No
The Wedding Present Lyrics


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Why can't you pick up the telephone?
Oh I know that you're at home
I'm really past caring how you think
I just want to know about him
And you're so right, they don't miss a thing round here
And how do you think I feel?
Oh you can try but you're not getting out that way
You're just as much to blame
And if it didn't mean a thing
And you've told him to go
And if you're as sorry as you say
Why didn't you just say no?
It's strange that this room's so different now
Oh I didn't come to row
It's just this razor, he's left it on your shelf
I'll throw it out myself
And if it didn't mean a thing
And you've told him to go




And if you're as sorry as you say
Why didn't you just say no?

Overall Meaning

The Wedding Present's "No" is a song that speaks about a person who is frustrated and hurt by their partner's infidelity. The song begins with the persona wondering why their partner refuses to answer the telephone despite being aware that they are at home. The persona is then uninterested in how their partner perceives them; all they want to know is the truth about their infidelity. The persona also acknowledges the small size of their community, noting that everyone knows what is happening, but nobody is talking about it. The persona then wonders how their partner thinks they feel about the situation.


The chorus of the song is an admonishment of sorts, asking why their partner didn't just say "no" to the advances of the person they cheated with. The persona notes that if it had not meant anything, their partner would have sent the other person away, and if they were indeed sorry, they should have said no. The song's bridge is a moment of realization. The singer notes that the room they are in is different now, possibly because of the infidelity, but they did not come to argue. Instead, they notice that the other person's razor is on the shelf and decides to throw it out.


The song's depiction of infidelity is an emotional journey that makes it relatable to anyone who has been through a similar situation. The song represents the feeling of betrayal that arises from being cheated on, the confusion that comes with trying to understand what happened, and the anger that arises when one realizes that their partner could have said "no" but didn't. It is also a reminder that relationships are not just about the two individuals involved, but the larger community surrounding them.


Line by Line Meaning

Why can't you pick up the telephone?
Why aren't you answering my calls?


Oh I know that you're at home
I'm aware that you're present, but you're avoiding me.


I'm really past caring how you think
I no longer care about your opinion or feelings.


I just want to know about him
I want information about the person you're involved with.


And you're so right, they don't miss a thing round here
You're correct, people around here are observant and nosy.


And how do you think I feel?
Do you have any idea how hurt and betrayed I am?


Oh you can try but you're not getting out that way
You can attempt to avoid my questions, but it won't work.


You're just as much to blame
You're equally responsible for this situation.


And if it didn't mean a thing
If your relationship with him didn't hold any significance,


And you've told him to go
And you've put an end to your relationship with him,


And if you're as sorry as you say
And if you truly regret what happened,


Why didn't you just say no?
Why didn't you reject his advances in the first place?


It's strange that this room's so different now
It's odd how the atmosphere of this room has changed.


Oh I didn't come to row
I didn't come here to argue or fight.


It's just this razor, he's left it on your shelf
I noticed the razor he left on your shelf.


I'll throw it out myself
I'll dispose of it on my own.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Spirit Music Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: LOUDON WAINWRIGHT

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