell Yeah, I'm hurting for you baby, I'm hurting like hell If you ain't hurting for me too, I'm gonna hurt myself

Freakster1970

Rockabilly/ Jazz? Like it along with all the Celtic stuff they did.

Blues Rain

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

shayoren4

ve.ry.good

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