Hopeless
The Wrens Lyrics


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Oh no, not this time too
I'm the only one you got to use
And if I tell you all this could be
Nothing more than a way to leave you
Would you want me

And now you're sorry for the things you did to me
I want you to know
I feel I was the one who got used and use to
Just about anything you would tell me
But those days are more than over now
Hopeless

That this will turn out better
This isn't want I wanted
I should have listened to them
Go thank yourself for nothing
Its really all you're good for




Every year you wasted
And every half ass offer

Overall Meaning

The Wrens' song "Hopeless" tells a story of a one-sided, destructive relationship. The singer is aware of the toxicity of their partner, who is always using them for their own needs but offers nothing in return. The opening line "Oh no, not this time too" suggests that this pattern of behavior has happened before, and the singer is tired of being taken advantage of. However, they are also aware that they may only be of use to their partner, and they question whether their honesty about wanting to leave will make any difference.


The chorus "Hopeless, that this will turn out better, this isn't what I wanted" reveals the desperation of the singer's situation. They had hoped for a better ending to the relationship, but their hopes have been crushed. The line "I should have listened to them" suggests that the singer's friends may have warned them about the partner's behavior but they chose to ignore them. The last two lines of the chorus "Go thank yourself for nothing, it's really all you're good for" show the singer's anger towards their partner who they view as a waste of time.


Overall, the song "Hopeless" is a sad tale of a failed relationship built on one person's exploitation of the other. The singer has reached a point of disillusionment, and the song describes how they have come to terms with the reality of the situation.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh no, not this time too
Expressing disappointment in a repeating situation


I'm the only one you got to use
Feeling used and taken advantage of in a relationship


And if I tell you all this could be
Questioning the validity of a relationship


Nothing more than a way to leave you
The fear that the relationship is one-sided and the other person will leave


Would you want me
Wondering if the other person would still want to be in the relationship


And now you're sorry for the things you did to me
Feeling regretful for past actions that caused harm in the relationship


I want you to know
Expressing a desire for the other person to understand their feelings


I feel I was the one who got used and use to
Admitting to being manipulated and taken advantage of in the past


Just about anything you would tell me
Being too trusting and believing everything the other person said


But those days are more than over now
Realizing that they are not going to continue being used in the same way


Hopeless
Feeling like there's no way to fix things


That this will turn out better
Expressing doubt that things will improve


This isn't want I wanted
Feeling disappointed in how things turned out


I should have listened to them
Regretting not taking advice from others


Go thank yourself for nothing
Being angry at the other person for not contributing to the relationship


Its really all you're good for
Feeling like the other person has nothing positive to offer


Every year you wasted
Reflecting on how much time was lost in the relationship


And every half ass offer
Being unsatisfied with the other person's efforts to make things better




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Reservoir Media Management, Inc.
Written by: Van Hunt

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