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Well I'm finding it harder
To be a gentleman every day
All the manners that I've been taught
Have slowly died away
But if I held the door open for you
It would make your day

You think that I care
About me and only me
When every single girl needs help
Climbing up a tree
Well I know it don't take much
To satisfy me

Maybe it's whatever's in my head
That's distracting me
But if I could find emotion
To stimulate devotion
Well then you'd see

Well I'm finding it hard to say
That I need you twenty times a day
I feel comfortable so baby why
Don't you feel the same?
Have a doctor come and visit us
And tell us which one is sane

I never said I wouldn't
Throw my jacket in the mud for you
But my father gave it to me so
Maybe I should carry you
Then you said
"You almost dropped me"




So then I did
And I got mud on my shoes

Overall Meaning

The White Stripes’ song “I’m Finding It Harder to Be a Gentleman” speaks to the difficulty of maintaining traditional gentlemanly behavior and values in an ever-changing society. The singer is struggling to uphold the manners he’s been taught, as they seem to be dying away with the times. His challenge is compounded by the fact that his efforts to act like a gentleman are often misinterpreted as self-serving or insincere. In many ways, these lyrics suggest that in a world that often prioritizes self-interest and individualism, it can be difficult to maintain the selflessness and generosity that underpins many traditional values.


The singer in the song voices his frustrations and attempts to navigate the complex social dynamics of modern life. He suggests that simple acts of kindness, like holding the door open for someone, can often go a long way in making someone’s day. However, he also acknowledges that many people may view these acts as insincere or selfish, as they may be done with the expectation of receiving something in return. The singer is also grappling with personal emotions, admitting that he is finding it hard to express his feelings and that he needs emotional stimulation to feel truly devoted to someone.


Overall, “I’m Finding It Harder to Be a Gentleman” has an introspective and vulnerable quality to it, exploring themes of personal values, societal expectations, and emotional authenticity in a rapidly changing world.


Line by Line Meaning

Well I'm finding it harder
I am starting to feel more difficulty every day


To be a gentleman every day
To display polite behavior throughout each day is becoming increasingly difficult for me


All the manners that I've been taught
The etiquette and behavior methods I learned are no longer applicable


Have slowly died away
Gradually, through time, my manners have deteriorated


But if I held the door open for you
On the contrary, If I were to keep the entryway opened for you


It would make your day
You would be elated if I showed this small act of kindness


You think that I care
You have a belief that my thoughts revolve around myself


About me and only me
I'm obsessed with myself and furthermore may presume others to have the same attitude


When every single girl needs help
However, every girl may face challenges and would require assistance


Climbing up a tree
Similar to everybody else, climbing trees isn't the easiest task for them


Well I know it don't take much
Although, it wouldn't take much effort for me to assist them


To satisfy me
This would make me content


Maybe it's whatever's in my head
The potential reason behind my struggles might exist within my mind


That's distracting me
As a result, it is impeding my ability to act politely


But if I could find emotion
If only I could locate the feeling


To stimulate devotion
That could lead to forming strong feelings of love


Well then you'd see
As this happens, you would observe a positive change in me


Well I'm finding it hard to say
I'm also facing some difficulty expressing something


That I need you twenty times a day
Which is that I feel like I rely on you emotionally throughout the day


I feel comfortable so baby why
I feel safe and secure, so why


Don't you feel the same?
Do you not feel the same way?


Have a doctor come and visit us
Perhaps we should seek professional medical help


And tell us which one is sane
And let them determine who between us is mentally sound


I never said I wouldn't
I never stated I would not


Throw my jacket in the mud for you
Ruining my jacket would be alright for me to show my affection towards you


But my father gave it to me so
But it originated from my dad, so


Maybe I should carry you
Perhaps it could be better if I carried you


Then you said
However, your next comment was


"You almost dropped me"
"You nearly let me fall"


So then I did
Since you brought that up, I indeed dropped you


And I got mud on my shoes
And as a result, my shoes got dirty with mud




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: JOHN ANTHONY WHITE

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@lelvova8148

Lyrics:
I'm gonna fight 'em off
A seven nation army couldn't hold me back
They're gonna rip it off
Taking their time right behind my back
And I'm talking to myself at night
Because I can't forget
Back and forth through my mind
Behind a cigarette

And the message coming from my eyes
Says "Leave it alone"

Don't want to hear about it
Every single one's got a story to tell
Everyone knows about it
From the Queen of England to the Hounds of Hell
And if I catch it coming back my way
I'm gonna serve it to you
And that ain't what you want to hear
But that's what I'll do

And the feeling coming from my bones
Says "Find a home"

I'm going to Wichita
Far from this opera forevermore
I'm gonna work the straw
Make the sweat drip out of every pore
And I'm bleeding, and I'm bleeding, and I'm bleeding
Right before the Lord
All the words are gonna bleed from me
And I will sing no more

And the stains coming from my blood
Tell me "Go back home"



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@yungcuz355

0% naked girls
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100% triangles

@horatio1316

It's mesmerizing isn't it

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2:00 circles

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@wonton_7708

I liked the part where they zoomed in on the person in the triangle. Cool part.

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@abdielsilva4802

I was hoping someone said that's the whole song so I could say woooosh

@ragingcanadian9526

3 guys bro like that’s the entire song that they zoom in broooo

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