Madelyn
The Wonder Years Lyrics


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Madelyn, I share your hate for this world we're in,
But it makes me a better man.
It's an excuse that you make.
Madelyn, I know you want to let the bottles in.
I know you think that they're all your friends.
They're lying straight to your face.
I know about the devil in your bloodstream.
I know that the ghosts still visit nightly.
I know it must get lonely by the Chesapeake.

And Madelyn, are you really afraid of death
Or do you just say it if it's the right thing to say?
Madelyn, I know you're safe where you lay your head,
But if you wanted to come back, I've got a place you could stay.
If I'm not doing right by my family,
Then what's the point of it anyway?

I don't think there's a god.
I don't think that there's someone coming to save us
And I don't think that's the worst news of the day.
I don't think there's a god.
I don't think that there's someone coming to save me
And I don't think that's the worst news of the day.

So Madelyn, I know how your cold scars turn purple.
I know how the Irish goodbyes feel, I know where you've been.
And Madelyn, you and I got this East Coast blood between us.
It's bitter and vitriolic, I know how it ends.





If I'm not doing right by my family
Oh, I'm not doing right by family.

Overall Meaning

The Wonder Years' "Madelyn" is a poignant and emotional song about struggling with the weight of the world and the people in it. The singer conveys his understanding of Madelyn's pain and demons, and offers a semblance of hope and refuge. The song's title is likely a pseudonym for someone that the singer knows, and this person serves as a metaphor for anyone who may be struggling with mental health, addiction, and existential dread.


The opening line, "Madelyn, I share your hate for this world we're in, but it makes me a better man," encapsulates the paradoxical nature of our existence. The world can be cruel, unjust, and full of turmoil, but it can also be a catalyst for growth and resilience. The singer acknowledges Madelyn's struggles with addiction, and how she sees her "friends" in bottles. It's a poignant lamentation of how easy it is to fall prey to substance abuse as a means of escaping one's pain or reality. The singer then admits that he knows about "the devil in [her] bloodstream" and "the ghosts [that] still visit nightly," highlighting the haunting effects of addiction and trauma.


However, the song isn't mired in despair or hopelessness. The singer asks Madelyn if she's "really afraid of death, or do you just say it if it's the right thing to say?" This line suggests that perhaps Madelyn is not truly afraid of death, but merely using it as a way to cope with her current struggles. The singer then offers Madelyn a place to stay if she wishes to come back, indicating that he and Madelyn have a deep connection and that he wants to help her.


The overarching theme of the song seems to be the importance of family and the bonds we make with those closest to us. The singer wonders aloud, "If I'm not doing right by my family, then what's the point of it anyway?" This line speaks to the fundamental human desire to belong, to be loved and to love back. The singer's genuine concern and care for Madelyn, and his desire to help her, underscores this sentiment.


Line by Line Meaning

Madelyn, I share your hate for this world we're in,
I understand and feel the anger and frustration you have with this world.


But it makes me a better man.
However, it motivates me to improve myself and become a better person.


It's an excuse that you make.
Referring to your coping mechanisms as excuses for your behavior.


Madelyn, I know you want to let the bottles in.
I understand that you have a desire to turn to alcohol as a coping mechanism.


I know you think that they're all your friends.
You may see alcohol as a source of comfort and support when in reality, it's not a true friend.


They're lying straight to your face.
Alcohol and other vices may deceive you into thinking they can solve your problems when they cannot.


I know about the devil in your bloodstream.
I am aware of the addictive properties that substances can have in your body.


I know that the ghosts still visit nightly.
I acknowledge the emotional and mental pain that haunts you on a daily basis.


I know it must get lonely by the Chesapeake.
I understand that you feel isolated and alone in your struggles.


And Madelyn, are you really afraid of death
Do you truly have a fear of dying, or is it simply something you say because it's expected?


Or do you just say it if it's the right thing to say?
Is your fear of death genuine or merely performative?


Madelyn, I know you're safe where you lay your head,
I am aware that you have a secure place to call home.


But if you wanted to come back, I've got a place you could stay.
If you ever need a change of environment or a place to escape, I am here to help and offer a safe space.


If I'm not doing right by my family,
If I'm not fulfilling my duties and responsibilities to my loved ones,


Then what's the point of it anyway?
What is the purpose of life if I am not living up to my role as a provider and caretaker?


I don't think there's a god.
I do not believe in the concept of a higher power or god.


I don't think that there's someone coming to save us
I do not believe that there is a savior or protector who will rescue us from our problems.


And I don't think that's the worst news of the day.
I do not view this belief as a negative or discouraging thing.


So Madelyn, I know how your cold scars turn purple.
I am familiar with the physical wounds that you carry and how they can cause discoloration.


I know how the Irish goodbyes feel, I know where you've been.
I understand the feeling of leaving without saying goodbye and the experiences that have brought us to this point in our lives.


And Madelyn, you and I got this East Coast blood between us.
We share a connection to the East Coast, which can be both a source of pride and a burden.


It's bitter and vitriolic, I know how it ends.
Our shared experiences on the East Coast can be filled with bitterness and negativity which can lead to negative outcomes.


Oh, I'm not doing right by family.
Finally, acknowledging that the failure to do right by the family is one of the worst things that could happen.




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Comments from YouTube:

@tae8578

When I first heard this I thought it was the worst song on the album... but then I listened to it, and now I think it's one of the best. 

@shutuptrinity9433

I named my daughter after this song, she’s almost 4 now and I’m showing her the song as we speak and she likes it a lot 🥺

@madscarpools8740

I never knew there was a song with my name and now I feel really appreciated aw😔👊🏼

@sandralorenasanchezquinter3976

Same

@madimadi2173

me too!!! its so nice having a song with your name!!!

@xNottheOnlyDreamerx

My name is Madelyn. And I'm so happy the song that includes my name is done by such an amazing band. Brings me to tears.

@shutuptrinity9433

This song got me through one of the hardest periods of my life back in 2014. “If I’m not doing right by my family, then what’s the point of it anyway” This song made me feel so many emotions and it was always a song I could have a good cry to and feel so much better after, one of the only songs I listened to on repeat when I went from absolutely ruining my life to getting my shit together and accomplishing every goal I set. I named my daughter Madelyn Rayne after this song because in a weird way, it represents strength to me and man I love my Madelyn so much. She makes me be the best person I can be. Anyways, I just wanted to vent about how much I absolutely love this song to a bunch of strangers on the internet. Happy 2020 gang, if WW3 happens I hope you all stay safe.

@moneybaggoose

Great song! Here's hoping your daughter WON'T be a lonely alcoholic/drug addict by the Chesapeake like her namesake... The "bottles" line could refer to alcohol and not "pill bottles" whose contents are injected and result in injection "scars turning purple" and "the devil in her bloodstream," although the latter would seem more likely due to the clues in the song...

@shutuptrinity9433

@@moneybaggoose thank you for bringing me back to this comment homie. Aged weird considering how wild 2020 was and now what’s happening in Israel and Palestine. Once again, I hope everyone stays safe during these times.

@bangtantrash6007

"Madelyn, I know you want to let the bottles in. I know you think that they're all you're friends. They're lying straight to your face..." So relatable, especially now 😞😔😓😧

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