I Don't Even Know Myself
The Who Lyrics


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There's nothing in the way I walk that can tell you where I'm going
There's nothing in the words I speak that can betray anything I'm knowing
Don't think about the way I dress, you can fit me on a labeled shelf
Don't pretend that you know me, 'cause I don't even know myself
Ooh, I don't know myself

I don't mind if you try once in a while
I don't mind if I cry once in a while
The doors aren't shut as tight as they might seem
I'm just trying to fight my way out of this dream

Don't listen to the words I say, weighing up if I'm enlightened
Don't shiver as you pass me by, 'cause mister, I'm the one who's frightened
The police just came and left, they wanted me and no one else
Don't pretend that you know me 'cause I don't even know myself
Ooh, I don't know myself

I don't mind if you try once in a while
I don't mind if I cry once in a while
The doors aren't shut as tight as they might seem
And I'm just trying to fight my way out of this dream

Don't pretend that you know me, 'cause I don't even know myself
Ooh, I don't know myself

Do you remember me, I don't remember you
Do you still love me, you know I think you do
I have been gone, and some prison warder knows my scream
I'm just trying to fight my way out of this dream

There's only five who know my real name
And my mother don't believe they know it
What she called me is the way I'm staying
And no one'll ever know it
Come on all of you big boys, come on all of you elves
Don't pretend that you know me 'cause I don't even know myself
Ooh, I said I don't know myself





I don't mind if you try once in a while
I don't mind if I cry once in a while

Overall Meaning

The song I Don't Even Know Myself by The Who is a song about self-discovery and struggling with one's identity. The lyrics address the fact that it is difficult for others to truly know someone, as even the individual themselves may not fully understand who they are. The lines "There's nothing in the way I walk that can tell you where I'm going" and "Don't think about the way I dress, you can fit me on a labeled shelf" suggest that appearances can be deceiving and do not necessarily reveal one's true identity. The lines "I'm just trying to fight my way out of this dream" and "There's only five who know my real name" suggest a sense of confusion and a desire to break free from societal norms and expectations.


The lyrics also address the idea of judgment and fear of being misunderstood or judged by others. The line "Don't listen to the words I say, weighing up if I'm enlightened" suggests a skepticism towards those who try to analyze or categorize others. The line "Don't shiver as you pass me by, 'cause mister, I'm the one who's frightened" suggests a sense of vulnerability and fear of judgment from others.


The chorus of the song repeats "I don't even know myself" multiple times, emphasizing the struggle of self-discovery and the idea that it is difficult for anyone, even the individual themselves, to fully understand who they are.


Line by Line Meaning

There's nothing in the way I walk that can tell you where I'm going
My outward appearance doesn't reveal anything about my inner thoughts or plans.


There's nothing in the words I speak that can betray anything I'm knowing
Even if I talk about something, it doesn't mean that I actually know or understand it.


Don't think about the way I dress, you can fit me on a labeled shelf
My clothing style doesn't define who I am and shouldn't be used to judge or categorize me.


Don't pretend that you know me, 'cause I don't even know myself
I'm still trying to figure out who I am, so don't claim to know me better than I know myself.


I don't mind if you try once in a while
It's okay if you make an effort to understand me, even if you might not succeed.


I don't mind if I cry once in a while
It's okay if I show emotions and vulnerability sometimes.


The doors aren't shut as tight as they might seem
I might seem closed off, but there's still a chance for people to get to know me.


I'm just trying to fight my way out of this dream
I'm struggling to find my place in the world and figure out my true identity.


Don't listen to the words I say, weighing up if I'm enlightened
Just because I speak about certain topics or issues, it doesn't mean I have all the answers or that I'm more enlightened than others.


Don't shiver as you pass me by, 'cause mister, I'm the one who's frightened
Don't be afraid of me or intimidated by my appearance, because in reality, I'm the one struggling with fear and uncertainty.


The police just came and left, they wanted me and no one else
I might have a troubled past or have been in trouble with the law, but that doesn't define who I am now.


Do you remember me, I don't remember you
Even if we've met before, I might not remember you, especially if we didn't have a meaningful connection.


Do you still love me, you know I think you do
Even if we haven't talked in a while, I still believe that those who love me will continue to do so.


I have been gone, and some prison warder knows my scream
I might have been through tough times, like being in prison, but those experiences don't define me or my worth.


There's only five who know my real name
I might have changed my name, or only those closest to me know my true identity.


And my mother don't believe they know it
Even my own mother might not be aware of my true name or identity.


What she called me is the way I'm staying
I might have embraced a new identity or name that is different from what my mother called me, but it's my choice and my way of defining myself.


Come on all of you big boys, come on all of you elves
Addressing the larger society, inviting them to try to understand me for who I really am, beyond stereotypes.


Don't pretend that you know me 'cause I don't even know myself
Reiterating the theme that it's impossible for others to fully understand me, because I'm still trying to find my own identity.


Ooh, I said I don't know myself
Summarizing the main message of the song: that the artist is still trying to understand their own identity and place in the world.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Peter Dennis Blandfor Townshend

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