Living Together in Sin
The Whispers Lyrics


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Your folks and mine want to disown us
We are two sinners, they say
They don't approve of how we're livin'
But we are happy this way

They say we're living together in sin
'Cause we're not married
Living together in sin
But both of us are grown
And life is ours to choose
To each his own, we're in love

All of our friends never invite us
And they don't come around
But that's alright, we have each other
The world, they put us down

And say, we're living together in sin
'Cause we're not married
Living together in sin
But both of us are grown
And life is ours to choose
To each his own, we're in love

They say, we're living together in sin
They don't understand
You're my woman and I'm your man
You and me against the world
I'm your man and you're my girl

If loving you is a sin, I'm gonna say it again
And again and again and again
Mom and dad, can't you see?
We love each other, why can't it be?

For you, I've turned my back on family and friends
For you, I'd do it again




And again and again and again
And again and again and again and again

Overall Meaning

The Whispers's song Living Together in Sin is a romantic ballad about two people living together without being married, despite disapproval from both of their families and friends. The lyrics express the couple's contentment with their decision and their love for one another. The song highlights how societal norms and expectations can sometimes contradict what is truly best for individuals and their happiness.


The first verse conveys that the couple's families do not agree with their living arrangement and consider them sinners. The second verse explains that their social lives have been affected because they are not married, but they still have each other. The chorus suggests that their love is what truly matters, and they have the right to choose their own path in life.


The final verse expresses the couple's determination to stay together, regardless of what others may think. They believe that their love is worth turning their backs on friends and family for, and they will do it again and again. The song's message promotes the idea that love should always come first, and individual happiness should be the priority.


Line by Line Meaning

Your folks and mine want to disown us
Our families disapprove of our relationship


We are two sinners, they say
Our families label us as sinners


They don't approve of how we're livin'
Our families don't approve of us living together


But we are happy this way
But we are happy with each other


They say we're living together in sin
Our families believe we are sinning by living together


'Cause we're not married
Because we are not married


But both of us are grown
But we are both adults


And life is ours to choose
We have the right to choose how we live our lives


To each his own, we're in love
Everyone has their own path to happiness, and our path is being in love


All of our friends never invite us
Our friends exclude us from social gatherings


And they don't come around
They don't visit us


But that's alright, we have each other
But we are content with each other's company


The world, they put us down
Society condemns our relationship


And say, we're living together in sin
And say that we are living in sin


They don't understand
They don't understand our love


You're my woman and I'm your man
We are committed to each other


You and me against the world
We will face the world together


If loving you is a sin, I'm gonna say it again
If loving you is a sin, I will keep embracing it


Mom and dad, can't you see?
Parents, can't you see?


We love each other, why can't it be?
We love each other, why can't you accept it?


For you, I've turned my back on family and friends
For you, I've become estranged from my loved ones


And again and again and again
And I will keep doing it


And again and again and again and again
I will keep doing it repeatedly




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Kim Grattie

Such AMAZING VOICES! We need this back into the music game because it was so Awesome to listen to it.

Eva Rodriguez Alequin

Yessss! Agree.

Yvonne Haggins

Kim Grattie yes i agree men should always love there women nomatter what

Virginia Grandy

A beautiful masterpiece. One of my favorites by The Whispers

Defonzo Arnett

Beautiful harmony love the whispers.

Darryl Walker

Love it to

Willie Owens

Love it, true love

Roy Sanders

This song is from their 1976 album "One for the Money" on Soul Train Records, which was in distribution with RCA Records since 1975. Soul Train Records closed its doors and absorbed into Solar Records in 1978 and had Carrie Lucas, Shalamar, The Whispers and Lakeside on the roster and for those who may or may not know who was in charge of the label, it was Dick Griffey, who went on to date Carrie Lucas and then went on to marry her and have children. Their daughter Carolyn, later became a member of Shalamar.

An Clark

I used to play this rhapsody followed by Barbara Mason's Shackin' up.

Shane Brown

Thanks for the info. I was wondering what year it came out.

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