Thirteen Grand
The Wrens Lyrics


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Talk about all that you kept bottled up inside
Makes you laugh
then it makes you cry
I said it all too late

Is this real at all?
you're not so sure
It's easy now
Because you're safe can't change your mind

Moving on's not fair when it
Leaves me on my own
I lived my life waiting for tomorrow
but I guess it's your turn now

Is this real at all?
you're not so sure
It's easy now
Because you're safe can't change your mind

We trade these lines to get us by
But what's it matter?
You keep saying Jersey's not a home

I thought I had it all figured out
but look who got it wrong

Is this real at all?
you're not so sure
It's easy now
Because you're safe can't change your mind

Is this real at all?
Is this real at all?




It's easy now
Because you're safe won't change your mind

Overall Meaning

The Wrens' "Thirteen Grand" is a poignant and introspective song that explores the conflicted emotions of a relationship that has come to an end. The lyrics speak to the difficulty of expressing one's true feelings, especially when it might be too late to do so. The song's opening lines set the tone, with the singer acknowledging the weight of unspoken emotions that have been bottled up inside:


"Talk about all that you kept bottled up inside
Makes you laugh then it makes you cry
I said it all too late"


The chorus of the song repeats a question that seems to be at the heart of the singer's struggle: "Is this real at all?" The repeated phrase underscores the uncertainty of the situation and the nagging feeling that something important may have been missed or overlooked. The singer's refrain that it's "easy now" because the other person is "safe" and can't change their mind speaks to the regret of missed opportunities and the challenge of moving forward.


Throughout the song, the Wrens trade lines that highlight the pain of the situation and the futility of trying to understand it. The refrain "you keep saying Jersey's not a home" is a poignant reminder of how even the most familiar places can feel empty and alienating when a relationship falls apart. Ultimately, the song is a moving meditation on the complexities of love and loss, and the ways in which stubborn emotions can linger long after a relationship has ended.


Line by Line Meaning

Talk about all that you kept bottled up inside
Exploring the things that you never said before


Makes you laugh
It can be humorous to finally speak your mind


then it makes you cry
But it can also be upsetting to think about missed opportunities


I said it all too late
Expressing remorse for not communicating sooner


Is this real at all?
Questioning the authenticity of the situation


you're not so sure
Feeling uncertain about the path forward


It's easy now
But it's easier to make decisions from a place of safety


Because you're safe can't change your mind
Even though it might not be the best choice, it's hard to deviate from the comfortable path


Moving on's not fair when it
Acknowledging the difficulty of letting go


Leaves me on my own
Feeling abandoned by someone who was previously a constant figuring in your life


I lived my life waiting for tomorrow
Reflecting on wasted opportunities


but I guess it's your turn now
Seeing someone else have a chance to make a change while you're stuck in the past


We trade these lines to get us by
Using small talk as a way to fill awkward silences


But what's it matter?
Doubting the value of these interactions


You keep saying Jersey's not a home
Expressing dissatisfaction with your current location


I thought I had it all figured out
Feeling confident in the past about what the future held


but look who got it wrong
But realizing that your expectations didn't match up with reality


It's easy now
But it's easier to make decisions from a place of safety


Because you're safe won't change your mind
Even though it might not be the best choice, it's hard to deviate from the comfortable path




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